"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ValleyDJing

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Yeah, I also told him I would help him get rid of his girlfriend's body in his "I'm gonna be a Daddy thread". I suppose I was being serious about that too?

Look...I realize it was immature. It comes with the territory of being an azzhole. Cry about it if you must, but I know I'm smarter and better than everybody else...so I really don't care about making an ass out of myself. It was fun, I thought it was funny, so I posted it. I wanted to see the type of reactions I would get. End of story.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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D!ck Ramsey

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In Valley DJ's defense, he kind of does warn you with his signature.

Im just sayin
 
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