jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
At the core, all relationships are based on one principle: the satisfaction of needs.
What needs does a woman satisfy for you, and what needs do you satisfy for her?
Beauty? A big ****? Money? Status?
Once we understand why someone chose us, it becomes clear why many relationships start and end. Often, it's because a specific need was met, and now that person has new needs.
If you’re homeless and I provide you with a house and food, eventually you’ll start wanting more, maybe a well-paying job. And once you get that job, I, your employer, may no longer seem as essential as I once did.
I believe the feeling of love often stems from someone fulfilling our current needs, and anticipating future ones, but in a way that makes us dependent on them to keep those needs fulfilled.
That’s why when people grow and become more independent, they often leave each other. They’re not chasing a healthier relationship; they’re chasing a new unmet need. For example, if a woman’s financial needs are met but not her sexual ones, she might seek satisfaction elsewhere, simply because she doesn’t have to worry about money anymore.
This might be the closest thing to what love is for a woman toward a man.
If she wants you because you have a big ****, then that’s your strength, not to manipulate her, but to use wisely and with balance.
This is also why many relationships are unhappy, yet people stay together: they have no alternatives, they’re not independent, and if they separated, they’d both fall into instability or loneliness. This isn’t something we consciously think about often, especially those of us with good intentions or a kind heart.
What needs does a woman satisfy for you, and what needs do you satisfy for her?
Beauty? A big ****? Money? Status?
Once we understand why someone chose us, it becomes clear why many relationships start and end. Often, it's because a specific need was met, and now that person has new needs.
If you’re homeless and I provide you with a house and food, eventually you’ll start wanting more, maybe a well-paying job. And once you get that job, I, your employer, may no longer seem as essential as I once did.
I believe the feeling of love often stems from someone fulfilling our current needs, and anticipating future ones, but in a way that makes us dependent on them to keep those needs fulfilled.
That’s why when people grow and become more independent, they often leave each other. They’re not chasing a healthier relationship; they’re chasing a new unmet need. For example, if a woman’s financial needs are met but not her sexual ones, she might seek satisfaction elsewhere, simply because she doesn’t have to worry about money anymore.
This might be the closest thing to what love is for a woman toward a man.
If she wants you because you have a big ****, then that’s your strength, not to manipulate her, but to use wisely and with balance.
This is also why many relationships are unhappy, yet people stay together: they have no alternatives, they’re not independent, and if they separated, they’d both fall into instability or loneliness. This isn’t something we consciously think about often, especially those of us with good intentions or a kind heart.