"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The more I go out the more I realize a very sad truth. 90% of guys are completely doomed. No matter what they try to do it is completely doomed to abysmal failure, because women have so many more options than the average man. The absolute worst is the Internet. Of course by barreling through enough you will find some interested, and you'll get an easy lay once you do. However, the absolute worst thing a guy can do is place all his pennies on the Internet game. I say this after having laid over 20 Internet *****s myself.


Now, there is this erroneous belief that if you finally sleep with enough women you will become comfortable in social situations. I used to believe this too. Definitely sleeping with many women opens your reality to new places. However, after sleeping with more than 50 women, I still have some social anxiety and I often just run out of things to say when I'm really ran down after going out many nights in a row. This is what happens when you drag things out and don't set some sort of time limit to get your ass in bed. Bailing too early results in fewer ONSs, though on a downturn. The same type of speechlessness has happened to me when I avoided people for a full day or two.

As I see it you need to have a lot of options. The eventual problem with too many options is it leads to burnout. No wonder women can be so *****y sometimes, they must have it 10x worse than myself and I'm one crabby mother ****er from dealing with the demands of the 5-6 women I'm seeing right now.

OK I need sleep.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Well you are pretty new, don't condemn an AFC just yet. They aren't all stupid, just really confused.

Where were you two years ago? I'm sure you weren't thinking how you are now;)

The more I go out the more I realize a very sad truth. 90% of guys are completely doomed

Your first words in the thread, that is all that speaks of what the topic is. The rest is all of your ridiculous(thoughts that I would ridicule) thoughts, the ones that are still AFC.

Keep posting, you started off pretty good. I checked your posts two days ago, I was impressed with your beginning, but you got here after I did, and I can still see your having the problems I have dealt with years ago... Too much pride.

Sober up, and let your rationjal self, come say hi:woo:
 

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Originally posted by everywomanshero
The more I go out the more I realize a very sad truth. 90% of guys are completely doomed.

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^pretty much...it could be less than that if they actually lowered there standards,come off there pedestals & upped there self-appearance.
 

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90% of guys doomed? most woman have many more options than the average man?

The more I go out the more I realize a very sad truth. 90% of guys are completely doomed. No matter what they try to do it is completely doomed to abysmal failure, because women have so many more options than the average man.
90%?!?! are you retarded, or just havent been out for a long time?
and some girls get it ALOT harder then most guys do.


I say this after having laid over 20 Internet *****s myself.
Are you smoking crack?
 

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Ok some background on me. im from the hood but i go to college with both people from suburbs and city. Its not 90% thats high.
(1) yes some how girls have more options than guys. always. even average looking 6 - 7s can have enough options to run games. girls can date up far and its normal. we cant go that far down.
ok ur game could be:
1 - u cant get azz from a female to save ur life
2 - u get it sometimes, alot of times drunk, 4 - 7s maybe, and always a hit or miss
3 - ur the man and u can get 9s & dimes and ur in control

(2) most guys r level two this is b/c theyve had years experience in high school with girls mistakes and stuff like that htey learn from. they learned everything slow at the pace like everybody else. us on this site, we were at 1 point behind everybody else at level 1. and we gotta learn the hard way. ie some chick drops u and made a ****h out of u. luckily i never had my heart broken but im still at level 1 - 2 trying to get this area of my life handled.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My Point

My point was to guys who get mad or don't understand why women (esp online) don't respond or ever call them back.

Right now on my phone I probably have unanswered txts from a half dozen girls. There is 3-4 mad because I forgot I was supposed to go out with them. This stuff happens once you start getting options and going out alot.

With women, it happens (having a zillion options) even if they are damn near ugly and hardly leave their homes. The only exception being women in small towns who are often very desperate and will jump at the first sign of fresh meat.

Being another boring guy who's "looking for mrs. right" will not help you get laid at all. In fact, it's so overdone and predictable that it is amongst the worst colognes a man wears. Being a total a$$ will just make the ladies mad and they will quit talking to you.

The only solution that really works for me is to develop mad game and go out very, very often so you have as many or more options than women.
 

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I don't see what you guys are talking about.

What do you think a player is?A guy who has 2 women?...lol....

If a player is defined as men who have so many women after him that he throws them away.Then this thread is on point when it says 90% of men are doomed.

^That's how most men want to live and the vast majority will never see it.
 
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