The Sad Truth

[jprjrjr]

For the last few months that I've been on this board, I've been reading about all the "techniques" we as men must employ in order to attract, and retain women.

Something struck me about this; WOMEN MUST BE SERIOUSLY FVCKED IN THE HEAD!!!.

Why else would there be a need for all this shyt? I know some of you will say it's only natural for women to be attracted to this behavior, but why is that? Why wouldn't a woman like a guy who treated her well? Why wouldn't a woman want a guy who was reliable and trushworthy? This is exactly the kind of guy they say they want, yet when they get him, they don't want him......

If you think about it, women act like spoiled children. They whine about wanting this and that, but get tired of their play toys and want something new. I know not all women are like this, but in Western society where women are put on pedestals, and men are portrayed as ignorant, stumbling goofs in the media, it's no wonder how this crap has gotten out of hand.


Just my observation......

 

[CrotchSniffer]

its not just women.

PEOPLE are generally a little touched in the head.

 

[FM 3321]

Yes it's out of hand and we're all here to correct it for ourselves.

 

[Engetsu]

We all ended up here because there is something wrong with our natural game. A natural guy wouldn't need all this stuff, whereas he would rely solely on his instincts to attract the opposite sex. Women are not "fvcked in the head", as you say. They are simply women. Learn to accept that, and play with them, and you'll be a happier man

I'm loving the smileys! Especially the black guy: :nervous:

 

[JonJack]

It's pretty normal for people to say they want one thing but end up throwing it away soon after. People do this because they're ignorant. Or they just don't want to admit what they truly want for fear of being exiled or ridiculed. So people talk about and mention only the positive bits. The bits that would make them seem as if they are truly noble and a kindred soul.

Same with guys dude. If a girl you're going out with would to ask you if you'll ever cheat on her/ kiss another girl/ buy a pro, you're probably going to answer her with a straight "No". Honestly, almost every single guy cannot guarantee such a thing. If the situation is right, a guy will always be capable of cheating on his girl. But we never let the girl in on this. Our reasons may differ from a girls reasons, but ultimately, we're all just trying to project a noble image to the other person.

 

[spukee]

Jaded much? :trouble:

Honestly, no one's forcing you to play the game - AFC guys get women; just not as often, and generally they're not as happy with the women they get.

One thing that might help in your endeavors is to stop thinking of women as the enemy, and start thinking of them as people who react differently to situations than we men do. When you look at it that way, you'll see that the tips and techniques on this site aren't so much a form of manipulation as they are a form of communication that women react well to.

It doesn't take much to see that there are inherent differences in our genders; just because you don't understand a woman's motives, it doesn't mean that she's "fvcked in the head ." Yes, there are plenty of women who are... but then again there are just as many men with the same emotional problems, so there ya go. Dating many women gives you the opportunity to weed out the bad ones, and find the good ones.

 

[LuvMyArmyMan]

way to generalize there mister.....

Listen. Women end up marrying the nice, trustworthy and reliable man. And PEOPLE tend to wisen-up either during or after college. Yes, some women have unrealistic ideals of what kind of man they want (i.e., a brad pitt-type of guy or the jock, etc) and dont go out with perfectly great men yet some men have unrealisitic ideals of what they want in a woman (i.e., a woman who looks like a porn star and who is a size 2 with huge boobs and blonde hair) but they eventually realize that its unrealistic and find someone that is realistic for them and someone whom they know they'll fall in love with and get along with and marry.

So dont give up hope and resort to calling all women spoiled brats.

 

[arq-dj1]

man are losing what was natural to us, due to several reasons

we are only trying to activate our core once again... the same goes for feminazi bi*ches, they are losing their core too... they are embracing our core, leading to this type of androgenous gender.. nice guys at some extent are androgenous too...

what i question myself is, will always be nice guys? if everyone embraced their natural core, would that worth anything since everyone is doing it?

Dj are what they are because exists AFC, etc ::woo:

 

[CraigMack]

Originally posted by jprjrjr
For the last few months that I've been on this board, I've been reading about all the "techniques" we as men must employ in order to attract, and retain women.

Something struck me about this; WOMEN MUST BE SERIOUSLY FVCKED IN THE HEAD!!!.

Why else would there be a need for all this shyt? I know some of you will say it's only natural for women to be attracted to this behavior, but why is that? Why wouldn't a woman like a guy who treated her well? Why wouldn't a woman want a guy who was reliable and trushworthy? This is exactly the kind of guy they say they want, yet when they get him, they don't want him......

If you think about it, women act like spoiled children. They whine about wanting this and that, but get tired of their play toys and want something new. I know not all women are like this, but in Western society where women are put on pedestals, and men are portrayed as ignorant, stumbling goofs in the media, it's no wonder how this crap has gotten out of hand.


Just my observation......

It's not just the women. Look around at some of the members of this board. I've heard that one definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result each time.

How many times do you have to read some guy whines about girls not liking nice guys before he gets the picture?

How many times do you have to read post stating that women are fvcked up before the poster gets the picture and looks in the mirror.

It's the men who find their way here who haven't learned or it hasn't clicked inside their heads yet. You have grown men 24 years of age and older who are virgins on this site.

Now how fvcked up is that. Let's shed the light of reality on this situation. Many a normal guys will grows out of that kind of thing in their teens. Very few men will make it into their 20's still virgins.

The hormones will drive them to doing whatever it takes to get laid. Even if it means being a AFC. A normal man will take steps to insure his getting laid before he enters his 20's. Many have done the deed while in high school.

Fortunately it is my belief that the men who end up on these sites comprise a small minority of the men out there. And these sites do teach you how to handle women.

But are women really the enemy? I say no!

Women are not the enemy, what is going on in your own heads is your own demon that is holding you back. It is you. Your the reason why you've made women a challenge and a big problem. A problem so big that you need to devote entire websites to it.

I realize that there are women out there who use men and break their hearts and techniques may be needed to handle this. But my point is if you were a real man inside you wouldn't need these techniques to bolster up you up to be strong enough to handle a woman who is 5'3 and weighs 118lbs.

It is my further belief that for some reason many of the men who end up here have blocked their natural manhood from emerging and taking charge over their own dating life and experiences.

 

[spider_007]

People need to read this again http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16903

 

[jprjrjr]

Originally posted by LuvMyArmyMan
way to generalize there mister.....

Listen. Women end up marrying the nice, trustworthy and reliable man. And PEOPLE tend to wisen-up either during or after college. Yes, some women have unrealistic ideals of what kind of man they want (i.e., a brad pitt-type of guy or the jock, etc) and dont go out with perfectly great men yet some men have unrealisitic ideals of what they want in a woman (i.e., a woman who looks like a porn star and who is a size 2 with huge boobs and blonde hair) but they eventually realize that its unrealistic and find someone that is realistic for them and someone whom they know they'll fall in love with and get along with and marry.

So dont give up hope and resort to calling all women spoiled brats.

If you read my post correctly, you'll notice I said NOT ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT. I guess I am a bit jaded, but most of this stuff seems like game playing. I really think it boils down to the fact that women have more options, therefore can act anyway they want.

I appreciate the advice though. Thanks

 

[Tha Realnezz]

Originally posted by jprjrjr
WOMEN MUST BE SERIOUSLY FVCKED IN THE HEAD!!!.

They are.

But half the crap here is just mumbo jumbo regardless.It's not THAT hard picking up some women.

To those who say everyone is attracted to that behvavior...stop lying to yourselves.

If a guy acts like he's the **** 24-7 around other guys chacnes are he's gonna get his pretty lil' face smashed in.

Save that ****y sh!t for the b!tches.

 

[CraigMack]

Originally posted by jprjrjr
If you read my post correctly, you'll notice I said NOT ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT. I guess I am a bit jaded, but most of this stuff seems like game playing. I really think it boils down to the fact that women have more options, therefore can act anyway they want.

I appreciate the advice though. Thanks

About having more options:

Its is only a percieved illusion. We as men have options also.

 

[jprjrjr]

Originally posted by CraigMack
About having more options:

Its is only a percieved illusion. We as men have options also.

I agree we have options, but don't fool yourself. Women have WAY more options when it comes to dating. Even average looking women can get laid any time they want. When something comes so easy to you, it loses value. That's why we generally think women don't like sex as much as men. They do like sex as much as we do, but since they get offered sex much more than we do, they tend to only go for guys that meet their standards, and might be long term relationship material

We could stop this, but it would take a gargantuan effort. Men could simply stop kissing women's asses for sex, and making it just as hard on them as it is on us. This of course will never happen. Too many guys will dip their wick in anything that offers, let alone saying no to a beautiful woman.

 

[Delta Male]

Women are not seriously fvcked in the head. Think about the image which all of these tactics are meant to convey. Women want a guy who is dominant, social, fun, relaxed, well-dressed, sexual, etc. There is nothing wrong with wanting something that, it is perfectly natural. The end goal of all all tactics should be to bring you to the point where they are internalized, and you no longer need any tactics.

-Dan

http://www.rapidsocialimpact.com

 

[Dominant]

If a dog humps your leg, you don't think the dog's f'd in the head.

It's just the dog's nature.

A lot of what women do and respond to seem screwed up in the head to us.

However, it's just their nature. They aren't men. They're different creatures. Nothing is inherently wrong with them, they're just different.

Men respond largely to looks, women not so much. Men see nothing wrong with hooking up quickly with a woman they hardly know, women do have issues with this. Men don't care if a woman can provide (well I do, but most men don't), women care about something like that.

Just accept that women are different and don't think like men, don't fight it. It's not going to help you to be frustrated with the differences, that frustration will only pull you farther away from what you want, more women.

-Dominant