Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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"The Rules" Was 10 years ago. There is a next gen now.. take a look

IamtheAlphamale

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http://www.datingwithoutdrama.com/

From what I read she seems pretty much like the female equivelent of De Angelo. I found out about this because the girl I am chasing.. (asked her out about 10 times) is using this.

I knew she was not a rules girl so I went and took a look around and this is exactly her. I think you guys will be extremely suprised by this site. The Psychology is pretty interesting.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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interesting nonetheless. Ill chek when I have time. I hope someone keep this bumped.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I have 6 secret commitment fears?

huh

news to me.
 

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I think its more like a doclove than a deangelo. Someone from this site should write to her on behalf of men and explain to her why that stuff doesnt work...
 

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David Deangelo already wrote a dating book for women under a different pseudonym. I think the first name he chose was Matt, but I can't remember the last name. Little help???
 

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Desdinova said:
David Deangelo already wrote a dating book for women under a different pseudonym. I think the first name he chose was Matt, but I can't remember the last name. Little help???
I remember a Joseph Matthews.

But that book will be read by fat and ugly women alike.
 
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