"The roommate switch" can it be done?

[balla]

Luckily my plight is not as bad as Seinfelds, hell I don't even know if their roommates maybe just friends, however either way its going to take some tricky maneuvering on my part.

So basically the situation is their are 2 chicks. one cute one hot.

I see the cute one at the bar the other night and I go and start chatting her up and her friend comes by and she is smoking hot. I actually have good eye contact with the hot one even though she is talking to another guy and I'm talking to her cute friend.

so I go dance with the cute one. I don't do anything to provactive on the dance floor b/c I've already decided I want to try and get her hot friend. I end up getting the cute girls #(this could be a huge mistake!!! I know and I regret doing it now) but it was late bar closing time and there was no time to go and talk to hot girl. I guess this way I can get cute chick and her friends to come out with me and my trusty wing-man next week.

the cute one is in the bag no problem. but like I said I want to make the switch to her hot friend. it gets a even more interesting though b/c I remember hot girl from a party last year and I know she remembers me. long story short I rescued her from a horribly dancing kid. we danced and flirted a lot but we ended up getting split up that night, I hadn't seen her since last night.

SO my plan is to play up the "your friends and my friends should go hang out thing" with the cute chick. get her to go to the bar next weekend with her friends and then I'll go with my wingman.

He's good lookingkid and has good "game" or whatever so I'm sure if I introduce him to cute chick he can make it happen.
Then I'll go in for the hot chick. The only thing I'm worried about is the hot chick being worried about the cute girls feelings. I have a pretty good feeling hot chick is in to me so I'm not worried about making a good impression, flirting and stuff. I'm hoping my wings game is real tight so I can just be like "look shes having a great time" so me and hot chick can do our thing.

So any of you guys got some suggestions???? I gotta make the switch asap b/c the longer I wait the harder it'll be. I don't even want to meet up with cute chick for coffee or anything b/c that would be leading her on and sealing my fate.

oh and I'm a college senior and this is all happening on a college campus. so girls are "easier" and probably more up for this kind of thing. switching that is.

 

[Wiesman44]

Look man. Stop analyzing all this crap. Girls don't care about all the crap you listed above. I'm a college junior, and my bars turn basically into clubs at night. I'm fairly certain yours do too.

Try not to meet at the bar, just make sure they're there, and bump into them coincidentally somehow. See the cute one and hot one together, say hi to cute one, and then start chatting up hot one.

Long story short, if she's looking for a hook-up, she's not going to care how great of a personality you have. Soon as that music starts, and she's dancing, go up to her and start grinding. Keep in mind how provactively she's grinding with you, and if she keeps trying to give u attention. If you've got her grinding with you for 3 songs or more, make-out with her. If you were able to kiss her, she wants a hook-up. Grab her after the song is over, and tell her she's coming with you.

End of story....you just got laid

 

[balla]

I hope it'll be that simple but you know its not gonna be. unless their complete sluts who could care less what their friends think, which would be cool haha.

I mean just picture a hot chick flirting with your firend, and then the next time you two see her shes flirting with you? thats why I think I have to have my wing taking care of cute chick.

Try not to meet at the bar, just make sure they're there, and bump into them coincidentally somehow.

thats a little easier said then done. obivously I would love for that to happen then I wouldn't have to call cute chick. but at my campus I'm just as likely to not run into them at the bars for another 4 weeks as run into them next weekend. lots of bars, who knows where they'll end up

but I kinda like the idea of not calling though b/c I don't want cute girl fallen for me and hot girl feeling like I'm off limits.


hmm...thanks for your reply

 

[Wiesman44]

I hope u know I'm not speaking out of my a$$, but out of experience. There's two types of girls at the bars. The one's that go there to drink and have a good time, and the ones that want that and a hook-up. The girls that want the hook-ups are usually the single girls that are very horny b/c they haven't got a$$ in a while. They make this known to u subtly on the dance floor.

Granted some girls do not want to be thought of as *****s or sluts, so they won't do that. But the chicks that want the hook-ups will hook-up ! These are usually the girls that are a little freakier than the rest.

"try not to meet at the bar, bump into the coincidentally"

Sorry bro, I thought this would be easy for you. At my college, many of the party crowd hits the bars on Thursday night. The weekends are for partying in apartments and whatnot. If i've met a chick at one of the 3 bars on campus, chances are next THursday she's going to be there as well.


"I hope it'll be that simple but you know its not gonna be. unless their complete sluts who could care less what their friends think, which would be cool haha" .

The thing is man, it is that simple. you just have to find the right girl that wants to hook-up. I mean, you do need a little conversation in there, but thats not whats gonna get u laid. The way she dances / grinds with you WILL signal whether she's looking for a fu#k or not. You just need a little experience in spotting this. Some girls are definitely attention *****s, but you can usually weed them out by trying to make out with them. If you can make out with her at a bar on campus, u can get her to your room. Its that simple.

Granted my way of approaching girls at college bars / clubs relys greatly on my looks seeing as you can barely hear anyone after 11 at the place, but my looks definitely help me rather than hurt me. I'm not gods gift but I'm not ugly.

Why am i not telling you how to find a way to approach this one chick ? B/c you can go to a bar where you can dj lots of other hot girls. Don't focus on making a special situation so you run into this one chick. WOrk on improving your overall game so the next time you see a hot chick at the bar u want, u dont need to worry about having friends of friends of friends introducing u to her so everything is perfect

 

[balla]

your advice sounds pretty spot on. I'm not bad when it comes picking up chicks in the bars. And yes the sluttys definitely will let it be known when they want to hook up.

I just wanted some advice on this specific situation(see first post) since I'm trying to get with this girls hot friend, but its obivous the cute chick likes me. Hence she might try and **** things up or her friends might be hesitant because she knows her cute friend likes me.

if you have actually made this kind of switch between friends I would like to hear about that specific instince. Your general advice is helpful though.

 

[Wiesman44]

Okay then. You dont want the cute chick but you're worried about the fact that cute chick wants you.

There's a big difference here. If the cute chick doesn't know u that well, only from a few encounters, chances are she just thinks you're hot with a good personality or whatever. She just has IL in you. If, in fact, you've known her for months, and u know she likes u, this is a crush, and is in fact, a bad situation b/c she will get offended if u get with her friend.

In this case, you're in the clear, so I highly doubt there will be any female ****blocking. You're free to go about getting the hot chick.


You're making this whole switching thing to be too much of a big deal. Nobody is f*king anyone yet, nobody is dating anyone, so there's no switching. All you have to do is see cute and hot chick together, bring the wing, and talk to them as a group. Then single hot chick out individually, chat w/ her, forcing wingman to talk to the other chick. Tell the hot chick she's gonna go dance with you. Grind with her, do provactive ****, and work the game.

End of story. Its not simple, and dont worry about other chicks feelings. Don't analyze women. They're unpredictable and you'll end up screwing yourself. Take the situation from the top without thinking about who likes who. Go right for hot chick.