So, I think me and my roommate are a couple now. We're having sex regularly, and can't keep our hands off of each other. She still seems a little weird about other people knowing about us, but that didn't stop us from ****ing in the living room while the other roommates were in the next room over watching a movie. Everything seems cool.
But last night she threw me a curve. We went over to a friends house, and on the way she said that she wished she hadn't given me a hicky the night before, because she knew everyone would say something. I said, "Who cares if they do?". Sure enough, when we got there, somebody noticed and made a comment, and both of us got awkward fast.
I wasn't feeling good at all last night, so I was quiet, and she interpreted it as me being "bltchy". We had a couple of arguments, and we kinda kept our distance from one another.
The biggest problem though, was that one of her friends was there, and I had a week-long fling, or whatever you want to call it, with this girl a few years ago. I have ZERO interest in this girl. None! But my roommate still gets jealous.
This other girl is obnoxious. Like, throws stuff, talks about farting, laughs when somebody is having a serious coversation, obnoxious. I can't stand her. When she left my mood must have lifted a little, and I became more social. My roommate told me she thinks I'm only pretending to not like this other girl, and wouldn't believe me when I said I couldn't stand her. Probably because she sent me a comment on myspace about how she misses hanging out with me. We argued about it in the car, and she said that since we had a "relationship" in the past, that I might still have feelings for her (not that I ever did in the first place). Then she told me to just forget about it.
The rest of the car ride was dead silent. I brought it up again when we got home, but again she told me to forget about it. She told me she had to get up early today to hang out with her mom, gave me a hug and a peck on the cheek, then went to bed.
I ran into her before she left this morning, and she asked me how I slept last night, which was a weird question coming from her. I was still kinda groggy, and didn't say much, so she pinched my arm and laughed to get my attention. I pretty much ignored her until she left.
So I don't know what to think about this issue with the other girl. I don't know if she doesn't trust me, or if she's having second thoughts about us, and she's using it as an excuse not to like me, or if it's her way of bringing the idea of exclusivity to the table.
Oh, and she deleted her match.com profile, or she has it hidden. Either way...
But last night she threw me a curve. We went over to a friends house, and on the way she said that she wished she hadn't given me a hicky the night before, because she knew everyone would say something. I said, "Who cares if they do?". Sure enough, when we got there, somebody noticed and made a comment, and both of us got awkward fast.
I wasn't feeling good at all last night, so I was quiet, and she interpreted it as me being "bltchy". We had a couple of arguments, and we kinda kept our distance from one another.
The biggest problem though, was that one of her friends was there, and I had a week-long fling, or whatever you want to call it, with this girl a few years ago. I have ZERO interest in this girl. None! But my roommate still gets jealous.
This other girl is obnoxious. Like, throws stuff, talks about farting, laughs when somebody is having a serious coversation, obnoxious. I can't stand her. When she left my mood must have lifted a little, and I became more social. My roommate told me she thinks I'm only pretending to not like this other girl, and wouldn't believe me when I said I couldn't stand her. Probably because she sent me a comment on myspace about how she misses hanging out with me. We argued about it in the car, and she said that since we had a "relationship" in the past, that I might still have feelings for her (not that I ever did in the first place). Then she told me to just forget about it.
The rest of the car ride was dead silent. I brought it up again when we got home, but again she told me to forget about it. She told me she had to get up early today to hang out with her mom, gave me a hug and a peck on the cheek, then went to bed.
I ran into her before she left this morning, and she asked me how I slept last night, which was a weird question coming from her. I was still kinda groggy, and didn't say much, so she pinched my arm and laughed to get my attention. I pretty much ignored her until she left.
So I don't know what to think about this issue with the other girl. I don't know if she doesn't trust me, or if she's having second thoughts about us, and she's using it as an excuse not to like me, or if it's her way of bringing the idea of exclusivity to the table.
Oh, and she deleted her match.com profile, or she has it hidden. Either way...