The Roast MacAvoy thread

[MacAvoy]

Well I originally asked iqqi for her opinion in another thread and she suggested I start a new thread. So I obliged in the name of good spirits.

Iqqi,

Can you do me a favour since your pretty receptive of our personalities around here from our posts, what can you tell me about me & my life, my downfalls etc...

So I'll also invite the rest of you to participate. I'm looking for feedback on your perception of myself. Please keep out the positive as I'm already confident in who I am and already have enough of an ego. So please share any insights that you see about me as a man/DJ/ etc...

Don't be afraid to pull any punches, it doesn't have to be constructive criticism. Recently I've actually posted alot of myself & my mistakes in attempts to share with others so they can understand where I'm coming from so I'm not afraid of you delving into the depths of my jaded soul.

I promise that there will be no retaliation to anyone and it will be used as personal reflection. So I will treat this as a roast but so go ahead and give me the full 9 yards.

 

[jophil28]

So I'll also invite the rest of you to participate. I'm looking for feedback on your perception of myself. Please keep out the positive as I'm already confident in who I am and already have enough of an ego. So please share any insights that you see about me as a man/DJ/ etc...

Could you post a photo of you with your dog so I can show my G/f ( I could show my mother too !). She is a great judge of character...

Are you really serious, dude ?.

 

[iqqi]

FIRST: I doubt that you are old enough to post here. However, they DO say men mature slower than women... so I give you the benefit of the doubt.

Now seriously.

You are very insecure and needy. You only chase easy loose low quality women, and often find yourself in extremely disfunctional red flag situations that make me think you are a low class hick. But most likely, you chase these unstable situations to avoid stabilizing long enough to take a hard good look at yourself.

You will not take the time to get "real" with a quality woman, because you don't want to get "real" with yourself.

When a man places his all into a mature relationship with a mature woman, he sometimes fails. This does not have to be seen as a failure, because the man can then learn from his mistakes, and grow. Eventually he will be self actualized through experiences such as that (and others of course), and be closer to true peace and happiness.

YOU are insecure, and slightly paranoid and take offense sometimes when noone else would understand how or why.

This is directly because of your insecurities and FEARS.

You do not want to face your fears, or insecurities.

You would rather take the easy way out.

Your constant behavior of messing with wack jobs is the same level as a drug addict or straight up alcoholic.... you are avoiding yourSELF.

You need therapy.

Besides that, you seem pretty darned intelligent.

 

[MikeYikes122]

You're not serious are you?

If so, this thread is pretty ridiculous. You can't expect people you've never met to have any notion of the kind of person you are. I guess we could formulate some sort of opinions about your personality based on your posts and the things you say in the chat room, but for the most part, we're not going to be able to answer a question like this. None of us has ever met you. We haven't hung out with you, nor have we seen any of your mannerisms or how you act in social settings.

I know personally I have completely different qualities in real life that I don't show off on this message board. I'm more myself when I show up in that chat room, but still, I'm definitely not me. Even when people in real life try to tell me things about myself, I just laugh at them because they don't know me at all. There are probably only four or five people on this Earth I'd accept that kind of criticism from, and I can promise you none of them posts on SoSuave.

I don't have any idea about the kind of person you are, but I do get the feeling you might be taking this message board a little too seriously judging by the tone of the posts I've recently read from you. Maybe you should take a few days off from here? I don't know. I'm not trying to be critical, just trying to be helpful.

 

[cordoncordon]

FIRST: I doubt that you are old enough to post here. However, they DO say men mature slower than women... so I give you the benefit of the doubt.

Now seriously.

You are very insecure and needy. You only chase easy loose low quality women, and often find yourself in extremely disfunctional red flag situations that make me think you are a low class hick. But most likely, you chase these unstable situations to avoid stabilizing long enough to take a hard good look at yourself.

You will not take the time to get "real" with a quality woman, because you don't want to get "real" with yourself.

When a man places his all into a mature relationship with a mature woman, he sometimes fails. This does not have to be seen as a failure, because the man can then learn from his mistakes, and grow. Eventually he will be self actualized through experiences such as that (and others of course), and be closer to true peace and happiness.

YOU are insecure, and slightly paranoid and take offense sometimes when noone else would understand how or why.

This is directly because of your insecurities and FEARS.

You do not want to face your fears, or insecurities.

You would rather take the easy way out.

Your constant behavior of messing with wack jobs is the same level as a drug addict or straight up alcoholic.... you are avoiding yourSELF.

You need therapy.

Besides that, you seem pretty darned intelligent.

I second this, and have said many of the same things in my responses to various Mcavoy posts.

 

[romangod]

You seem like a good guy but I fear your downfall will be your "nice guy" personality. You tend to AFC thinking and have trouble differentiating between what is important and what isn't important in life. I think you're a straight-up guy and would make a loyal friend to another guy but that same trait will harm you with women. Being a fellow Canadian is a plus but being Canadian also means that you have to fight the Matrix harder and longer due to our AFC culture. Still, I think you're a good guy and an asset to SS. Cheers!

 

[Colossus]

I think its a funny idea. Everyone loves a good roast.

They are best when held by people who actually know you as a person.

I think you've mellowed out a lot Macavoy. I used to have you on my ignore list because I found your posts so utterly annoying. But now I read many of them

 

[Phyzzle]

Dude, ur a total f@g

No, okay, seriously, sometimes I think you're going to be on Maury one of these days. You apparently get laid more than enough, but they seem to be women in dysfunctional families, who are either hermit-like social outcasts or total alcoholic bar flies . Often you get to see just how dysfunctional the families are by banging the sisters, mom, and aunt.

I'm telling you, if I were dating a chick, and went to her house, and her mom and aunt starting flirting hardcore, I'd be like WTF kind of people live here?

I think you've mellowed out a lot Macavoy.

Totally agree. When he got out of that last awful relationship, it must have been a weight off his back.

 

[STR8UP]

You're not serious are you?

If so, this thread is pretty ridiculous. You can't expect people you've never met to have any notion of the kind of person you are.

I think that was his point.

I guess we could formulate some sort of opinions about your personality based on your posts and the things you say in the chat room, but for the most part, we're not going to be able to answer a question like this. None of us has ever met you. We haven't hung out with you, nor have we seen any of your mannerisms or how you act in social settings.

Which is what I keep trying to tell people.

A lot of people on here THINK they have other poster's lives figured out, but in reality it's like looking at the state of Texas through a microscope.

And it's almost to the point where I can't post ANYTHING whatsoever that is personal in nature because it simply turns into a few people being entertained (which is the only reason why I share, really) and then a bunch of others trying in various degrees to figure out my "problem" or telling me to basically "put up or shut up". Nothing productive comes of it and we all just go around in circles.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Well I originally asked iqqi for her opinion

and that was the beginning of the end. Why would you care what she thinks?

 

[MacAvoy]

thank you to everyone who participated in my little "experiment"

 

[iqqi]

I think that we know more about each other from this forum than others might know about in real life, simply because your real thoughts and stances are out in the open here, and you can take the time to really write out what you think.

I bet not many people in some of your real lives know just what you think about certain issues. You can get SO MUCH out of what a person is saying, you get into their heads. And they let you, because they know they don't have to own up to you in real life, and they feel free to say what they really think or mean at the moment.

 

[ketostix]

I think that we know more about each other from this forum than others might know about in real life, simply because your real thoughts and stances are out in the open here, and you can take the time to really write out what you think.

I bet not many people in some of your real lives know just what you think about certain issues. You can get SO MUCH out of what a person is saying, you get into their heads. And they let you, because they know they don't have to own up to you in real life, and they feel free to say what they really think or mean at the moment.

And that's how I know you're bad news

 

[Last Man Standing]

And that's how I know you're bad news

She makes a true statement! I am in real life as I am here - and this is a positive, because truth is a positive!!

Macavoy, I rather roast a duck!

I don't know enough about you to roast you!

 

[mrRuckus]

LMS, you go around yelling about hors in real life?

 

[Last Man Standing]

LMS, you go around yelling about hors in real life?

Absolutely, I have no problem calling a hor a hor to her face if she has a hor attitude and think that she is a man!!! Even my own family members!!

These hors are so bold today - they've become as men! But they are not men and know their boundaries if you confront them as a man should!!!

I called the radioo station and called them hors - they're destroying our city and the cost is extremely high to take care of them and their hor babies!!! I said this on the air waves - it's the truth but no one wants to say it!!!!!

 

[Sandow]

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