"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Return of Skinny

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Alright guys, this is my 1000th post (almost). This also marks 1 year since I joined the SOS community. Boy, what a ride it has been. In August 2013, I had no idea what I was doing with women. I was an AFC and on top of that I was a depressed alcoholic. Since then, I’ve had a gf and a few plates. In the past 12 months, I have gotten great input from guys like PairPlusRoyalFlush, Atom Smasher, Mike32Ct, Spiegel, zekko, Espi, and even PlayHer Man. I wanted to share some of the tips I got that resonated with me the most:

1) Never let the pursuit of women get in the way of your professional goals.
2) Work out regularly. Not just to get tail – you will look better and feel healthier.
3) Read books on game and self-improvement. The ones by Brian Tracy were most helpful to me. And of course, reading Neil Strauss has changed my perspective.
4) Treat HB 9’s like they are HB 2’s.
5) Don’t let one rejection ruin you. If you aren’t getting rejected, you’re not trying.
6) Don’t get satisfied by just one woman. If you don’t you will risk oneitis.
7) Don’t put puss on a pedestal. She’s not that special, and if you treat her like she’s really special, you’ll be an AFC.
8) Social circle is king. Expanding your social circle will do wonders for your game.
9) Try approaching without drinking. Don’t use drinking as a crutch.
10) Track your progress and set small goals. Over time, your hard work will build up.

That’s it folks! It’s good to be back!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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HowardHughesDicaprio said:
You sent me a message a while back, how did things go with the brunette HBB you met in LA?
Oh, the Italian girl. Well we were texting back and forth after the date but then she went ghost. I didn't expect it to last that long since we are 400 miles apart. I'm sure I'll run into her again when I'm down there since we are connected thru mutual friends.
 

Lotus Effect

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Good to see you like this mate!

Reading this, comparing to you older posts, we all can see that you have really gone way too far from that sorry self you were back then!

It was really inspiring reading sh*t like this from you Skinny! Cheers! :up:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Welcome back.
 
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Gray The Prince said:
1000 posts in a year, damn. I've been here for almost four and don't have that many.
I've been here for 10 and I'm still pretty AFC/Autistic. What is your point?
 
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