"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Just a quickie here...Soem girl wrote on my Facebook wall the other day and I responded with like hows your summer going? missing me yet?

Then she wrote back saying ofcourse i miss you. do you miss me? and my summer is blah blah blah..

I wanan leave a little C+F int here but thats definately one of my weak points in my game so I need a little help on what to say...

Also, what are some good threads with C+F tips and what not?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Tell her how great your summer is and don't say anything about you missing her. Leave that out and make her wonder.
 
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yOU SAY U MISS ME BUTT actions speak volumes......what do u miss most about me (gets her thinking).
 
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