"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The RELIGION issue...

azanon

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Desdinova said:
...and that's approximately how many women aren't worth a DJ's time.
Look, I'm trying not to disrespect some of my favorite posters here (including my favorite), but again, you DO realize that some of our most knowledgeable DJ's here profess Christianity? What I'm trying to get you to see is that I believe.... no, I know... that you're being a little extreme on this. Point being, if these women aren't "worth our time", then neither are the men professing it.

In all the circles I go here in LR Arkansas, if I told I must take a man to the best looking, highest quality, best character women that I know here in LR, I would tell him "lets wait until Sunday morning" and I'd carry that man to my "wealthy" baptist church.

Facts are facts, and in LR arkansas, that's where the best looking, wealthiest, smartest, most educated women are.


...and maybe that works for you. It sure as hell didn't work for me.

Did I ever tell you about the wannabe feminist that I dated? She got the idea to join a church.
In Arkansas, to say "christian feminist" would be an oxymoron. One's automatically at least 50% wrong with that statement here. I presume this is different in other parts of the US?

When she told me about her interest in religion, I asked to see her brand new bible. I showed her the chapter in (Exodus??) where anything a woman touches while she's on her period is unclean in God's eyes - including herself. She quit going to church after that :D
Believe me, you don't have to convince me the bible is significantly flawed.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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