"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The relaxation of warriors.

S.U.R.F.

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I had a thought after thinking about this tasty piece of ass in my college. Shes like this pretty innocent looking white girl with a nice body. But whatever. My point being I was thinking about how someone would get into bed with this girl, then I was like hmm perhaps ****y-funny... or whatever technique I was thinking of. I remembered something:

I once read a quote saying women is the relaxation of warriors. Or something that sounds cooler. I think it makes alot of sense.

I mean, when you think about it, girlfriends, friends or anything that involve OTHER PEOPLE will change. You lose friends, even girls that you love alot will one day die on you, or break up with you (all relationships end like that). So therefore, you really got YOU. YOU, the warrior.

So you need to build YOURSELF up. Here are 3 phases that I'm going through.

1. Chasing girls. Seeing girls that are cute, chasing them. Failing badly.
2. No longer chasing women. But still thinking about the concept of women and **** like that.
3. Focusing on my OWN life and letting myself be awesome. Follow your dreams.

Chasing any individual women is really stupid now, because she can't be a big proportion of your happiness in life. Therefore, proportional to your effort = not too much.

Bottom line for this is that you need to focus on what you want in life (that does not depend on anyone other then YOURSELF).

When it comes to women, I suppose yes there are techniques, but theres also the apoc opener, which I love. Technically its all about NOT WASTING TIME, its all about getting straight to it.

I no longer believe that you can make a girl like you. I mean she will like you, or not like you. Its really kinda like presenting the best you to the world. Like selling a product. Truly amazing products, the salesman just puts it on display and go...you like? He doesn't use gimmicks and **** like trying to hoodwink you into buying some bad stuff, its just you like? If you don't, others will.

So...not alot of time wasted. I think that after you realize your a warrior. Become a warrior. The relaxation will come. Its like you don't want to work, and only want the prize. So you work on getting the prize... sure you might get it. But you realize that the process is whats really important. Its about being a warrior, not what you get from being the warrior. I think, I'm not sure. So yeah....share your thoughts.

go warriors go! :D

EDIT : "Man must be trained for war, and woman for the relaxation of the warriors; all else is folly." ~ Friedrich Nietsche
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Easy on Nietzsche there, this fella is only too prone to favorable interpretations.
 

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PapiChulo said:
Easy on Nietzsche there, this fella is only too prone to favorable interpretations.
I'm glad somebody said it before I had to...


By the way, all of Pook's writings absolutely reek of Nietzschean philosophical views...Some of the quotes he took almost straight from the texts..
 
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