MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
The relationship between sex and marriage - from Hef himself
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The article is a good piece of self-promotion. Insofar as the link between sex and marriage, apparently even Hef himself doesn't know how to keep a relationship decently hot. Doesn't mean it can't be done.
He gets dumped by women. He also keeps in touch with exes. They LJBF him. He gets used by 20-something bimbos like that what's-her-name he was keeping in style at the mansion and it turns out she was cheating on him (recall when she was interviewed about that, admitting she cheated on him in a national article and said, "I didn't mean to hurt him" uh huh, uh huh). I'll bet he's still friends with her though. Props to him for Playboy and changing the face of America, but you have to ask, what else doesn't he know?
He gets dumped by women. He also keeps in touch with exes. They LJBF him. He gets used by 20-something bimbos like that what's-her-name he was keeping in style at the mansion and it turns out she was cheating on him (recall when she was interviewed about that, admitting she cheated on him in a national article and said, "I didn't mean to hurt him" uh huh, uh huh). I'll bet he's still friends with her though. Props to him for Playboy and changing the face of America, but you have to ask, what else doesn't he know?
That's probably the case, but I also figure it is in large part due to the fact that he's just plain old; withered body, weak in bed... the starlets just can't stand it. He doesn't get women by virture of being a desirable man, he gets his women through money alone. "Do you want to be in the magazine? Then be in my bedroom at 8 pm".
At least, that's how I'd run things.
At least, that's how I'd run things.
TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
i was married for 12yrs and had sex everyday, and it was the best sex i've ever had.... up until 3 years ago that is. 
Of course he's gotten, and still gets (to his surprise), women through his celebrity status, no DOUBT about it. But his AFCism can be seen all the way back to when he was creating Playboy magazine. Keep in mind this guy was promoting a life style where what made you the cool guy were things like your detailed knowledge of which hifi system delivered the best sound and knowing about the key players in college football and which Miles Davis record was coming out that month. Nothing about being a real man. And when it came to how to handle women, the Playboy Adviser made up a lot of stories to keep horny readers entertained. He's a product of his celebrity.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.