"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
The red pill/love and romance
- Thread starter Reykhel
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
DEEZEDBRAH
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It's time for men to evolve. The best example is to lead the way.
Rollo is a great resource but, shocker, he's married. He has risked throwing away half his ****. Tons of great red pill content but, when it comes right down to it, 99% of men fold. Rollo is no different. I think he operates in such a way, he mitigates follow out but, if his wife cucked him tomorrow, made false abuse accusations, he would get raped financially like the next man.
Marriage is dead. Romance is for cucks.
Lead. She follows or next! No ambiguity. Hot/cold? Take **** out. If you're not hitting it, someone else is.
dirtbird
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
lowlife
Don't worry we all believe you haha
DEEZEDBRAH
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Women are weaponized. Not getting the ring is enough to trash a man's life with false rapey accusations. Unicorn? Define? What a NAWALT? As if to say, she hasn't seen one up close before.
The solution is to not play that game. Marriage is a liability. One in which no woman is worthy of the risk. Common law is a liability. Single moms are a liability.
All of the above is like playing Russian roulette. Juggling grenades. Enough men have blown up and stupid fucjs continue to play.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
DEEZEDBRAH
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Run Forrest.
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It’s not hard to reconcile the two.
Love is real, if she likes the guy’s looks.
DEEZEDBRAH
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There's that war bride phenomenon whereby, women will cling to their new ruler rather than mourn the lost husband. Women are ruthless that way and if there's needs be any indication, look at divorce stats on gender or false rapey accusations, and any number of the #metoo nonsense. It's cratered smv and out comes victim hood.
While that may happen once upon a time, it's more common among our grandparents generation then even our parents. Never mind our Gen.
Women are chasing career and cratering her smv. She is a Chad *** receptacle until her epiphany phase, when 30 nears or as the male attention begins to dwindle.
Nah just realized the futility of it all.
"conversing" with the likes of you, who only spouts dogma and just regurgitates the same tired ****e over and over again....
you only sound like you have something wrong with your brain or something.
You are the same poster repeated over and over again. You and your ilk make a parody of this website
Probably best to leave you cartoon internet alphas to your fun
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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So, what you're saying is that, I am consistent and you're unable to articulate nor structure a logical argument.
Your edit is a pathetic attempt of a meaningless existence. An accurate portrayal of your approach or lack thereof with women.
The only parody around here is that pathetic excuse you call testosterone. Even more laughable is the amount of BBC your girls get.
You stopped your edit and went back to watching BBC cuck porn.
Sit down. Stfu. You just got owned.
You mad?
Really? I must have missed that...
Mad about what boy?
A lot of hot air coming out of your bloated carcass.
Most of your ilk are on the down low homey. I reckon that's why you have to do all that chest thumping like an angry gorilla....
you're compensating g. Anyone who does all that cartoon internet alpha ****e calling other men beta cucks over and over again....with
all that foolish teenage wangsta writing is trying to hard to impress the other boys...
When did the down low start for you? Was it always a hidden desire or was it uncovered in prison? Tell me, where you the aggressor or
the victim?
The victim right........but then you liked and continued it back in the hood with the other hiv filled brothers.
And now you must scream....."i am alpha".........but you know deep down inside your manhood is in shreads....just like your opening.
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Could you elaborate? I remember awhile back (I can't remember what thread) that you posted something about how you sometimes occasionally incorporated romance into your interactions with women while internally sticking to red pill ideals, but in such a manner that the romance was adventurous, never prolonged, and never too serious (in the sense that the romance was solely based on spontaneous fun and not onenitus).
I remember being able to relate to what you said, as it is something I do myself. I am not a romantic guy all all but every so often I am in a mood to act romantically almost to the point of ridiculousness for fun, where it's amusing for the both of us.
I think it was you Deesade, but I can't recall for sure lol. I would just be interested in hearing again how you incorporated romance and the red pill. Because I know done with the right mindset it can be very effective (for both plates and LTRs), if the intention of it is amusement and fun. On the flip side, I think a lot of men fvck up and get too emotionally invested in what they are saying, or they do it by wooing a girl they just met (and pedestalized) with the sincere intention of making her a long-time girlfriend/wife.
In my experience "lovebombing" " is only something a BPD does think boiling a bunny in a pot crazy if you will,I have never had a non - BPD lovebomb me ever..lovebombing is over the top behavior like flying you first class round trip to Europe for free just to fvck her (yes I have had this happen to me) It is designed to pull the target in (usually a high value male) and destroy him on purpose as it is all planned out devilishly in advance.