Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The red pill is strong

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Big fan and supporter of this site, too many guys feel lucky when they talk to a gal or "get sex." Swallowed the red pill and feels like my life has beyond improved. With my life (firefighter, athletic, not unattractive, house, boat, truck) and pill knowledge doing quite alright. Almost every time I grab a drink with a new chica by the end of the night it is almost guaranteed she will ask, "HOW/WHY are you single?" Usually ends up with fun for both of us ;-). My answer is usually just looking to see what's out there. Am I their "dream catch" and is this a usual occurrence? Also any better answers would be fantastic.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Her: How come you are still single?

You: I'm still looking for the right girl.
 

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crossfitter said:
Almost every time I grab a drink with a new chica by the end of the night it is almost guaranteed she will ask, "HOW/WHY are you single?" Usually ends up with fun for both of us ;-). My answer is usually just looking to see what's out there. Am I their "dream catch" and is this a usual occurrence? Also any better answers would be fantastic.
I think if I were single and a woman asked me "Why are you single?" I'd probably tell her "Because I only want women for one thing.". Either she would walk, and I could get some peace, which is a win for me, or she would come back with me to my place, which is a win. By the way, this would be an honest answer because if the relationship I'm in ended, I would have no interest in anything other than sex with women. The woman I'm with now is worth holding on to but there aren't too many out there that are.
 

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The best answer to "why are you single?" is --> "Because I broke up with my Ex".

Duh! :crackup:
 

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Danger said:
Her: How are you still single.
You: Just lucky I guess.
Her: <punches you>
^^ This.

Keep it light and funny. Play HerMan's answer was pretty good too.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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