Solomon
Master Don Juan
I truly feel sorry for young guys, I really do.
Yes, social media has ruined the dating game, and so has modern feminism, yada yada yada.
But let’s be real...when I first got on SoSuave, guess what? These same issues were being discussed to death back in 2008.
I’ll be the first to tell you: most westernized women aren’t worth a spit in a bucket. I'm not trying to be dismissive of men's experiences; I know firsthand how women suck. Going to bars, clubs, and mall approaches, there was a 4-year period where I was obsessed with game and approached nearly 3000 women (2008-2012). I genuiely loved to meet women and thus I had fun doing so but that time would have been better spent learning about stocks and such.
Moving on I genuinely believe a lot of young men today would rather cry and complain than take action. I'm not telling men to approach 3,000 women or even a thousand but a lot of men nowadays whining and complaining but never take action. So while men complain about 90% of women wanting 10 %of men. My hypothesis: The men compalining 90% aren't doing the work and only 10% are. Maybe it’s because this generation of men has the lowest testosterone levels since 1920s. (once again this pertains to men who complain the loudest on the internet including these content creators who are mostly low-key simps)
And let’s be honest a lot of the “Red pill” content floating around social media in 2025 is just recycled negativity. It’s the same message on repeat, packaged a thousand different ways. These YouTubers and TikTokers are getting rich off your frustration. I have met some of these guys firsthand and they have told me they only care about the money. A lot of these "Popular" Red Pill influencers don't practice what they preach, they date single mothers, spent money on escorts and onlyfans thots, get their girlfriend pregnant in hopes of keeping her after she cheated etc. Meanwhile they tell their audience not to do it but they do. The Redpill has been overtaken by grifters and false teachers.
6 years ago, I let myself go due to stress I was fat, struggling, and broke. Addicted to porn. I haven't watched porn since 2019. I thank God because it's not my doing but his. A few years ago I lost 40 pounds, doubled my income and my dating life changed. I'm not saying it's perfect far from, but it's better then whacking off in front of your computer
The solution? Go out and do things you enjoy. Approach life in good faith. Put in the effort to improve yourself and understand others. Understand that if something or someone is not serving you, remove yourself from that situation if you can or walk away from people who don't resonate with you or where you're trying to go!
If you do those things, you’ll live a fulfilling life. Maybe you’ll end up in a serious relationship, maybe you won’t but if you’re honest in your pursuit, you’ll enjoy the journey no matter where it leads.
Yes, social media has ruined the dating game, and so has modern feminism, yada yada yada.
But let’s be real...when I first got on SoSuave, guess what? These same issues were being discussed to death back in 2008.
I’ll be the first to tell you: most westernized women aren’t worth a spit in a bucket. I'm not trying to be dismissive of men's experiences; I know firsthand how women suck. Going to bars, clubs, and mall approaches, there was a 4-year period where I was obsessed with game and approached nearly 3000 women (2008-2012). I genuiely loved to meet women and thus I had fun doing so but that time would have been better spent learning about stocks and such.
Moving on I genuinely believe a lot of young men today would rather cry and complain than take action. I'm not telling men to approach 3,000 women or even a thousand but a lot of men nowadays whining and complaining but never take action. So while men complain about 90% of women wanting 10 %of men. My hypothesis: The men compalining 90% aren't doing the work and only 10% are. Maybe it’s because this generation of men has the lowest testosterone levels since 1920s. (once again this pertains to men who complain the loudest on the internet including these content creators who are mostly low-key simps)
And let’s be honest a lot of the “Red pill” content floating around social media in 2025 is just recycled negativity. It’s the same message on repeat, packaged a thousand different ways. These YouTubers and TikTokers are getting rich off your frustration. I have met some of these guys firsthand and they have told me they only care about the money. A lot of these "Popular" Red Pill influencers don't practice what they preach, they date single mothers, spent money on escorts and onlyfans thots, get their girlfriend pregnant in hopes of keeping her after she cheated etc. Meanwhile they tell their audience not to do it but they do. The Redpill has been overtaken by grifters and false teachers.
What we’re really seeing is a crowd of miserable, mentally unhealthy men leading with their pain, especially when it comes to women. But that lack of success with women often mirrors a bigger issue: a lack of success in life.
6 years ago, I let myself go due to stress I was fat, struggling, and broke. Addicted to porn. I haven't watched porn since 2019. I thank God because it's not my doing but his. A few years ago I lost 40 pounds, doubled my income and my dating life changed. I'm not saying it's perfect far from, but it's better then whacking off in front of your computer
The solution? Go out and do things you enjoy. Approach life in good faith. Put in the effort to improve yourself and understand others. Understand that if something or someone is not serving you, remove yourself from that situation if you can or walk away from people who don't resonate with you or where you're trying to go!
If you do those things, you’ll live a fulfilling life. Maybe you’ll end up in a serious relationship, maybe you won’t but if you’re honest in your pursuit, you’ll enjoy the journey no matter where it leads.
