The red flags you've seen and could've avoided...but didn't

[djjizzyjeff]

What are some of the red flags you may've seen in the past with chicks but didn't avoid them and learned the hard way?

The site promotes not pedestalizing chicks yet dudes on here chase a lot of damaged goods anyway as is evident by multiple threads complaining, with constant negativity towards women etc.

The site also promotes being a man of value yet men of true value wouldn't go running after BPD, or damaged chicks as is again evidenced by countless threads on SS. They's simply avoid those types even if it meant them being single. Which leads to the site talking about worrying about yourself first to be the best man you can be in life yet again...still going after toxic chicks..

The site also advises on red flags and against white knighting yet many posters seem to ignore the signs and go after certain types of toxic chicks regardless as if they themselves are powerlessly attracted to these types as if they could actually help a chick who can't or isn't willing to help herself.

All that said. What are some of the red flags/ warning signs you've experienced in the past and how have you learned to avoid those types of chicks if you have actually learned to avoid them as soon as you see them pop up? EX: BPD, Druggies, liars, AW's etc.

 

[plate's_empty]

When she suggested that we go exclusive except for the fact that she could still date other people.

Yes, this is true.

 

[Hydrak]

So many women these days are HPDs/BPDs/have several traits. Its hard for most people to actually know they are fvcked up in the head, since they seem normal at first glance. I've read up a lot on detecting people with all personality disorders so I can avoid them before I get entangled with them in the future.

Try testing them to see how they react in a certain situation, and analyze what they say and how they behave in general.

 

[fuko2007]

umm stoped seeing this girl for a while...got hooked back up with her and took her to my hunting club. Fvucked in the woods talked about the sex and who she had been seeing. Then she made the comment " when you go from longer and thicker to shorter and thiner your sort of like wtf" she was talking about this guy she was talking to while i went on a breif period of fvucking any and everywoman i came across that was dtf. Guess home boy had a small ****. But any waoman that brings that up abt a guy......RED FLAGGGGG....in hind sight i should have been like ***** whats your deal?. but im now in a fvucked up relation ship with that chick.

 

[Wilko]

Most recently, an FB who, looking back, was ridiculously sensitive about any comments about single mothers (good, bad, or indifferent). Didn't pay it much mind as I thought I was dealing with a self-actualised adult for the most part. One day she really starts wallowing it though, playing the martyr, so I call her on it and I wound up leaving in the middle of breakfast (I was that disgusted with her). Then she starts trying to compare the dressing down I gave her with DV (how's that for some cheek?!) - she went from miss independence to snivelling, blameless victim inside of ten minutes, and as disappointed as I was, the early signs were there for me to read had I been looking for them. Suffice it to say, that was that.

Don't misunderstand though, I got three months of great sex and fairly decent company out of it - and a fairly clean getaway.

 

[usscrum]

I learned all of these the hard way, each from more than one girl.

- Daddy issues of any kind. Dad was a creep, Dad didn't show het affection. Dad cheats on mom. FVCK HER AND RUN AWAY. OR DON'T FVCK HER AT ALL. SHE'S FVCKED IN THE HEAD. IT'S SCIENCE!!!

- she "doesnt like" PDA. 2 girls have told me this. Both would be all over me when we are alone, but when we went out and drinks started flowing they fvcked off and flirted with other guys. Both ended up being huge slvts who fvcked me over

- more guy friends than girl friends. She's a slvt

- her friends are slvtty and/or have fvcked up relationships. These are the girls she goes out with and associates with. These are the girls who give her advice

- changes social groups often. If she has drama with other girls she will have double the drama with you

- fvcks you without a condom the first time. This has happened to me and I'm a dumb fvcking idiot for going through with it but the girls who don't even mention a condom are *****s