The reason why I want to be in a LTR. Feeling kinda bitter.

[user43770]

Apart from the bit about not making women your focus, that is one of the sympiest load of bullsh1t posts I've ever read on this forum. Take your feminist bullsh1t attitude to loveshack.org please Mr. White Knight. Maybe one of the 'high quality' damsels over there would be turned on by your wuss attitude and proceed to jump your bones... oh wait that doesn't happen in reality. Poor you.

Exactly. Take this piece for instance:

A long-term relationship isn't about being able to **** 5 times a day or more, and sure that happens, and sometimes it doesn't. What it's REALLY about is connection, on a much deeper level than any ONS or FB situation could offer.

I've had many ONS's, and a few FB arrangements, and never have I felt more empty than after sex in those situations.

I've ****ed girls with incredible body's, wonderful asses, 9's, 10's - none of it was worthwhile other than I was able to brag about it to my friends: I still felt empty and unfulfilled, no matter how great the sex was.

In my LTR's the sex was ALWAYS better because it went deeper than just sticking my **** inside a woman I barely knew and shaking it around a bit so that she came multiple times, ejaculated, and told her friends how great I was.

You like falling in love? That's ok, man. I know plenty like you. You prefer cuddling to pounding? That's ok; you're not the only one. Check out loveshack, it might be more your steelo.

I already know what you're going to say: He's immature and doesn't know how to "respect women." Guess what, it's completely natural for me to want to fvck different women...and lots of 'em. Don't try to convince me that it's not. You like cuddlin'? Well I don't - welcome to evolution...