"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The Reason that AFC's exist - real life proof!

I.A.F.Y.B.

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You need to take your cape off. You cannot save everybody!

And what is the statistic? We are like the 10% of men who know how attraction and dating works? Not everyone is blessed with this information...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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positivity_injection said:
how would I get through to an AFC that I barely know?

by the way, i couldnt approach that cute girl that he wanted to talk to because my girl was right there with me AND it was her birthday, sooooo that wasn't gonna happen unfortunately
Okay well unfortunately we are not out to preach the Gospel of the Don Juan to everyone, so tryin to turn every AFC you know into a Don Juan will put you in the same situation that made you start this topic.. things are probably different in your side of the world.. but here.. people see your actions and style and if they like they ask " dude, how do you manage to get all these fly chicks" .. you then respond by giving him a ton of very valuable information so that he can end his miserable streak.

If he dont ask for help.. that means hes okay with what he has

"Before you change the world, find out if people like it as it is"....
 

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oldschooler said:
Desperate times, calls for equally desperate measures.
:crackup: Well im not too desperate to turn an AFC into a DJ so i tend to give up easily when i meet a stubborn AFC.. its his loss anyway
 

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In my opinion, AFCs are the product of a society who's mission is to deMAN the man..

Back in the recent and far past, men were MEN and women were WOMEN, it was clear and unchallenged. Then, all the sudden (we will say in the last 30-40 years or so, something like that) women decided that they didn't deserve all those horrable things they had to do like cooking, cleaning, taking care of the kids. The women as whole also found out that they have one thing that has the potential to give them power and control over the man; a pvssy.

Using their pvssys and attractiveness as bait, the women were able to convince the men "there is no need do all that hard macho manly stuff, you dont have to do all that, just be a wuss. its so much easier and it's what i want anyway!". .

Here is where WE THE MEN made a mistake, we bought this. After all, isn't being a wuss really easier than being a DJ/Man? It's less work, right, you gotta at least give me that?!

So, over time, in parallel to telling men that they didn't have to be men, women started not doing all those tough woman things that they didn't want to do, which was their goal from the start..."I don't have to do all this woman stuff, thats not my job anymore.. If my man gets to be a wuss then I get to be a carrier oriented b**ch. After all, he's getting to change his ways why shouldn't I".. So woman started having carriers and being b****es.

Then, this is where her grand scheme plan caught up to her. She wanted sex. However, she found that she wasn't attracted to her AFC wuss bag she created, so had to go out and find her a real man because that was what she was really attracted to.. This has happened and still is, women are wading through the AFCs THEY AND THEIR PARENTS AND GRANDPARENTS CREATED to get to the real men.

After all of this, several generations have gone by...Mothers, and fathers are STILL telling their kids that being an AFC is the way to go.. It's the matrix, and it's running warp 10 and multiplying like the borg.. Only a few of us out there know how it works and how to tear it down.. And I think a nice handful of us with this secret knowledge are right here on Sosuave..

Don't ever loose site of our mission guys, the entire planet Earth may be resting on us....
 

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
You need to take your cape off. You cannot save everybody!

And what is the statistic? We are like the 10% of men who know how attraction and dating works? Not everyone is blessed with this information...
I would say more like 5 or 6%.

Sir-M said:
things are probably different in your side of the world.. but here.. people see your actions and style and if they like they ask " dude, how do you manage to get all these fly chicks" .. you then respond by giving him a ton of very valuable information so that he can end his miserable streak.
That's exactly what happened with me quite recently.

A couple of months back, in a coaching class of 80 students preparing for college entrance exams (we'd all finished our school a few days before the class started), I liked the looks of a girl that I thought looked like an 8.5. Well, I was sitting in the front row, and everyone had to pass in front of me because of how the seats were arranged. So, when our break (recess) came to an end, there was a kind of jam because of so many students trying to enter at the same time. I found my seat almost at once and sat down. Now, this girl came and stood right in front of me, facing towards my right, as she had no other choice because of the number of students in front of her. She was with another girl (an 8). Well, I made fun of her finger-nails, got a smart reply back, made her friend laugh out loud and then didn't have time to give a reply as the teacher entered the class. (Side-note : This was at a time when I had not read on this website how well negging works with girls. At that time I did not even know what neg meant)
The next day this very same 8.5 comes to the class before I do. I always reached class at the exact same time everyday and I always sat at the same place. On this day, she came before me and sat down right next to my usual seat and the conversation took off.

After that everyday till the last day of the class, loads of guys kept asking me about her friend (the 8) and asking me whether the 8.5 was now unavailable because of me, and I got loads of requests from guys asking me to initiate a conversation with some girl for them so that they could then try and continue the conversation, or to introduce them to some girl.

Except maybe 3 guys out of the 55 here (yeah, a lot more guys than girls), everyone was an AFC treating me like some cool dude with chick-grabbing skills.

Sorry for the long post. Got a bit offtopic there, didn't I?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I tried to give a friend of mine advice since he consistently strikes out and gets friendzoned constantly. He said... But, if I do that they won't like me!

I could only say... which is better: to be liked or to be wanted?
 
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