The Reason Men Are Giving Up On Dating Is Women

[Gamisch]

Personally I dont think it’s social media or dating apps or discomfort or interacting with people. I think the problems are 2-fold.

1. Women are not virgins before marriage
2. Women are encouraged to divorce and cash out with help of politicians and the law

Suppose a woman had to be a virgin before marriage, had to have at least 2 healthy kids before 30, and couldn’t divorce unless there was an abuse or something. It would eliminate a lot of issues.

When women have sexual freedom during their most fertile years, it messes everything up, Now of course women can do what they want, but those are sensitive years that women are wasting, For women, time is much more valuable than for a man.

Cant put the toothpaste back in the tube.

When were women virgins? What time, what era?

 

[BaronOfHair]

I'll give the article and OP himself something approaching a point... Over the past decade, many women HAVE essentially become Sensitive New Age Guys https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-2007-nov-22-et-tell22-story.html bearing tits, perky rear ends, and vijayjays

Being within 500 feet of ANYONE of that ilk is less appealing than the mere thought of getting recircumcised with a rusted-out hacksaw

 

[magushero18]

shes pretty

 

[Doctor Europeo]

When were women virgins? What time, what era?

In every era, throught history, all women were virgins at some point in their life (even the town bicycles). But maybe Im missing your point.

Blackpillers will have you believe that 101% of women lost their v-card before 13 years old. People can believe what they want; I would say these numbers are closer to the actual truth: " 7% of women aged 22-34 in the U.S. reported being virgins "

Number of virgins in America hits record high

The number of male and female virgins in the U.S. has hit an all-time high since records began in 1982.

www.newsweek.com

But let´s assume, for the sake of discussion, that 40% lied about it for whaatever reason even though it was an anonymous survey. That´s still more than 4% of women being virgins. Lets say 1 in four women is overweight. We would still have more than 3% of women being virgins who are not overweight.

But the average SoSuave member is not top 3% men, and even if he was, he would still need a bunch of dumb luck to even stumble upon such a woman. I believe part of the problem is that the average SoSuave member has aged out of his chances of ever pulling a woman like that (and most of them, location didnt help either). That´s when the cope and the blackpill posts about women´s virginity start. Maybe Im worng, Im cool with that, Im just saying how Im seeing things.

Edit: Looks like I misread the intent of your post but Baron clarified. Sorry bro

 

[BaronOfHair]

In every era, throught history, all women were virgins at some point in their life (even the town bicycles). But maybe Im missing your point.

Blackpillers will have you believe that 101% of women lost their v-card before 13 years old. People can believe what they want; I would say these numbers are closer to the actual truth: " 7% of women aged 22-34 in the U.S. reported being virgins "

Number of virgins in America hits record high

The number of male and female virgins in the U.S. has hit an all-time high since records began in 1982.

www.newsweek.com

But let´s assume, for the sake of discussion, that 40% lied about it for whaatever reason even though it was an anonymous survey. That´s still more than 4% of women being virgins. Lets say 1 in four women is overweight. We would still have more than 3% of women being virgins who are not overweight.

But the average SoSuave member is not top 3% men, and even if he was, he would still need a bunch of dumb luck to even stumble upon such a woman. I believe part of the problem is that the average SoSuave member has aged out of his chances of ever pulling a woman like that (and most of them, location didnt help either). That´s when the cope and the blackpill posts about women´s virginity start. Maybe Im worng, Im cool with that, Im just saying how Im seeing things.

@BadBoy89 was implying was that there was a time in which most women were virgins until their wedding nights, and that straying was rare. Perhaps that was true, in hunter gatherer days, societies that were more agrarian, or under regimes devoid of civil liberties ala. Saudi Arabia

Goes without saying, here in The Post-Industrial West, 'dem days are more extinct than Hasst's Eagle, print media, and watchable programming on broadcast TV. By all means, let's encourage our fellow citizens to not go overboard on promiscuity/resist the temptation of OnlyFans. Let's also be humble about how much of this we can "fix"...

Skanks and harpies will ALWAYS compose at least 30/40% of the female population. No amount of protesting will ever change this

 

[Doctor Europeo]

@BadBoy89 was implying was that there was a time in which most women were virgins until their wedding nights, and that straying was rare. Perhaps that was true

I guess I missed this implication. My bad. I thought @Gamisch was headed into blackill territory. Thanks for claifying, and apologies to @Gamisch

 

[BaronOfHair]

I guess I missed this implication. My bad. I thought @Gamisch was headed into blackill territory. Thanks for claifying, and apologies to @Gamisch

Admittedly, this was my read on things: Those in question can clarify their own thoughts

 

[GoodMan32]

Because single men and women don’t know how to communicate anymore. It’s like we’re all too disillusioned and siloed into our respective social media echo chambers.

100%

Get off social media. Go hang out with people. Interact with them. Do fun things with real people. Improve your communication skills. You will feel better about yourself and improve your situation.

@corrector and @GoodMan32 are great examples of what happens when you don't.

I don't really post on here anymore. Yet I saw I was tagged. So I'm going to chime in.

I have no social media.

I've attended 2 concerts with a female coworker in the past 2 months (and as a result, ended up meeting some of her friends)

Additionally, there are plenty of folks in my condo building and office building I interact with (some of which I've posted about on the forum)

I socialize plenty. I'm not one of those people who works from home, never interacts with anyone, etc.

 

[corrector]

I don't really post on here anymore. Yet I saw I was tagged. So I'm going to chime in.

Exactly. They change the rules on the board because, ironically, people like @The Duke, make a big stink about what we are posting about and then the mods start changing the rules in such a way that they are saying that either you or I can't really post here freely without risking breaking one of these new rules, and then has the nerve to reference us on a later post without hearing any updates from you or me as to what is going on with our lives.

I have no social media.

That is why people should not make assumptions about us.

I've attended 2 concerts with a female coworker in the past 2 months (and as a result, ended up meeting some of her friends)

It's interesting how when either your or I post baby-step progress or any small type of progress is just dismissed on here. Unless you are getting laid with someone it doesn't seem to count for anything compared to the pros around here.

Additionally, there are plenty of folks in my condo building and office building I interact with (some of which I've posted about on the forum)

Again, where you have shown progress, social interaction, nobody cares about that. They just want you and everyone else to fit in their own tidy little narrative about how the world works, but the problem is life doesn't work out that way. We have to deal with the cards that we are dealt. Some people have better cards than others. Some have an easier time, some put in the hard work, improve and get better results, others hit a brick wall no matter how hard they try. There is no simple fix or example which is why its good that your stepping up to all of this and defending yourself on here.

 

[Gamisch]

I guess I missed this implication. My bad. I thought @Gamisch was headed into blackill territory. Thanks for claifying, and apologies to @Gamisch

You know, the real question of what is or what isn't blackpill is the following;

Was there ever really a time where most women were virgins? Because imo a woman's p00sy is just as" valuable "as a man's D ( and arguably MORE sensitive) It's just " what's attached to you" and it feels nice when it is touched....

So I highly doubt the fact that there ever was an era where " fecking felt less good to women". Especially when she hasn't fecked, heard its the best thing while her body screams to get fecked. But what ? Religion? Environment? Society? What's more powerful than waking up horny? Or getting horny in the proximity of someone you like?

So what is REALLY blackpill?; the fact that I say the fairytale of virgins is fake, or the fact that I don't think that there is a set number of women who don't wanna have sex because....some men who don't even understand the female sex organ claim they should be withholding from sex? Even flies are fvcking. It's the most natural thing to do for species ...

 

[BaronOfHair]

Exactly. They change the rules on the board because, ironically, people like @The Duke, make a big stink about what we are posting about and then the mods start changing the rules in such a way that they are saying that either you or I can't really post here freely without risking breaking one of these new rules, and then has the nerve to reference us on a later post without hearing any updates from you or me as to what is going on with our lives.

Similar would occur if you both

-Went onto a forum for aspiring stand-up comics or actors

-Bitched about not becoming paid regulars or booking roles

-Insisted on manufacturing rationalizations, whoever your peers provided you all with guidance on ways to remedy those difficulties

Jackassery like that is not only indicative of a lack of social acumen, but frankly disrespectful to those whom you two share cyberspace with

 

[Doctor Europeo]

You know, the real question of what is or what isn't blackpill is the following;

Was there ever really a time where most women were virgins? Because imo a woman's p00sy is just as" valuable "as a man's D ( and arguably MORE sensitive) It's just " what's attached to you" and it feels nice when it is touched....

So I highly doubt the fact that there ever was an era where " fecking felt less good to women". Especially when she hasn't fecked, heard its the best thing while her body screams to get fecked. But what ? Religion? Environment? Society? What's more powerful than waking up horny? Or getting horny in the proximity of someone you like?

So what is REALLY blackpill?; the fact that I say the fairytale of virgins is fake, or the fact that I don't think that there is a set number of women who don't wanna have sex because....some men who don't even understand the female sex organ claim they should be withholding from sex? Even flies are fvcking. It's the most natural thing to do for species ...

I said my peace, and I apologized if I misread. Im not really interested in discussing this particular matter any further, but I thank you for your reply

 

[corrector]

Im not really interested in discussing this particular matter any further, but I thank you for your reply

It is against the "updated" rules of this forum to have such a discussion.

 

[Doctor Europeo]

It is against the "updated" rules of this forum to have such a discussion.

Aight, I been ignoring you for a while but since you quoted me, here it goes. No one is promoting blackpill/incel speech as an alternative to seducing real women.

I have a personal opinion that certain statements are aproximating cope or blackpill territory, but Its just a personal opinion that others can agree or disagree with.

You on the other hand, have been discussed at length inside the Mod Forum, múltiple times. I didnt just woke up one day and decided to create a new Sticky, the Sticky was suggested by a different Mod iirc and It was discussed. i wrote It down, posted It and told the Mods "Feel free edit anything you disagree with".

I hope that make It a little more clear. Its saturday man, maybe you should do something else instead of being a pain in my cheeks

 

[corrector]

You on the other hand, have been discussed at length inside the Mod Forum, múltiple times.

You mean my loyal fan base? I'm flattered. I do have a good following here.

 

[MatureDJ]

It's like when trying to disassemble something and the screw just won't unscrew - at some point, after WD-40 or penetrating oil doesn't work. you just say fork it, and get out the Dremel tool to grind it until it breaks apart.

 

[MatureDJ]

Article below written by a 31 year old woman who lives in London. She is an award winning journalist. She is single and currently dating. Het picture below.

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Thoughts?

I'd hit it.

 

[MatureDJ]

We haven’t given up on women because of women. That is absurd to the 10th degree.
...
So in the end you have a society of sterile people.

It's OVER for SterileCels.

 

[BadBoy89]

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I'd hit it.

Every man would.

The point is would you legally commit to it and be with her forever and forever and never ever sleep with any other woman amd if she is not happy she gets 50% of your stuff.

 

[H8CourtshipWithAPassion]

yeah i think its already happening and it won't surprise me if it gets worse, there are more adult male virgins past their mid-20s and older than ever before, than compared to decades, generations past.