"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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the reason I trust men more

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Deep Dish

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Golden Balls is a variation of the classical prisoner's dilemma, a game which has been the subject of academic inquiry over the past half century, particularly by Robert Axelrod, and even Richard Dawkins talks about it in The Selfish Gene. Individual players choose to split, 53% of the time.
 

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I don't subscribe to the idea that all women are untrustworthy while men are trustworthy. IMO the vast majority of men and women are untrustworthy. I've seen many a good friend (or so i thought) try to down talk me to other people, and flirt with girls that I bring back.
 

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Yeah I'd need to see a study breaking OP's game down by gender with a high number of participants. So far he's only provided us with that example. Statistically irrelevant.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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