Eternal_water
Master Don Juan
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Just my theory, see what you think of it and weather you believe it.
Okay, I am coming at this from the evolutionary approach.
Males can have as many offspring as they want, they can potentially be getting 5+ females pregnant per day, whereas a female can fall pregnant like once every 9 months.
So the potential for offspring in females is dramatically reduced. Wired into the human DNA is the drive to continue the survival of the species and wired into female DNA is the drive to have offspring off thier own and for their own offspring to be better suited to survival than the offspring of others.
Therefore females don't just bag the first male on offer, they wait and choose the male they think has the traits that best serve the purpose of survival or in other words the male with the strongest DNA.
Today mothers often tell their kids to look after themselves first before worrying about others, they drill the "look after number 1" message into their kids - this helps them survive. However when we think about people in general, not relatives, just ordinary people we are all for equality, fareplay, kindess and being decent, but when it comes to your own kids you want them to make sure they are okay before worrying about others.
Bad boys have this trait, they care about themselves and not others, this is a trait females wish for their offspring to have so that their offspring can survive - therefore the female mind "falls for the badboy". Badboys also have other traits that help them survive etc being physically fit etc. the females want their offspring to be physically fit so they like this trait - this lead to them liking guys with muscles etc.
So for these reasons they fall for the badboy, they want their kids to have the same advantages as the badboy, even if they don't know it by which I mean its subconsious. The badboy treats them badly, they don't like that particular part and so complain about it, thats where their DNA backfires on them a bit. But they put up with the badboy treating them like dirt because it will help their kids in survival.
This also explains the modern obsession with vampires, especially the sparkly ones, they are the very essence of strong DNA and survival traits - if their offspring were invincible and immortal their offspring would survive for ever, so their DNA tells them to like vampires unaware that they don't exist.
Also the reason females are attracted to guys they see with other females: if other females have accepted them, then that means they must have the traits needed for offspring to prosper and many different females have seen these trends in him which means he has very strong DNA for thier own offspring. Also the prettier the females the stronger his DNA must be to be accpeted by them.
what do you think of this theory?
Okay, I am coming at this from the evolutionary approach.
Males can have as many offspring as they want, they can potentially be getting 5+ females pregnant per day, whereas a female can fall pregnant like once every 9 months.
So the potential for offspring in females is dramatically reduced. Wired into the human DNA is the drive to continue the survival of the species and wired into female DNA is the drive to have offspring off thier own and for their own offspring to be better suited to survival than the offspring of others.
Therefore females don't just bag the first male on offer, they wait and choose the male they think has the traits that best serve the purpose of survival or in other words the male with the strongest DNA.
Today mothers often tell their kids to look after themselves first before worrying about others, they drill the "look after number 1" message into their kids - this helps them survive. However when we think about people in general, not relatives, just ordinary people we are all for equality, fareplay, kindess and being decent, but when it comes to your own kids you want them to make sure they are okay before worrying about others.
Bad boys have this trait, they care about themselves and not others, this is a trait females wish for their offspring to have so that their offspring can survive - therefore the female mind "falls for the badboy". Badboys also have other traits that help them survive etc being physically fit etc. the females want their offspring to be physically fit so they like this trait - this lead to them liking guys with muscles etc.
So for these reasons they fall for the badboy, they want their kids to have the same advantages as the badboy, even if they don't know it by which I mean its subconsious. The badboy treats them badly, they don't like that particular part and so complain about it, thats where their DNA backfires on them a bit. But they put up with the badboy treating them like dirt because it will help their kids in survival.
This also explains the modern obsession with vampires, especially the sparkly ones, they are the very essence of strong DNA and survival traits - if their offspring were invincible and immortal their offspring would survive for ever, so their DNA tells them to like vampires unaware that they don't exist.
Also the reason females are attracted to guys they see with other females: if other females have accepted them, then that means they must have the traits needed for offspring to prosper and many different females have seen these trends in him which means he has very strong DNA for thier own offspring. Also the prettier the females the stronger his DNA must be to be accpeted by them.
what do you think of this theory?
