"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The reason for "Read the Bible"

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This is the first time I come in a while, but I was noticing some bashing of the people that read the bible. I am in no way claiming to be a master at scoring on command, but I do carry my own consistantly.

If the bible could be made mandatory reading, I would definately agree. It carries in it alot of good info, a fair amount of bad info, and a bit of repetition. Not only is it a good read, it teaches alot of the fundamentals of learning how to flirt and fcuk chicks.

What newbies should realize is that everyone comes into this site asking alot of the same questions, and they aren't often willing to do a search to get the answer they are looking for. If people applied alot fo the bible information, they would realize that the questions they are asking are irrellivent.

Newbies will claim that they've read the bible, but still need the question answered. To them, I say 'repitition is the mother of all skill', and 'information is merely potential energy, action is energy that gets results' so you must truly APPLY what you read.

The answers are always there, but if you are stressing about such small things, it's no wonder that going up to a girl in such nervousness that you cannot possibly succeed.

Anyway, the focus should be more on the results rather than the information... more can be learnt from field reports then just trying to figure out techniques and tricks, so to speak.... but on that same note, a salesman can make it with just one pitch practised to perfection.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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damn good post SPIS
 

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and oddly enough the only replies come from Mods and others that are called Master...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by So pimp its scary
and oddly enough the only replies come from Mods and others that are called Master...
You've been here long enough to know that titles don't mean jack. :p Good thread.
 

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Diablo, that may be true... but there are some titles that naturally draw more attention then others.

The original poster has a bit of influence also.
 

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Well, I might be diffrent than most of you guys, but I tend to not be a lazy poster. When I see a post where someone is acting like a jackass AFC, and needs a reality shot, I give them the shot.

A couple of times it seems like people tell these guys to 'go read the bible' because they don't want to take the time to respond to them or maybe don't even know the answer themselves and are impatient towards them. That's my observation anyways ...
 

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Laziness is definately a factor, I still maintain that there is more laziness in the person that refuses to read and/or apply the information in the DJ Bible than there is in the person that refuses to retype the answer to a question for the 30th time in a row.

Also, a lot of the time, some answers are SO situational that its impossible to grasp all of the subtleties of the situation necessary to provide an accurate response.
 

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True that!

The DJ Bible is pretty long and some people get bored -- but they don't realize its a goldmine of ideas, philosophies, etc.

Whenever I post, I give advice from my experience and in the end; i ask them to read the bible.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The bible is an excellent read...I made an effort to skim over the most important stuff before I joined the website. Everyone preaches that you must APPLY the knowledge aquired from this website in real life. I can not agree more. A lot of people think they can just read, outline, highlight, re-read, and it will make them a true ladies man.

If you absorb too much information, tactics, and techniques, you'll loose sight of your own game. You gotta get out there and use the information and suggestions on the website to supplement your own, unique flow.
 
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