"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The *real* source of the hatorade against the nerd issue

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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=146699


Anyway I Was lookign over that thread and I realized, why do we knock on this guy?

The reason why is, he is a failure at being a "MAN"

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Reasons.

1. A real man would not be a fat ass, he would take care of himself.

2. A real man would probably clean up his looks to a respectable level, its not that hard.


And thats probably why we all knock on him, cause all he relies on is probably fake pictures, a bunch of bullsht pickup lines, while completely forgetting, he's 6 months from diabetes II.
would a real man be dead in 6 months? Of course not, this guy isn't what we strive to be, he's fake.

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This guy wants to date 110 lb hot girls, yet is a complete fatass looking nerd, That is what gets to me personally.
He has high standards for people he "takes pictures" with, yet has low standards for himself, lazy , too fkin LAZY to workout and clean himself up like a MAN.



selfish hyprocritcal lazy fatass.



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This "fatass" would be the first to be speared accidently during a mammoth hunt if we went back 500 years from now.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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jcap said:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=146699


Anyway I Was lookign over that thread and I realized, why do we knock on this guy?

The reason why is, he is a failure at being a "MAN"

--------------

Reasons.

1. A real man would not be a fat ass, he would take care of himself.

2. A real man would probably clean up his looks to a respectable level, its not that hard.


And thats probably why we all knock on him, cause all he relies on is probably fake pictures, a bunch of bullsht pickup lines, while completely forgetting, he's 6 months from diabetes II.
would a real man be dead in 6 months? Of course not, this guy isn't what we strive to be, he's fake.

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This guy wants to date 110 lb hot girls, yet is a complete fatass looking nerd, That is what gets to me personally.
He has high standards for people he "takes pictures" with, yet has low standards for himself, lazy , too fkin LAZY to workout and clean himself up like a MAN.



selfish hyprocritcal lazy fatass.



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This "fatass" would be the first to be speared accidently during a mammoth hunt if we went back 500 years from now.

First of all I belive the mammoth was pretty long been extinct by the 1500's

secondly up until a 100 years ago this "fatass" would be the one being flocked over by women. Being thin back then meant you were a lower class because you had to work. Being fat and un-tanned showed that the man was wealthy (over abundance of food) and un-tanned (did not have to go in the Field and work.

This is basic social history maybe you are just hating because you are a dumb ass.
 

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Jealous a fat guy pulls more chicks than you? You cannot define a man by his weight or looks! It is how he acts and is.....
 

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Brandonc662 said:
First of all I belive the mammoth was pretty long been extinct by the 1500's

secondly up until a 100 years ago this "fatass" would be the one being flocked over by women. Being thin back then meant you were a lower class because you had to work. Being fat and un-tanned showed that the man was wealthy (over abundance of food) and un-tanned (did not have to go in the Field and work.

This is basic social history maybe you are just hating because you are a dumb ass.
This would be a semi-useful post if it were the 1890s. Next!
 

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jcap said:
This "fatass" would be the first to be speared accidently during a mammoth hunt if we went back 500 years from now.
Are you positively 100% sure that there were mammoth roaming the Earth 500 years ago??:crackup:
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LMAO
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i doubt this guy cares at all that he doesn't live up to your personal standards of what a man is... he's out there having fun... this thread is retarded. why even focus on people like that when you can focus on yourself instead
 

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Brandonc662 said:
First of all I belive the mammoth was pretty long been extinct by the 1500's

secondly up until a 100 years ago this "fatass" would be the one being flocked over by women. Being thin back then meant you were a lower class because you had to work. Being fat and un-tanned showed that the man was wealthy (over abundance of food) and un-tanned (did not have to go in the Field and work.
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Mammoths haven't been seen since the last ice age. The Dodo bird was hunted to extinction by Spanish Conquistadors in the 1500s - it was too large, clumsy and stupid to escape from men armed with slow-loading, slow-firing arquebuses.

As for what sort of body type was "in fashion" throughout history, I suspect that a lean build and defined muscle were preferred overall. If you do an "ancient statue survey" you'd probably find most of the recovered figures chiseled from marble or granite, or cast in bronze feature men and women with the sort of features we find desirable today.
 

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jcap said:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=146699



This "fatass" would be the first to be speared accidently during a mammoth hunt if we went back 500 years from now.
Or, he would be the one best equipped to survive when the tribe had to move on because all the berry patches were picked clean, and the local fauna depleted by overhunting.

I suppose I'm contradicting myself a bit here, between my above post and this one, but I think I illustrate an important point - that both a lean frame and body fat have some survival and replication value. Body fat is an unfortunate residual byproduct of a hunter-gatherer lifestyle. Storing adipose tissue is nature's way of tiding us over until we do catch that antelope or stumble across a patch of edible berries. The discovery of agriculture quickly, and almost completely negated the benefit of energy reserves stored as fat. It became a burden on those living in agriculturally productive societies.

There are plenty of shapely men who can't get any women, plenty who can. There are plenty of chubby, sloppy guys who can't get any women, and plenty who can.

I visited a client about a year ago, and we got into a discussion about cars (hubby is wealthy gallery owner, and they buy cars often). She talked about the salesguy at the dealership she likes to go to, and said essentially, "I always deal with X... all the women around here are in LOVE with the guy... he's fat, but he's like the funniest guy you could ever meet."
 
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