"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Real Reasons Women Stray

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DJDamage

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It all comes down to one reason: LOSS OF INTEREST.

I always tell guys to never stop being a challenge and to never ever get too comfortable in a relationship.

Your behaviour and perspective's of things really shouldn't be much different from the first day you meet her and onwards.

Women in a relationship will always try to coax you into being more 'open', honest and share with them your inner most thoughts and fears. Don't do it, its a trap!

If you do not share with them what they want you to share, then they might throw a little bit of a tantrum in the short run (to try and scare you) but they won't lose desire for you if you do everything else right (not react).

On the other hand if you do share with them everything else and show them more about you then they should know, their interests' will dwindle in the long run. Don't confuse the fact that women are more emotional that they will be more understanding. Once a woman completley loses interest, you mean sh1t to her.

From my own prespective's women are far better kept in the dark and have a false idolized mysterious image of you then to give them everything they want and expose everything about you.

By the way, there are always clues (in terms of a woman's change of behaviour towards you) that will indicate if a woman is losing interest, you just have to pay close attention to them.
 

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Those aren't reasons, those are excuses they use to justify a cause for cheating.
 

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Faded Image said:
Those aren't reasons, those are excuses they use to justify a cause for cheating.
That's true.

Majority of women are chicken sh1t when it comes to breaking up with someone and rather then break up (be alone for a bit) and face the unknown they rather jump ship, latch onto someone else and cheat. They know its immorale and cunning thing to do but as I said before, once they completley lose interest, you mean sh1t to them and they are only looking after number 1.
 

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In my opinion, those are just excuses for the act.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DJDamage said:
It all comes down to one reason: LOSS OF INTEREST.

I always tell guys to never stop being a challenge and to never ever get too comfortable in a relationship.

Your behaviour and perspective's of things really shouldn't be much different from the first day you meet her and onwards.

Women in a relationship will always try to coax you into being more 'open', honest and share with them your inner most thoughts and fears. Don't do it, its a trap!
Check out the 'Sh!t test everybody fails' link in my signature which goes into that in more detail.
 

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They stray because of emotional reasons such as needing a little drama in their life or someone pressed their emotional buttons at just the right time when their defenses were down.

Guys only stray when a chick that is super hot takes an interest in them and wants to fvck.
 

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Thats why a women cheating on a guy is 10 times worse. Its not the act of sex, its the emotional attachment that goes with it. Most men can **** another women and feel nothing for her. Women wont **** a guy that they have no emotional connection with in most cases.

Some real troopers there though. I mean the one that ****ed a random stranger to teach her cheating BF a lesson sounds like a real winner
 

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I know I feel bad about leading women astray from their husbands and boyfriends. I really do. If they ever got to Really BE with me a good while, they'd jump my ship too. I turn heads. I have boyfriends steer their woman's attention/eyes away from me. I've even seen them try to block me out from the-woman-they're-with's line of vision of me.

I feel Really bad when they aren't even there to block me out. I can't imagine the trouble I stir up in relationships because the woman has to go home to her increasingly becoming 'boring' boyfriend or husband. They always compare, and it eats away at their subconscious, greener pastures etc etc.

I'm on the look-out for that Rare breed of woman (probably Christian) who remains devout to me because of a higher calling and not just the whims of everyday life and everyday temptation.

I have my doubts, but in the end, I need a good Christian woman who believes in sticking to Every word of the Bible. It's the only way to keep her faithful, because it denies 'Self' and takes up the cross, for better for worse.

I have several candidates, just a matter of weeding them out, just like American Idol.
 

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Hey Dj's!!!! I'll bet you a million bucks, that all of those SH!T REASONS WOMEN CHEAT, are good stories that these chicks on MSN made up!!!! so if women do cheat, so what!!!

JUSTIFIABLE CHEATING!!!! That's a Good one!!!! hahahaha
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Women cheat cause they are human... Humans cheat/sleeep around .. Its only called "cheating" cause society wants both members of the relationship to deprive themselves of the satisfaction brought by full filling natural carnal sexual urges, if one does not then he/she cheated..LOL No matter the reason she gives she would still have cheated..
 
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