“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The real reason you can't get a date...

Alicorn

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I figgured out the real reason I'm having dating problems, it's very simple really: most people are a bunch of ****ing liars.

I'm reading a book right now called "Freakonomics: a rogue economist explores the hidden side of everything," and there is a few pages on dating websites. While these numbers I'm about to throw at you are probablly different than in real life, it's doubtful they are that much different than what the self-diluted masses actually believe.

- 57% of the users were men, and the median age range for all users was 26 to 35

- 4% of daters claimed to earn more than $200k a year, whereas fewer than 1% of typical Internet users actually earn that much

- men's report of their weight fell in line with national averages, but women typically reported they were 20lbs less than the national average

- 70% of women claimed "above average" looks, including 24% claiming "very good looks"

- the online men were almost as gorgeous at 67% "above average" and 21% "very good looking"
So, either normal people are a bunch of liars or they are employed as real-estate agents (I vote for liars).

Real-estate agents know that the typical house isn't "charming" or "fantastic," but unless you say it is, no one will even bother to take a look.

So if everyone is expecting everyone else to lie, and I don't lie then the unwashed masses will assume I am worse off then I am. Maybe I should just put "king of the fookin' world" as my job to balance things out.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Alicorn
I figgured out the real reason I'm having dating problems, it's very simple really: most people are a bunch of ****ing liars.

I'm reading a book right now called "Freakonomics: a rogue economist explores the hidden side of everything," and there is a few pages on dating websites. While these numbers I'm about to throw at you are probablly different than in real life, it's doubtful they are that much different than what the self-diluted masses actually believe.



So, either normal people are a bunch of liars or they are employed as real-estate agents (I vote for liars).

Real-estate agents know that the typical house isn't "charming" or "fantastic," but unless you say it is, no one will even bother to take a look.

So if everyone is expecting everyone else to lie, and I don't lie then the unwashed masses will assume I am worse off then I am. Maybe I should just put "king of the fookin' world" as my job to balance things out.
Errr why use dating websites?
 

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Re: Re: The real reason you can't get a date...

Originally posted by BackToTheMack
Errr why use dating websites?
What an amazing way to miss the point.

Those stats were used because you can't search a person for their "user profile" in real life.

If people are lying like that online, they will probably lie in a similar way IRL.
 

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Re: Re: Re: The real reason you can't get a date...

Originally posted by Alicorn
What an amazing way to miss the point.

Those stats were used because you can't search a person for their "user profile" in real life.

If people are lying like that online, they will probably lie in a similar way IRL.
Consider the source women that sign up to dating websites are generally not attractive, have poor social skills, have a poor social life and are very insecure. So of course you will get girls lying about there looks a weight.

In the real world if you have the balls to approach an attractive girl what are the odds that she will have poor social skills and be insecure like the girls on dating websites? And if she is why would you pursue her? That’s right you wouldn’t because she hasn’t got an attractive personality.

The girls that go on dating websites aren’t the girls you meet at clubs or when you cold approach. They are the insecure girls that sit at home all day waiting for Mr Right.

Oh and women lie to make them selves more sought after wow I am truly astounded you are a revolutionary. Women lie thank you for that bit of information I have been living under a rock for 20 years and I did not know this and men lie to OMG I am truly shocked.

Oh and finally WHAT THE F*CK does this have to do with approaching women in the real world. Women see right through lies and it’s not the liar that gets the women it’s the MAN and who is the man? The man is the guy with balls, charm, charisma the funny guy that makes her laugh but his serious when need be. The guy who makes her feel good about herself but dominates her. NOT the guy that lies to make him self look cool the guy who actually is "cool" and who doesn’t have to use words to show his coolness. Plus women see right through lies and on top of all that women don’t like braggers.

So your theory is usless.
 
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