“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The REAL reason women get fat

MatureDJ

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http://www.theatlantic.com/doc/200703/loh-libido

But no. All of these possibilities will pale compared with the corporeal depravity I’m about to describe—a radical self-pleasuring act that may well represent the true frontier of female liberation. Which is to say I speak to you candidly now about some lesbians I know, two lesbians. They live in a suburb of Los Angeles. They’re both a hair north of forty. One is a computer technician; the other, a hospital administrator. Physically, they are much as you might picture them. For the past twelve years, Teri and Pat have had a special Monday-night ritual. They order an extra-large cheese pizza (sixteen slices). While waiting—and I am not making this up—they settle in on the couch with large twin bags of Doritos. Each chip is dipped first in Philadelphia cream cheese and then in salsa. Cream cheese, salsa. Cream cheese, salsa. Cream cheese, salsa. The Doritos are finished to the last crumb, and then, upon arrival, the pizza as well. For Teri and Pat, this night of a million carbs is, by special agreement, guilt-free. Both feel that it is better than sex.
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dude, we just did this thread recently.
why didn't you post this as an update ?
 

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Well two lesbians is pretty self explanatory. When it comes to sex there is the aggressor, that role is typically played by the male (contrary to what Hollywood has shown us) When you got two lesbians well I don't care what people say that one person plays the masculine role , etc etc. They're two women and it is not a surprise that both of them get tired of licking each other after awhile.

In marriage a lot of guys complain about the lack of sex or difficulty of getting any. The reason is those men changed, the women didn't change. Obviously because the woman is in a secure relationship (marriage) she doesn't feel compelled to be more forthcoming for sex and now it becomes the man's job to start the engine. And it should because if you think about it, that's why men go date, to go have sex. Some women are into that too with the notion of perhaps a continuation of seeing each other/companionship.
 

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This a variation on the Friday night pint of Ben and Jerry's diet.
 
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If my girlfriend or wife got fat, I would just take her to the gym and work out with her. What's the big deal? Most chubby women I know want to lose weight but don't have the motivation.

Hell, it could be fun getting them skinny again.
 

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They're two women and it is not a surprise that both of them get tired of licking each other after awhile.

thus, the double-ended dildo
 

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Bible_Belt said:
They're two women and it is not a surprise that both of them get tired of licking each other after awhile.

thus, the double-ended dildo
Once again Hollywood and the media are glorifying lesbians and the truth turns out to be quite ugly.

This is what Hollywood wants you to see as a lesbian:
http://www.nationalledger.com/artman/uploads/neve_denise_lesbian_kiss.jpg :yes:

The reality is that this what 90% of true lesbians look alike:
http://hawkeyensatin.homestead.com/files/butchnfem.jpg :eek:

Also the Media myth is that lesbians have a high sex drive and enjoy having frequent sex as much or more then a man. They might have a higher sex drive then hetersexual women due to elevated testosterone levels but they never come close to that of a man.
 

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You're saying the real reason women get fat is because they overeat and engorge on empty caloried junk food.

It also has to do with habitually using food for comfort, being mentally indoctrinated to accept obesity, making excuses why they can't or shouldn't be fit, and simply not caring for themselves.

Look at the mind set of this British 17 year old beauty contestant who's a size 16. She believes, like so many do who fool themselves, that she's "healthy", which really means that she hasn't any major health problems at this moment (but that's not to say her obesity isn't going to bring about health issues later in life). She says she "eats well and exercises regularly", but I'd say one has to question the effectiveness of that regimen when body fat levels rise high and fat deposits on her thighs, waist, arms, etc., as a truly healthy diet and exercise routine isn't going to make you fat, but will help to keep you lean.

They believe that they're meant to be overweight in the first place so anything they do is automatically sabotaged since their goals are defeated at the onset by this thinking ("doesn't try to force her body to be something its not"). Like a woman who said to me, "I'll never go down to a size 10, that's not my body type" or the ones that have said "I'll never be thin". But that's simply not true, unless you're a baby elephant. It's a limiting belief that rationalizes away actually working on one's physique, because it's plain easier to excuse it way then it is to work on it and be disciplined. That's just human nature. And we live in a PC climate that encourages such mediocrity in people by rewarding it.

These folks betray themselves and lie to us. They ought to just say, "Look, I really don't care about losing fat and staying healthy. I'd rather eat the pizza." Now they serve as role models?

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/li...ews.html?in_article_id=552792&in_page_id=1773
 
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