"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The REAL reason women get fat

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http://www.theatlantic.com/doc/200703/loh-libido

But no. All of these possibilities will pale compared with the corporeal depravity I’m about to describe—a radical self-pleasuring act that may well represent the true frontier of female liberation. Which is to say I speak to you candidly now about some lesbians I know, two lesbians. They live in a suburb of Los Angeles. They’re both a hair north of forty. One is a computer technician; the other, a hospital administrator. Physically, they are much as you might picture them. For the past twelve years, Teri and Pat have had a special Monday-night ritual. They order an extra-large cheese pizza (sixteen slices). While waiting—and I am not making this up—they settle in on the couch with large twin bags of Doritos. Each chip is dipped first in Philadelphia cream cheese and then in salsa. Cream cheese, salsa. Cream cheese, salsa. Cream cheese, salsa. The Doritos are finished to the last crumb, and then, upon arrival, the pizza as well. For Teri and Pat, this night of a million carbs is, by special agreement, guilt-free. Both feel that it is better than sex.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dude, we just did this thread recently.
why didn't you post this as an update ?
 

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Well two lesbians is pretty self explanatory. When it comes to sex there is the aggressor, that role is typically played by the male (contrary to what Hollywood has shown us) When you got two lesbians well I don't care what people say that one person plays the masculine role , etc etc. They're two women and it is not a surprise that both of them get tired of licking each other after awhile.

In marriage a lot of guys complain about the lack of sex or difficulty of getting any. The reason is those men changed, the women didn't change. Obviously because the woman is in a secure relationship (marriage) she doesn't feel compelled to be more forthcoming for sex and now it becomes the man's job to start the engine. And it should because if you think about it, that's why men go date, to go have sex. Some women are into that too with the notion of perhaps a continuation of seeing each other/companionship.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This a variation on the Friday night pint of Ben and Jerry's diet.
 
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If my girlfriend or wife got fat, I would just take her to the gym and work out with her. What's the big deal? Most chubby women I know want to lose weight but don't have the motivation.

Hell, it could be fun getting them skinny again.
 

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They're two women and it is not a surprise that both of them get tired of licking each other after awhile.

thus, the double-ended dildo
 

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Bible_Belt said:
They're two women and it is not a surprise that both of them get tired of licking each other after awhile.

thus, the double-ended dildo
Once again Hollywood and the media are glorifying lesbians and the truth turns out to be quite ugly.

This is what Hollywood wants you to see as a lesbian:
http://www.nationalledger.com/artman/uploads/neve_denise_lesbian_kiss.jpg :yes:

The reality is that this what 90% of true lesbians look alike:
http://hawkeyensatin.homestead.com/files/butchnfem.jpg :eek:

Also the Media myth is that lesbians have a high sex drive and enjoy having frequent sex as much or more then a man. They might have a higher sex drive then hetersexual women due to elevated testosterone levels but they never come close to that of a man.
 

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You're saying the real reason women get fat is because they overeat and engorge on empty caloried junk food.

It also has to do with habitually using food for comfort, being mentally indoctrinated to accept obesity, making excuses why they can't or shouldn't be fit, and simply not caring for themselves.

Look at the mind set of this British 17 year old beauty contestant who's a size 16. She believes, like so many do who fool themselves, that she's "healthy", which really means that she hasn't any major health problems at this moment (but that's not to say her obesity isn't going to bring about health issues later in life). She says she "eats well and exercises regularly", but I'd say one has to question the effectiveness of that regimen when body fat levels rise high and fat deposits on her thighs, waist, arms, etc., as a truly healthy diet and exercise routine isn't going to make you fat, but will help to keep you lean.

They believe that they're meant to be overweight in the first place so anything they do is automatically sabotaged since their goals are defeated at the onset by this thinking ("doesn't try to force her body to be something its not"). Like a woman who said to me, "I'll never go down to a size 10, that's not my body type" or the ones that have said "I'll never be thin". But that's simply not true, unless you're a baby elephant. It's a limiting belief that rationalizes away actually working on one's physique, because it's plain easier to excuse it way then it is to work on it and be disciplined. That's just human nature. And we live in a PC climate that encourages such mediocrity in people by rewarding it.

These folks betray themselves and lie to us. They ought to just say, "Look, I really don't care about losing fat and staying healthy. I'd rather eat the pizza." Now they serve as role models?

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/li...ews.html?in_article_id=552792&in_page_id=1773
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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