"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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...LinkedIn?!?!

I swear, when I'm browsing recommended contacts, at least half the females have cute to damn sexy profile pictures. I'm very tempted to "connect" with them and start chatting. And you can safely assume these chicks are not c0keheads.

Has anyone used LinkedIn to pick up some sexy professionals? Srs.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You are absolutely right. Lots of sexy women in their 30s and 40s on Linkedin and very eager to connect with you. Automatic sign of status and income similarity being on Linkedin, I suppose. Either way, very surprising but very true.

I just had this Indian woman friend me or recommend me or something on there yesterday, who I hadn't seen in 3 years. I met her at a bookstore one night but, unbeknownst to me, she was very much married. Why she didn't make that clear initially I don't know...
 
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Not even older women, women our age man...at least in my area among my peers, most young people are getting LinkedIns. Tons of HOT girls I went to high school with have profiles, and I can see sooo many other hot chicks in their 20s on the site.

Haha maybe you can target girls outside your field? Like Mike32ct since you're an engineer you could "connect" with some teachers or something lol?
 
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I personally use Linkedin, and I have not ever heard of a "hook-up" that escalated from Linkedin nor do I ever think it will become a dating website for professionals.

Most people on Linkedin (including women) use it solely to connect with others on a professional basis and to try to either leverage their connections to get a better job or to gain new clients/keep up with their clients and network with people in their industry.

I have met both males and females for coffee and lunch before using Linkedin to connect professionally. Sure the conversation may take a more casual turn, but you will not be taken seriously if you try to blatantly hit on them.

Am I saying that it will never work? No. I'm saying if you want to pursue women online...Linkedin is probably not the place. Just because there are sexy pictures of women on there doesn't mean anything.
 
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Yeah I use LinkedIn too and have over a hundred contacts on it even though it doesn't really mean anything because I'm not a professional yet. Obviously it's not SUPPOSED to be a dating site, that's the point.

I see two different approaches:

1. You see hot girl in your field of work. Connect with her, meet up for "networking"...then when you meet up subtly turn on the charm

2. You see hot girl NOT in your field of work..connect with her, then be a little more aggressive direct and waste less time than with someone from your own field
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sageproduct said:
Not even older women, women our age man...at least in my area among my peers, most young people are getting LinkedIns. Tons of HOT girls I went to high school with have profiles, and I can see sooo many other hot chicks in their 20s on the site.

Haha maybe you can target girls outside your field? Like Mike32ct since you're an engineer you could "connect" with some teachers or something lol?
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I love teachers :cheer:

English teachers are best. I'm sorry. That's not pc anymore. Language arts instructors lol.

In all seriousness, I'm not sure if many teachers use L I n ked In, but I'll check it out.
 
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