Hello, my name is Alex – nickname Lefty – and some of you may remember me from SS years ago (about 2), though I doubt it, and I return to you today with a challenge, or rather, a strategy. Now, I am by no means an expert, but I do consider myself very knowledgeable, and there is something lacking in the hearts and minds of highschoolers now a days, something that I think every high school student needs to think long and hard about, something that we can all work at (there’s always room for improvement yes?).
What I’m talking about is your Mental State and General Approach to Women.
So, I’ll start off by introducing myself. My name’s Alex and I’m a senior in high school. I am rather short, about 5’4, nicely toned (many refer to me as “Mini Hulk” or “Hercules”) and possess a kind of charm (or at least I’d like to think so). I always try to look good, keep a clean haircut, workout, buy new clothes about every 2 weeks, keep my teeth straight and white, and keep a clean complexion. I do not play any sports, though I am athletic, I am in an academic program that some of you may be familiar with, the International Baccalaureate program (IB for short). Because of the rigger of the IB program I do not get out as often as I would like, and am confined to my house doing homework a lot of the times (although right now a lot of the time is spent on college aps.) I have had sex with 1 woman, my ex-gf of 6 months, we broke up about 3 months ago. I have had oral or….hand jobs from 4 different women and have made out with about 20. I have a good social circle and am friends with many people and pride myself on having a fun, outgoing and vibrant attitude. I see myself as someone who has unlimited potential with women; at the risk of sounding arrogant.
So, that’s a little about me, but now what I really want to talk about is you. Specifically, your general attitude towards woman and the typical high school males’ general perception.
We all want women, that’s a given fact, we may not understand why we want them (though we have some pretty good ideas, but that’s another story) but we do want them. Of course this is a natural thing and really in our human brains a vital thing (women that is) in terms of our replication value. We are hardwired to want women so that we can pass on our genes, it’s in our “blood” so to say to want the most attractive and beautiful woman. It is thus not hard to understand why SO MANY high school males get so bent out of shape and actually depressed when they don’t get any women. They think, “I Must have a women to be a MAN”, “I NEED a woman”, and I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard males make non-completeable pledges towards women such as “I’m not going to masturbate any more unless a woman helps me do it.” Like I said, COMPLETELY understandable, hell, I was once this type of guy…all I could think about was Sex Sex Sex, I needed sex, that’s the whole reason I came to this website; to learn how to get women so that in turn I would get SEX. I was constantly trying to seduce women, to get sex………
Stop right now! Because this is exactly the wrong way to go about thinking!
“I want a women because I want to have sex”
“I want to have sex so that I am a man”
“I want to have sex so that I am no longer the only virgin”
“Getting women defines me and my reputation”
“Guys NEED to have sex to be a man!!!!”
-If this is you, your attitude is ALL WRONG!
I was constantly trying to get women at my school, counting my prospects, and was only in it for the sex. But this, was wrong! See what I’m trying to say is that so many high school males focus only on getting WITH women – getting SEX – which is the completely wrong mental attitude. At this stage in our lives, we should NOT only be trying to get WITH women.
One thing that you must understand, and that I know is very hard to understand for all high school males is that – as cliché as it sounds – HIGH SCHOOL IS NOT EVERYTHING. High school is not the time to be getting girls, and in most cases, a lot of girls aren’t even ready for sex. Hell, even COLLEGE is not the time to be getting girls. Don’t get me wrong here, sex is great, if you can get with a woman and have sex, PERFECT, however, your soul purpose in high school should NOT be about getting with women and sex. Your main goal should be: now are you ready? here’s some of the main points: your main goal should be: to LEARN about women, practice your skills, BEFRIEND women so that you know what makes them tick.
High school is a time when women are what we call socially programmed. High school can be a time when women are constantly hit on by all types of guys, Loosers and “Men” alike. Women become socially programmed throughout high school and college to weed out these loosers, because who wants to be with a looser? Think about it – let’s say a typical high school female gets hit on 4 times a day (which is actually about a fraction of what really happens), and we’ll say there’s about 180 days in a typical high school year, and we’ll say that this is a typical 4 year high school. Now they’re off to a 4 year college and the amount of times they get hit on a day doubles, and we’ll say once again (for simplicity) that there are 180 days per college year (even though they’re hit on every day in college). Hell, by the time they graduate college they’ve been hit on over eight thousand five hundred times – 8,640 – to be exact. Don’t you think they’re going to notice some patterns? Notice to recognize the nice guys and the loosers? They’ll know everything that’s coming, and they’ll know every routine, they’ll know every way a guy can hit on her…..
Except…..
They don’t know about you!!!
You see, if you’re just trying to get women because you want sex, then that means you’re hitting on the girl, which makes you JUST LIKE EVERY OTHER GUY. You want to be DIFFERENT!!!
Now, I’m getting ahead of myself…and I’ll get back to the specifics later…but the point is, you don’t want to be like every other guy in highschool, you want to be DIFFERENT. This all comes from the MindSet! You don’t even want to really be trying to GET WITH a lot of women in highschool, you want to LEARN about them! Remember how I said high school and college is when women are socially programmed? Well, their social programming all leads up to when they turn 21. When they turn 21, that’s when the REAL game begins! That’s when it’s time to LOOK FOR SEX in women. Up until then, you don’t want to be specifically looking for sex, you want to be: LEARNING ABOUT WOMEN, HONING YOUR SKILLS, and WORKING ON YOUR STATE OF MIND.
I used to have no friends who were girls 2 years ago. Now, I have 10+ girls that go to my high school whom I can call my “best girlfriend”. Notice what I’ve done here? I’ve IGNORED the friend zone rule! Why? Because I’m not specifically looking for sex in these women, I’m trying to learn about them, ask them questions, be their friends, maybe try some material here and there – see how it works. And at the same time what am I doing while I’m befriending these girls?
For 1, I’m building a stronger social circle. Other women will see that I am constantly around females who like me, and laugh at my jokes and who adore me. How do you think this is going to make the girls on the outside looking in feel???
I am also working on my MENTAL STATE. I’m trying to be the most FUN, POSITIVE, HAPPY, and therefore COOL person I’ve ever met and in the entire world!!! Am I working on my social skills with women? YES. Am I growing my social circle? YES. Most importantly, am I LEARNING about women? YES YES YES!
Here’s the thing, I don’t care about having much sex in high school. All I want to be is ready for when the REAL GAME starts. When the women turn 21 (when you can go clubbing)! I want to know exactly what to do in every situation! And hell, If I continue down this path, I’ll easily be a natural by the age of 21! In college, I’ll have a HUDGE advantage over other guys in terms of my CONFIDENCE, SKILLS and KNOWLEDGE. The point is to think long term.
Don’t try to just get sex from women in high school. Try to learn about them! Try to HONE your skills, your material and your social skills! Get your head in the perfect Mental state!
Sure…you’re not going after women specifically, but the women will come. Why? Well this is another subject, but in short; because people will notice you’re well liked by women, and when you have the right mental state, people will notice that you’re well like by EVERYONE. Tell me what kind of girl would not want to get with a FUN, POSITIVE, HAPPY, and therefore COOLman???
Don’t TRY to get sex from women in high school, if you are then your mental strategy is all wrong. Learn about women, practice your social skills, hone your skills, Fix your mental state. High school is just preparing you for the real game. Don’t get ahead of yourself and try to play the Real game in high school, use high school for what it is, a preparation period, the best way to prep yourself is to make sure that you: learn about women, practice your social skills, hone your skills, and Fix your mental state.
Just as a quick example of something I’ve learned so far:
I asked a lot of women to name the top 5 attributes that they find attractive in a male. (though I’m already fully aware of what causes attraction in women, I asked anyways)
In no particular order
Confidence
Sexy Bod
Appearance (hair, dress, face etc.)
Reputation
Humor
Outgoing
Personality
The game is ours fellas, we just have to wait ‘till the right time to start playing, use this prep period to make sure that you are ready when the real game begins.
-Lefty
What I’m talking about is your Mental State and General Approach to Women.
So, I’ll start off by introducing myself. My name’s Alex and I’m a senior in high school. I am rather short, about 5’4, nicely toned (many refer to me as “Mini Hulk” or “Hercules”) and possess a kind of charm (or at least I’d like to think so). I always try to look good, keep a clean haircut, workout, buy new clothes about every 2 weeks, keep my teeth straight and white, and keep a clean complexion. I do not play any sports, though I am athletic, I am in an academic program that some of you may be familiar with, the International Baccalaureate program (IB for short). Because of the rigger of the IB program I do not get out as often as I would like, and am confined to my house doing homework a lot of the times (although right now a lot of the time is spent on college aps.) I have had sex with 1 woman, my ex-gf of 6 months, we broke up about 3 months ago. I have had oral or….hand jobs from 4 different women and have made out with about 20. I have a good social circle and am friends with many people and pride myself on having a fun, outgoing and vibrant attitude. I see myself as someone who has unlimited potential with women; at the risk of sounding arrogant.
So, that’s a little about me, but now what I really want to talk about is you. Specifically, your general attitude towards woman and the typical high school males’ general perception.
We all want women, that’s a given fact, we may not understand why we want them (though we have some pretty good ideas, but that’s another story) but we do want them. Of course this is a natural thing and really in our human brains a vital thing (women that is) in terms of our replication value. We are hardwired to want women so that we can pass on our genes, it’s in our “blood” so to say to want the most attractive and beautiful woman. It is thus not hard to understand why SO MANY high school males get so bent out of shape and actually depressed when they don’t get any women. They think, “I Must have a women to be a MAN”, “I NEED a woman”, and I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard males make non-completeable pledges towards women such as “I’m not going to masturbate any more unless a woman helps me do it.” Like I said, COMPLETELY understandable, hell, I was once this type of guy…all I could think about was Sex Sex Sex, I needed sex, that’s the whole reason I came to this website; to learn how to get women so that in turn I would get SEX. I was constantly trying to seduce women, to get sex………
Stop right now! Because this is exactly the wrong way to go about thinking!
“I want a women because I want to have sex”
“I want to have sex so that I am a man”
“I want to have sex so that I am no longer the only virgin”
“Getting women defines me and my reputation”
“Guys NEED to have sex to be a man!!!!”
-If this is you, your attitude is ALL WRONG!
I was constantly trying to get women at my school, counting my prospects, and was only in it for the sex. But this, was wrong! See what I’m trying to say is that so many high school males focus only on getting WITH women – getting SEX – which is the completely wrong mental attitude. At this stage in our lives, we should NOT only be trying to get WITH women.
One thing that you must understand, and that I know is very hard to understand for all high school males is that – as cliché as it sounds – HIGH SCHOOL IS NOT EVERYTHING. High school is not the time to be getting girls, and in most cases, a lot of girls aren’t even ready for sex. Hell, even COLLEGE is not the time to be getting girls. Don’t get me wrong here, sex is great, if you can get with a woman and have sex, PERFECT, however, your soul purpose in high school should NOT be about getting with women and sex. Your main goal should be: now are you ready? here’s some of the main points: your main goal should be: to LEARN about women, practice your skills, BEFRIEND women so that you know what makes them tick.
High school is a time when women are what we call socially programmed. High school can be a time when women are constantly hit on by all types of guys, Loosers and “Men” alike. Women become socially programmed throughout high school and college to weed out these loosers, because who wants to be with a looser? Think about it – let’s say a typical high school female gets hit on 4 times a day (which is actually about a fraction of what really happens), and we’ll say there’s about 180 days in a typical high school year, and we’ll say that this is a typical 4 year high school. Now they’re off to a 4 year college and the amount of times they get hit on a day doubles, and we’ll say once again (for simplicity) that there are 180 days per college year (even though they’re hit on every day in college). Hell, by the time they graduate college they’ve been hit on over eight thousand five hundred times – 8,640 – to be exact. Don’t you think they’re going to notice some patterns? Notice to recognize the nice guys and the loosers? They’ll know everything that’s coming, and they’ll know every routine, they’ll know every way a guy can hit on her…..
Except…..
They don’t know about you!!!
You see, if you’re just trying to get women because you want sex, then that means you’re hitting on the girl, which makes you JUST LIKE EVERY OTHER GUY. You want to be DIFFERENT!!!
Now, I’m getting ahead of myself…and I’ll get back to the specifics later…but the point is, you don’t want to be like every other guy in highschool, you want to be DIFFERENT. This all comes from the MindSet! You don’t even want to really be trying to GET WITH a lot of women in highschool, you want to LEARN about them! Remember how I said high school and college is when women are socially programmed? Well, their social programming all leads up to when they turn 21. When they turn 21, that’s when the REAL game begins! That’s when it’s time to LOOK FOR SEX in women. Up until then, you don’t want to be specifically looking for sex, you want to be: LEARNING ABOUT WOMEN, HONING YOUR SKILLS, and WORKING ON YOUR STATE OF MIND.
I used to have no friends who were girls 2 years ago. Now, I have 10+ girls that go to my high school whom I can call my “best girlfriend”. Notice what I’ve done here? I’ve IGNORED the friend zone rule! Why? Because I’m not specifically looking for sex in these women, I’m trying to learn about them, ask them questions, be their friends, maybe try some material here and there – see how it works. And at the same time what am I doing while I’m befriending these girls?
For 1, I’m building a stronger social circle. Other women will see that I am constantly around females who like me, and laugh at my jokes and who adore me. How do you think this is going to make the girls on the outside looking in feel???
I am also working on my MENTAL STATE. I’m trying to be the most FUN, POSITIVE, HAPPY, and therefore COOL person I’ve ever met and in the entire world!!! Am I working on my social skills with women? YES. Am I growing my social circle? YES. Most importantly, am I LEARNING about women? YES YES YES!
Here’s the thing, I don’t care about having much sex in high school. All I want to be is ready for when the REAL GAME starts. When the women turn 21 (when you can go clubbing)! I want to know exactly what to do in every situation! And hell, If I continue down this path, I’ll easily be a natural by the age of 21! In college, I’ll have a HUDGE advantage over other guys in terms of my CONFIDENCE, SKILLS and KNOWLEDGE. The point is to think long term.
Don’t try to just get sex from women in high school. Try to learn about them! Try to HONE your skills, your material and your social skills! Get your head in the perfect Mental state!
Sure…you’re not going after women specifically, but the women will come. Why? Well this is another subject, but in short; because people will notice you’re well liked by women, and when you have the right mental state, people will notice that you’re well like by EVERYONE. Tell me what kind of girl would not want to get with a FUN, POSITIVE, HAPPY, and therefore COOLman???
Don’t TRY to get sex from women in high school, if you are then your mental strategy is all wrong. Learn about women, practice your social skills, hone your skills, Fix your mental state. High school is just preparing you for the real game. Don’t get ahead of yourself and try to play the Real game in high school, use high school for what it is, a preparation period, the best way to prep yourself is to make sure that you: learn about women, practice your social skills, hone your skills, and Fix your mental state.
Just as a quick example of something I’ve learned so far:
I asked a lot of women to name the top 5 attributes that they find attractive in a male. (though I’m already fully aware of what causes attraction in women, I asked anyways)
In no particular order
Confidence
Sexy Bod
Appearance (hair, dress, face etc.)
Reputation
Humor
Outgoing
Personality
The game is ours fellas, we just have to wait ‘till the right time to start playing, use this prep period to make sure that you are ready when the real game begins.
-Lefty
