"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The real man

Zerotwoonenine

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To be a good DJ, you must first be the real man, the real man should have these vitues and must stick to these principles first and foremost, otherwise he is just a man who uses women for sex.
Benevolence-you should be kind towards others, compassion, empathy, you shouldnt do this just infront of your date, you should put this in your daily thought, girls think by emotions and if you can be kind and show compassion, girls will dig you.
Bravery-you dont have to join the army to show this, standing up to girls, dont tolerate disrepct, have a backbone and challenge what you think is not right.
Honesty-if you lie all the time, how would the girl think about you? if you are a man, be honest with what you have done and face up to the consequences.
Honor-honor is the most important thing, if the man has no honor, he doesnt care about the other virtues.
Right Decision-it may sometimes be the hardest, but you have to do whats right, if moving on from a girl is right, then do it, move on because shes wasting your time, show her that u dont need her if shes not treating u right.
Loyalty-be loyal to those who you are suppose to protect, this means your friends, family and girl.
Respect-if you want respect, then u must give it as well, it works both ways, so if u respect her but she doesnt deserve it, let her know.
When sht hits the fan, there are two kinds of men, wimps who run and real men who can face up to the challenge, which one do you think the girls will chose?:yes:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Zerotwoonenine said:
Bravery-you dont have to join the army to show this, standing up to girls, dont tolerate disrepct, have a backbone and challenge what you think is not right.
The most imporatant one!

Don't be scared to put these mind-f*cking b*tches in their places and showing them that you are not willing to put up with their crap.
 

Zerotwoonenine

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if u come to a cross roads, the right way may not be the easiest way, now i have been to places and seen things, and being thrugh sht, and i have seen people been at the cross roads, many men chose the wrong path, why? because its the easy way, those men are not true men because they are not men of principle and they chose the short way. Men, chose the right way and you will the chosen by women, i promis you, no matter how long you wait, women will notice and u will reap the rewards.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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