"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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so you think you found the perfect girl right? wrong! whenever you seem to find the one, she turns out to be worst thing in your life. what i'm trying to say is that females are a joke. they waste our time with their bullsh!t head games... it's inevitable. the games always happens. you can't stop it. you're either too nice or too nasty. if you're too nice to a girl, she runs off, wtf? if you put them in their place and they're wrong about something you're the bad guy. females think life is one big game. their lives revolve around who's hotter than who... when things are going great they always seem to fuk it up by starting sh!t.

out of my 22 years in life i still have not found one normal female. they really don't exist. sometimes i read the posts here and it really does amaze me how far guys will go just go get laid or go on a date... then they complain here about why she ran off with another guy or hung up on you or ignored you... it's because they love playing games. what's the point of chasin up girls if they just play around? is it really worth just to get a lay? try being single for a few months and you'll realise how much happier you are... you just get this huge weight off your shoulders... no more wondering if she's with another guy, no more wondering why she won't talk first, etc. i mean sure if a girl offers you sex, hell, why not take it but anymore than that is a hassle. i haven't tried to chat up a girl in years. the only reason i am not a virgin is because they've pulled moves on me and i'm okay with that but i won't chase a girl... it's fukin stupid. like jumping through hoops. if you wanna do that go join up in the circus.

i'll probably get ripped for this thread but i wanted to get this out of my chest. thank you.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i mean sure if a girl offers you sex, hell, why not take it but anymore than that is a hassle.
If all you're looking for is quick sex, it's actually surprisingly easy to obtain (as far as I can tell). LTRs are a bit more of a challenge.

It sounds like you're being a little too passive, tho, in your search for women. Have you read the Book of Pook?
 

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yeah but aren't you just sick of jumping hoops for girls like a damn dog? they love playing games. i'm just sure that alot of guys don't really like playing them.
 

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for ONS, the games are fairly easy to master

for LTR, I don't think there are quite as many games; you just have to improve yourself and develop a thick skin
 

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ONS's are easy
1 - Seclusion
2 - Eye contact
3 -eXcitment

The best way to start a relationship is to fvck the girl first.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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what i'm trying to say is that females are a joke. they waste our time with their bullsh!t head games... it's inevitable. the games always happens
so what you guys are all sweet perfect little angels, that can do no wrong?

I mean seriously the amount sh!t that guys do, compare to females..

When a guy plays a girl, its perfectly fine. When a girl returns the favor it's a problem??
 

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geez, i feel a bit uncomfortable there's a female lurking around on here. that's not cool.
 

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The best way to start a relationship is to fvck the girl first.
Umm, I'm pretty sure that's false


When a guy plays a girl, its perfectly fine. When a girl returns the favor it's a problem??
Most guys would prefer to do away with the bullsh1t.
 

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How do you figure that to be false... and what do you propose is the better sequence??

I know that going out for dinners or whatever has turned into a gf for me ALOT less often than the times where I met the girl, and even if it took a few days to a week to sexlude and sex her, that things flowed more naturally after escalating to sex as quick as possible and then just continuing to pursue her like I did when we met.

That's just my experience tho.
 

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don't you feel like a dog to pursue a girl? you like making a girl feel like a hot sh!t princess? in the end she'll just fuk you around.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Instead of focusing on how they're playing you, you should focus on how to play THEM.

Think of a list of what girls want... then be that.

I'll give you some right now:

Muscular
Charming
Unavailable
 

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pfft. just because i think women are fukheads doesn't mean i hate them. i think they're beautiful but inside they're pieces of dog sh!t. and even if you do PLAY them you still have to put effort into getting them into your game. why do guys do so much for these b!tches? it sickens me.
 

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Well good luck with jerking off then.
I'm sure you'll change your mind eventually.

Then sean cameron can teach you how to date rape properly lol

1. step one, drag the b1tch into the woods.
2. duct tape her mouth

and so on...
 

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i'd rather jerk off then jump hoops for a girl like a fukn dog. at least the hand doesn't talk back and play games.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I do have to agree somewhat with the original post. During the moments in which there are no girls in my life, I feel far less stress. Where there are girls, there is pain.

But if you're that afraid of pain and getting hurt, you might as well live your life in a closet.
 

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once again. i'm not a fag. just not a dog like you who chases girls like a little b!tch.
 

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chance-,

Bang Milfs my friend. Milfs don't play games. You get to have all the sex you want without the games!!!! :yes: :yes: :yes:
 

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what are you talking about? women are fun! the ones that play games and are b1tches, jus laugh at them and treat them like the little girls they are.

the women who dont play games and are mature, those are the ones you should be goin after.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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