The rating system needs an overhaul

[thirdtimescharm]

Aspiring DJ's are making their job more difficult. Why? Because of the rating system. We say this girl is a HB10 or a 9, or a 7.5...or that girl is a 4, so not worthy. So what happens? With an AFC, a 10 becomes an object of desire, and of fear...she's too hot for me, she won't talk to me, she's surrounded by hot guys/girls, and out of my league.

I propose a simple change. Simplicity is key. So here's what you do...go BINARY!

A "0" is a girl you don't want. You don't want to date her, you don't want to sleep with her, you don't want to take her home to your mother. She's a permanent NEXT, not even a blip on your radar. Sorry girls, but we are in control here. We're trying to determine the future course of the human gene pool. It's a tough job, but someone has to do it.

Everybody else is a "1." It doesn't matter how hot they are, if you want her to kiss you, fukk you, marry you, take you around the world, sit on your lap and give you a chubby, or have six children that look vaguely like you, THEY ARE ALL THE SAME. You have to take out the fear and the mystery, and take them down off the pedestal. Listen, at some point the hottest girl you see today is yakking her head off about what kind of shoes she likes, and some guy who slept with her last night with her has heard all he can handle, so she's back on the street, and she's no better than the average cute girl from Nowheresville, Iowa, who most guys dream of taking home to meet the family.

Don't make the mistake of thinking any girl is any better than any other, UNTIL THEY PROVE IT, by consistent, good behavior over an extended period of time.

Until then, they are all zeros and ones.

And you can take that to the bank.

 

[Answers]

Great idea!

Its true about putting them on a pedestal and seeing good looking women as though they're goddesses. They're just women.

 

[DonJuan11]

I don't know if its a good idea to make it all or nothing. Some guys might take HB 9 and has a bad personality, anothers may take a HB 6 with a good one.

 

[thirdtimescharm]

I don't know if its a good idea to make it all or nothing. Some guys might take HB 9 and has a bad personality, anothers may take a HB 6 with a good one.

The point is, you simplify the rating for YOURSELF. Don't EVER concern yourself with what other people think. You must believe that you have the power to choose what kind of women you want in your life.

And if someone wants to waste their time with hot women that have no personality, I will thank you for keeping them busy and away from me, because I will be out there trying to find the hotter ones WITH personality, who will treat me with the respect I deserve.

 

[ready123]

I like binary too

The rating system is only good for bragging rights, and it still doesn't tell you what's under her skin

 

[sandman6991]

It's not that important to me what's under her skin...besides the poon

 

[MacAvoy]

Looks is very important in terms how you treat a girl, and the way they act, so a binary system would not work becuase your not able to effectively display her perception in society.

 

[Answers]

Looks is very important in terms how you treat a girl, and the way they act, so a binary system would not work becuase your not able to effectively display her perception in society.

Good point but that raises another question. Should you treat all women the same and if not has it anything to do with looks?

Its something I've been thinking about. Should you handle sensitive (emotional) women differently.

 

[thirdtimescharm]

Looks is very important in terms how you treat a girl, and the way they act, so a binary system would not work becuase your not able to effectively display her perception in society.

I'm not saying looks aren't important in society. But try this on for size..just as a DJ can be regarded as having less than stellar looks by societies "standards," yet still be tremendously successful as a PUA, a woman who has less than stellar looks can have far more value to offer as potential date as well. The point, once again, is to simply make a PERSONAL decision on whether or not you are interested in spending time with any woman, and not place some value that is external to your own perception of what she means to you. Again, the object here is to simplify your thinking.

 

[fertileTurtle]

Don't make the mistake of thinking any girl is any better than any other, UNTIL THEY PROVE IT, by consistent, good behavior over an extended period of time.

Until then, they are all zeros and ones.

And you can take that to the bank.

Duely noted.

 

[fertileTurtle]

I'm not saying looks aren't important in society. But try this on for size..just as a DJ can be regarded as having less than stellar looks by societies "standards," yet still be tremendously successful as a PUA, a woman who has less than stellar looks can have far more value to offer as potential date as well. The point, once again, is to simply make a PERSONAL decision on whether or not you are interested in spending time with any woman, and not place some value that is external to your own perception of what she means to you. Again, the object here is to simply your thinking.

You need a point system to do that? It's common sense.

 

[thirdtimescharm]

You need a point system to do that? It's common sense.

Exactly what most people lack.

 

[thirdtimescharm]

Good point but that raises another question. Should you treat all women the same and if not has it anything to do with looks?

Its something I've been thinking about. Should you handle sensitive (emotional) women differently.

I'm only talking about the initial meeting, so you'd have no way to know what specifics you might have to deal with later on in a relationship (whatever form it may take).