“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The Rage of Incels.

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I kinda get the mindset for some of these incels. In HS I was (and still am) part of the nerds. Gamer geeks. We didn’t go to tjhe prom. Girls were unattainable and we couldn’t even conceive of getting a girl. Well. That all changed for me when I graduated. But for many of my friends. Even decades later. They are in exactly the same position. Some other (White) friends went the plain Asian route & escaped vis that method.
That is right, ethnicels dont have the plain asian option.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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I have no idea what those acronyms mean, but most incels I've seen on youtube are fat or delusional or both
I remember MGTOW dictionary use to lie about being a 6'3, jacked italian chad, come to find out he is a 50+ year old Indian loser who lives in his momma's basement

A lot of incels are delusional especially on forums and youtube remember Elliot Rodger? he thought he was GOd's gift to women too we all know how that played out


^^If these guys hit the gym I guarantee you, their success with women would skyrocket
Like the simp fit and fresh and becky?
 

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I know those guys personally before they blew up on youtube and yes they were getting laid before
Honestly getting pucci in 2023 is not that hard, some of you guys make it more complicated than it truly is
Yeah, just $60-$80.
 

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There fat guys with women so just being fat doesn't make someone incel, especially if they are WMAF/WMBF combination.
It takes more than just a flaw to br i
I know those guys personally before they blew up on youtube and yes they were getting laid before
Honestly getting pucci in 2023 is not that hard, some of you guys make it more complicated than it truly is
It’s harder than you think. I was at a bar this week. I have a GF but I like to go out and drink and socialize without her on occasion. There were 8 girls. Two tables of two & one of four. about a dozen guys were there. mostly hanging by the bar (me as well). Eventually some of the guys went over. Either solo or in tandem to chat up the girls. None appeared successful. Though none of the rejections were harsh.
However. As entered. (I was the onlynEhite person in the venue). One of the girls, Black in her mid 20’s , slim. cute. immediately gave me the ‘look”. I returned it with a smile.
When her friend went to the restroom. She got up and approached me. As I’m ‘taken’ ’, I didn’t pursue it.
So. Those other guys. Did not find it ‘easy’ to get some. While. Perhaps. If I had been single & played my cards right, I could have. That’s still a low ratio. 6 fails & 1 possible success.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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It takes more than just a flaw to br i

It’s harder than you think. I was at a bar this week. I have a GF but I like to go out and drink and socialize without her on occasion. There were 8 girls. Two tables of two & one of four. about a dozen guys were there. mostly hanging by the bar (me as well). Eventually some of the guys went over. Either solo or in tandem to chat up the girls. None appeared successful. Though none of the rejections were harsh.
However. As entered. (I was the onlynEhite person in the venue). One of the girls, Black in her mid 20’s , slim. cute. immediately gave me the ‘look”. I returned it with a smile.
When her friend went to the restroom. She got up and approached me. As I’m ‘taken’ ’, I didn’t pursue it.
So. Those other guys. Did not find it ‘easy’ to get some. While. Perhaps. If I had been single & played my cards right, I could have. That’s still a low ratio. 6 fails & 1 possible success.
Like you said you were the only White guy there. You had it easier because JBW. Meanwhile someone like @Solomon would also have been rejected. The fact you even have White incel friends is mindboggling. They cant get a black girl? Even @MatureDJ has black girls interested in him.
 

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Like you said you were the only White guy there. You had it easier because JBW. Meanwhile someone like @Solomon would also have been rejected. The fact you even have White incel friends is mindboggling. They cant get a black girl? Even @MatureDJ has black girls interested in him.
I have never seen or heard of a girl, of any race, approaching them in the past two decades. Perhaps if they approached an obese unattractive older Ethnic woman. It might work. I’m pretty sure my hapacel friend could get a plain looking Asian woman.
 

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I cant watch any porn. I am still thinking of that OF Filipina escort. She said she had problems and was giving "sloppy toppy" bjs to help pay her bills and just ended up fapping on this yesterday. I wanted to look at pics but literally cant bring myself to it. I literally cant look at any more escort ads as I am worried I might bump into seeing hers. While I quit subbing to OF a month ago I am still trying to shake her out.
 

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I cant watch any porn. I am still thinking of that OF Filipina escort. She said she had problems and was giving "sloppy toppy" bjs to help pay her bills and just ended up fapping on this yesterday. I wanted to look at pics but literally cant bring myself to it. I literally cant look at any more escort ads as I am worried I might bump into seeing hers. While I quit subbing to OF a month ago I am still trying to shake her out.
‘Top’. I just learned what that meant last month. A coworker told me; ‘my boyfriend gives lousy top.’. I gave her a confused look. She then said ‘Most men give lousy top’. I replied ‘okay’. Later I went to Urban Dictionary to look it up. I’ve heard ‘sloppy’ before but I ‘m still not sure what that signifies.
 

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And you and I tend to be on the same side of the fence on here, but your comment about being from the last generation that was taught to think critically is funny, not to mention condescending and patently false.
The article is worth a read.

I also assert that Gen X is the last generation that was taught to think critically in the US.




 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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‘Top’. I just learned what that meant last month. A coworker told me; ‘my boyfriend gives lousy top.’. I gave her a confused look. She then said ‘Most men give lousy top’. I replied ‘okay’. Later I went to Urban Dictionary to look it up. I’ve heard ‘sloppy’ before but I ‘m still not sure what that signifies.
Its a disgusting porn term. Urban dictionary has it. I know one or two OF escorts that put a video up showing them doing it to other guys. Videos of some the OF escorts are getting brazenly hardcore. I just stay away from all that. I would never bring up or think about sex at work,.esp if I am in probation,.and took 3 mo leave of absence.
 

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I also assert that Gen X is the last generation that was taught to think critically in the US.

Of course it is not emphasized. Why would an institution give its students the necessary skills to question it or, to more extreme level, over power it?

The goal is of the system is to have the students memorize facts and figures. Anything useful in life is not taught. How to talk clearly / how to dress / how to talk to girls / how to question ideas / political systems, etc. No, no. It’s more “get the answer to the math problem.”

Granted, without math there would be no Industrial Revolution. But still, times have changed drastically since then.
 

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Its a disgusting porn term. Urban dictionary has it. I know one or two OF escorts that put a video up showing them doing it to other guys. Videos of some the OF escorts are getting brazenly hardcore. I just stay away from all that. I would never bring up or think about sex at work,.esp if I am in probation,.and took 3 mo leave of absence.
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I have no idea what those acronyms mean, but most incels I've seen on youtube are fat or delusional or both
I remember MGTOW dictionary use to lie about being a 6'3, jacked italian chad, come to find out he is a 50+ year old Indian loser who lives in his momma's basement

A lot of incels are delusional especially on forums and youtube remember Elliot Rodger? he thought he was GOd's gift to women too we all know how that played out


^^If these guys hit the gym I guarantee you, their success with women would skyrocket
Oreo Man!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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But isn’t it instructive to understand how the “other side” thinks? It allows you to be a more persuasive and eloquent speaker IMO.
 

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Know the enemy and know yourself in a hundred battles you will never be in peril. When you are ignorant of the enemy but know yourself, your chances of winning or losing are equal. If ignorant both of your enemy and of yourself, you are certain in every battle to be in peril. Sun Tzu, The Art of War

As I’ve said before read everything, take what you want from it, discard the rest. This is a place for thought and consideration and discourse, not an echo chamber.
 

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Know the enemy and know yourself in a hundred battles you will never be in peril. When you are ignorant of the enemy but know yourself, your chances of winning or losing are equal. If ignorant both of your enemy and of yourself, you are certain in every battle to be in peril. Sun Tzu, The Art of War

As I’ve said before read everything, take what you want from it, discard the rest. This is a place for thought and consideration and discourse, not an echo chamber.
You sound guilty. This is called projection.
 
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