THE R E A L Reason why poeple breakup

[COD]

MARRIED TOO YOUNG-people’s views change as they get older and eventually fall out of love.

-WORKAHOLICS-your priority should be your significant other, not your job. Spending too much time at work arouses suspicion also.

-COMMUNICATION BREAKDOWN-if you have monosyllable conversations at the dinner table it’s a good indication of a deeper problem. If you argue about the little things all the time, if you talk at each other and not to each other, maybe its time to seek some help. Behaviors like avoidance, disengagement, contempt, blame, criticism, and “the silent treatment” that lead to divorce

-INFIDELITY-cheating is a huge deal breaker. If your partner is knocking boots with someone else, you should not be married.

-GREW APART-if you are moving up and your partner remains stagnant or does not support you through your career choices, difficult times,etc. Kick ‘em to the curb.

-MONEY-the root of all evil, we are pre-occupied with the American dream. In the end, the house and it’s assets all get divided. Enjoy your materialism…… it cost you your marriage.

-LOSING INTEREST-marriage takes some effort, it requires time and nourishment, patience and LOVE to grow. After the honeymoon phase is over it comes down to respect, kindness, the little everyday things. If these are absent you will feel like you are just going through the motions, and that people….. is not a good marriage.

-NOT SEEKING HELP-lets face it, we get comfortable with the way things are, regardless if there are some problems. If issues are not resolved quickly, they will eventually fester into something that could be beyond your control to fix. A visit to a counselor brings a fresh perspective and could save you a lot of heartache.

-DIVORCE IS ACCEPTABLE-people don’t take their vows seriously today and we hear about divorce parties. We opt to throw a relationship away and get a new one rather than to try and salvage our current marriage. Feeling we would be better off alone or with someone else is a growing trend. Sometimes the grass is not always greener on the other side.

-ADDICTIONS-alcohol, drugs, gambling, even the internet can ultimately lead to a destructive relationship.

-ABUSIVE-physical abuse is definitely a good reason to get divorced, but verbal abuse can also emotionally scar someone and wreck havoc in any marriage.

-FRAUDS-people that lie, hide something from their partners or are evasive tend to be a contributing factor to the breakdown of a marriage..

 

[DonGorgon]

^^^ wow thats a alot of words to DANCE AROUND the simple fact that the human organism is not naturally manogamous and the concept of exclusive relationships is a control tool of organized civilized society...

 

[guywhoneedshelp]

I disagree with the second thing on your list. however you are right, it is a reason for breakups. When a girl likes you for who you are, then you decide you want more in life, they dislike that. You need to find a girl who already accepts the fact that you work long hours.

Your priority should be your job.

You can lose a lot of money chasing girls.

But you will never lose girls chasing money.

Become financially successful, then have a girlfriend. Don't waste time with a girl when you are too young when you should be interning, working on your resume, whatever it is.

Don't waste money on a girl when you are too young when you should be investing it properly.

Become successful and you will attract the best girls. When you are successful you don't have to hear the nagging and complaining that most average income earners hear from their wives every day.

 

[SmoothTalker]

guywhoneedshelp, that is exactly why so many north americans are miserable. Its all about money for you.

Having money is nice, but it should NOT be your priority in life. Not saying girls should be either, but don't live to work.

Besides, you'd be surprised at how money problems (or the nagging) don't go away no matter how much you make (until true wealth levels). You make more, you'll just pay more taxes, get a bigger house, nicer new car, more cable channels, eat better food, go out more, and guess what, you have money problems again.

 

[falcon814]

You can lose a lot of money chasing girls.

But you will never lose girls chasing money.

Thats the quote i live my life by.

 

[Warrior74]

Besides, you'd be surprised at how money problems (or the nagging) don't go away no matter how much you make (until true wealth levels). You make more, you'll just pay more taxes, get a bigger house, nicer new car, more cable channels, eat better food, go out more, and guess what, you have money problems again.

If your making more money and trying to live beyond your means you got more than money problems, you got issues. If you are driving new cars, you are stupid and have issues. If you start going out more, you are wasteful and have issues....you get the message here? If money changes you that much that you let your life fall apart and get into financial ruin you got problems. Not everyone wiht money has these problems buddy. some people with money have modest lives and generous bank accounts.

your post is a shaming attack on money.

 

[SmoothTalker]

Okay.. that's not what I was saying.

I like money, plan to make a lot in the future, and am currently working on an education that will allow me to do so.

All I was saying is, money is not that important. It certainly doesn't make anybody happy. Once you are out of poverty, it just depends on the kind of person you are. If you're the kind of person that can live below their means and save (very rare these days), then as long as you are at least middle class, you'll be fine. If you aren't, then making $500k a year won't change that.

Besides, what's the point of your big bank account if you're not using that money? Bragging rights? Maybe it will allow you to retire early, but I'd rather retire 10 years later having enjoyed the rest of my life, than 10 years earlier having worked myself into the ground the previous 30.


Guywhoneedshelp basically said that money will solve ALL your problems. I said that is bull****. Are you honestly disagreeing with me? Sure it's nice to have and make lots of money, but its no the key to life. Shall I point you to all the lottery winners that end up broke again and depressed, all the ****ed up celebraties, or all the spoiled brats in the world?

Explain to me why most of the world is far happier with less money than the typical American?

 

[COD]

just a post why chics breakup..............money really has nothing to do with it........unless she is a gold digger

 

[EdmondDantes]

money is part of it.. not all..