"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Purple pill.

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Was watching a documentary about a rock star Iggy Pop who once had it all , you can tell he had the women and everything he wanted in life. Needless to say , now he is irrelevant and living the rest of his life in Miami. The interviewer asked him what is the most thrilling thing for him now and he said " this is embarrassing but being LOVED"

At the end humans crave attention and love , you can be the most extremist red pill but at some point in your life you will crave this natural sensation. That's why I try to strike a balance between red a d blue pill , you CAN'T ex cape reality forever.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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There is no "balance" between red and blue pills. I think you guys need to go back and inform yourselves on what Red Pill means.

Red Pill: To be unplugged from the "matrix" that is the emasculation ot man and pedastalization of women and inform oneself with the true knowledge of male/female interactions. To.be aware of the ruse that is the Disney fairytale.

Red pill doesn't mean, you shun women. Nor does it mean you can't seek love or affection. This popular belief that Red Pill = woman hate needs to be dispelled quickly.

Also, being a celebrity doesn't necessarily mean their Red Pill. I.e: Robin Thicke
 

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Escape reality forever? The red pill is SUPPOSED to represent reality. If the metaphor is to have any meaning at all, the red pill HAS to represent reality - as it really is. Otherwise, you are just exchanging one delusion for another.

PUAs want to turn the red pill into THEIR version of the truth. But if it's not the REAL truth, there's no point in swallowing the red pill at all.
 

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zekko said:
Escape reality forever? The red pill is SUPPOSED to represent reality. If the metaphor is to have any meaning at all, the red pill HAS to represent reality - as it really is. Otherwise, you are just exchanging one delusion for another.

PUAs want to turn the red pill into THEIR version of the truth. But if it's not the REAL truth, there's no point in swallowing the red pill at all.
So what is the REAL truth anyway?

To me, each one has their own reality, and it depends on one's personal background, physical appearances, personality, etc. For example, a good looking person is going to have a different perception on the members of the opposite sex based on his/her interaction with them, compared to an average person. So it is all subjective, imo.
 

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ChrisFloyd said:
So what is the REAL truth anyway?

To me, each one has their own reality, and it depends on one's personal background, physical appearances, personality, etc. For example, a good looking person is going to have a different perception on the members of the opposite sex based on his/her interaction with them, compared to an average person. So it is all subjective, imo.
Agreed, I think we all have our own reality. Good post.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I dunno about different realities... are any men exempt from female hypergamy? sure a good looking guy with money can get laid easier, whatever. What about the rules of engagement in a relationship? Women are always trying to take the upper hand in a relationship and that never ends. Are some men exempt from this, or is this just a short sighted thread?
 

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SgtSplacker said:
I dunno about different realities... are any men exempt from female hypergamy? sure a good looking guy with money can get laid easier, whatever. What about the rules of engagement in a relationship? Women are always trying to take the upper hand in a relationship and that never ends. Are some men exempt from this, or is this just a short sighted thread?
First off, our individual realities may differ, but I was thinking in more subtle ways. We're all still subject to the laws of gravity, and we're all still under a blue sky (unless you're color blind).

Second, you talked about a good looking guy with money. Make him the captain of the football team while we're at it. Is that guy's experience with hypergamy going to be the same as the 5'2" poor kid with the cleft palate from across the tracks?

As for women trying to take the upper hand, I just don't feed into it. This just isn't an issue for me. I know what my frame is and it isn't going to change for some chick. She is welcome to come along for the ride if she wants, but I'm driving.
 

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Danger said:
The OP makes the false premise that the red-pill means not being loved. Where does this false premise come from?
That was my original point. The OP seems to define red pill as meaning some sort of "PUA, terminal one night stand existence, Briffault's law, women only want to use men, they don't really care about them" sort of belief.

Now some of that may or may not be true, but the point of the red pill is that it is supposed to represent reality. Not another set of beliefs written by someone else, like Mystery or Poon King, or whatever.
 
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