"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The "Pu$$ies, Pu$$y Rule."

spiegel549

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So I have been going to a few cougar bars recently and been getting heat from my younger college friends that I am spending too much time at the bars recently with old, ugly, fat, not so hot women LOL...okay hear me out...

You know when I go out to bars and it comes down to women I am trying to "take home" I go for the hottest one's in the club/bar. When I am not having such great luck I dance/talk/have fun with everyone, because thats my personality...extremely outgoing, fun, social type of guy. I'll dance with fat chicks, ugly chicks, prego chicks, old chicks, chicks with no teeth (can't rake you that way) you know all out of fun, and to get a good laugh at later.

Now I won't leave with something that I am not attracted too, which is anything less then a 7, but I will talk and be friendly with all women. Well I have been getting some heat from some younger buddies about how I need to avoid all those women and just go for hot ones...almost like they are uncomfortable seeing me dance with a fat chick LOL...personally I couldn't give a flying fcuk who my friends danced with or hooked up with..thats just me lol..I go out to laugh and have fun, meet new people etc. If I bring home a hot 9 to bang great, if not, then next time.

What do you think? Pump the brakes with the uglies? Stick to pulling only hotties?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Slickster

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Stop worrying about what other people think. Be the guy having the most fun in the room and you will always have success.

Your buddies will learn respect when they see the attractive women you are getting.

Next time you are at a wedding get Grandma to dance and watch how the younger girls come running.
 

sageproduct

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Nahhh bro I like the sound of what you're doing, fwck the guys who say otherwise

One of the funniest things I've heard recently was spoken by Kong from SimplePickup. The other two guys were lightly jabbing him for hooking up with fat/marginally attractive chicks from time to time, so he earnestly responded, "You know, I'm a gentleman and a philanthropist. I like to give back to the community. I feel that many hot chicks who are better looking than me have given me the chance to get with them, later finding out that I'm an awesome guy. So, since I got those chances, I like to give back by giving the girls who are less attractive than me a chance as well." LOL
 

Mike32ct

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I agree with Slickster.

I dance with young ones to grannys in my ballroom class. It's all fun and PRACTICE. Some doable cougars are mixed in.

Be the most fun guy and the most confident experienced dancer.

Then when you meet a chick YOU like (regardless of her age or looks), your club/party/dance game will be so ON.

Good look man and don't give a F what your envious buddies think.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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zinc4

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your friends sound lame...i dance with fat girls all the time to lure in the hotter ones...hell i use them as bait, especially if they have a hot friend...the hot friend gets super insecure when you go for their friends instead of them...

but yeah, most importantly it's good to have fun with everyone...i dance with everyone as well, but unlike you i will take home less than attractive chicks if i am drunk enough...hate all you want, but some of the best sex i have ever had was with 2 fat chicks...it felt like they were attacking my body and eating it...those were some hungry crazy b^tches...if i am not that drunk than obviously, only the hotter ones will do...ah the wonders of alcohol
 

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Spiegel- keep on doing what you are doing. You will learn more about women and become more successful than your friends ever will.

Those fat girls you dance with make the hot ones stand there and ask themselves why isn't he dancing with me? ;-) Use it to your advantage.
 

spiegel549

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I figured what I was doing was fine, and all in good fun.

I had to hear from my sosuave brothers.

Thanks Men! :up:
 
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