"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The "Pu$$ies, Pu$$y Rule."

spiegel549

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So I have been going to a few cougar bars recently and been getting heat from my younger college friends that I am spending too much time at the bars recently with old, ugly, fat, not so hot women LOL...okay hear me out...

You know when I go out to bars and it comes down to women I am trying to "take home" I go for the hottest one's in the club/bar. When I am not having such great luck I dance/talk/have fun with everyone, because thats my personality...extremely outgoing, fun, social type of guy. I'll dance with fat chicks, ugly chicks, prego chicks, old chicks, chicks with no teeth (can't rake you that way) you know all out of fun, and to get a good laugh at later.

Now I won't leave with something that I am not attracted too, which is anything less then a 7, but I will talk and be friendly with all women. Well I have been getting some heat from some younger buddies about how I need to avoid all those women and just go for hot ones...almost like they are uncomfortable seeing me dance with a fat chick LOL...personally I couldn't give a flying fcuk who my friends danced with or hooked up with..thats just me lol..I go out to laugh and have fun, meet new people etc. If I bring home a hot 9 to bang great, if not, then next time.

What do you think? Pump the brakes with the uglies? Stick to pulling only hotties?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Slickster

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Stop worrying about what other people think. Be the guy having the most fun in the room and you will always have success.

Your buddies will learn respect when they see the attractive women you are getting.

Next time you are at a wedding get Grandma to dance and watch how the younger girls come running.
 

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Nahhh bro I like the sound of what you're doing, fwck the guys who say otherwise

One of the funniest things I've heard recently was spoken by Kong from SimplePickup. The other two guys were lightly jabbing him for hooking up with fat/marginally attractive chicks from time to time, so he earnestly responded, "You know, I'm a gentleman and a philanthropist. I like to give back to the community. I feel that many hot chicks who are better looking than me have given me the chance to get with them, later finding out that I'm an awesome guy. So, since I got those chances, I like to give back by giving the girls who are less attractive than me a chance as well." LOL
 

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I agree with Slickster.

I dance with young ones to grannys in my ballroom class. It's all fun and PRACTICE. Some doable cougars are mixed in.

Be the most fun guy and the most confident experienced dancer.

Then when you meet a chick YOU like (regardless of her age or looks), your club/party/dance game will be so ON.

Good look man and don't give a F what your envious buddies think.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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zinc4

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your friends sound lame...i dance with fat girls all the time to lure in the hotter ones...hell i use them as bait, especially if they have a hot friend...the hot friend gets super insecure when you go for their friends instead of them...

but yeah, most importantly it's good to have fun with everyone...i dance with everyone as well, but unlike you i will take home less than attractive chicks if i am drunk enough...hate all you want, but some of the best sex i have ever had was with 2 fat chicks...it felt like they were attacking my body and eating it...those were some hungry crazy b^tches...if i am not that drunk than obviously, only the hotter ones will do...ah the wonders of alcohol
 

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Spiegel- keep on doing what you are doing. You will learn more about women and become more successful than your friends ever will.

Those fat girls you dance with make the hot ones stand there and ask themselves why isn't he dancing with me? ;-) Use it to your advantage.
 

spiegel549

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I figured what I was doing was fine, and all in good fun.

I had to hear from my sosuave brothers.

Thanks Men! :up:
 
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