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Ummm cats, you do realize that everything you just said is paraphrase of everything I said in the OP?Thinking more on this, I think ignoring might work when a man and woman already know each other, have been interacting with each other (say at work or social circle) and she has an attraction to him, but for whatever reason she’s NOT giving him the necessary choosing signals/IOI for him to ask her out.
The idea being this gets her hamster wheels spinning wondering why he stopped talking to her and is suddenly ignoring her!
So basically, you agree with the context of this thread.
Correct?
Yup. Pretty much what I've been saying.And as most people know, at least I do and own it, when a woman starts wondering about a man, and her hamster wheels begin spinning in overdrive, it will drive our attraction higher and push us to either giving him the necessary choosing signals/IOI to ask us out OR she will begin outright chasing him! I have seen it happen both ways.
True. But the ignoring can also create the attraction.I don’t believe it will actually create attraction for reasons stated earlier, she has no reference to draw from. Only him ignoring her. The attraction should already be there, at least on some level.
Ohhh, is it?My experience.
Ohhh, is it now?It goes hand in hand with the two theories - people want what they can't have and/or pull back and the object of our desire will move forward.
I realize Kim Kardashian became attracted to Pete Davidson when he ignored her, but let’s face it, the woman is about as self-absorbed and entitled as they come, I would not recommend basing how women respond to anything a man does on what SHE responds to, lol.
My $.02.