The "Projecting Sexuality" Textbook

[Atom Smasher]

I see sprinkled around this site an occasional post about "becoming more sexual" or "projecting sexuality".

I have come to realize that I have always been severely challenged (and totally unaware) in this area. Since I'm extremely young-looking for an old-timer (I'm 52 but people think I'm in my 30s), I still have a shot at handling this and making some progress.

I thought we could use this thread as a repository for ideas on how to project sexuality. Let's get the greatest SoSuave minds in here to create a textbook on the subject.

It seems that both verbal and physical tips would be appropriate here. The only thing I can offer is the following:

During a conversation with a HB, inject the conversation with sexually-charged words. For example, tell her "That's a very penetrating question" or "Be careful or you'll blow it". I find this works wonders for getting her where you want her. Any other ideas? Feel free to chime in.

 

[Lexington]

This textbook has already been written. Search for "The Gunwitch Method." It can be found here in this very forum. That'll give you all the information you need on projecting sexuality. It's simple and to the point.

 

[yuppaz]

I've got to testify to all my brothers that displaying sexuality without words but with your body, breath and voice tone makes a huge difference 4 me.

 

[Vlappo]

One of the tricks that I learned naturally a few years ago is that what you SAY means a lot less than what you DO.

For example, lets take this situation:

Me: So tell me, what kind of guys do you usually go for?

Her: Well, there isn't really a common type, but mainly guys that are confident, etc etc. How about you? What kind of girls do you like?

Me: Well...(lean in), I like bigger girls. (Keep a straight face a gage her reaction). She will most likely laugh...when she does, kino her at the same time, but hold your frame and keep a serious face while kinoing ;-). Also, if there's an obese lady near you, whisper in ear "damn...thats my kinda girl." This has always worked for me and goes w/ my personality of being playful. Sarcasm along w/ kino is golden because it doesn't make it obvious/blatant that you're hitting on her and confuses her. And then you escalate more and more this way.

This radiates a few things to her:

1) You are confident
2) You are sexual
3) You are playful and can make her laugh