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The Progression Of The Don Juan

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Here's a freebie from my book:


From The Book of Shuma Gora:

THE PROGRESSION OF THE DON JUAN

When you first become a Don Juan,
there are several stages which you go
through on your way to the top. These
may take longer or shorter to go through,
depending on the person. These stages
of growth are normal, and you progress
through them based on the insights that
you gain and the knowledge that you
accumulate. I will go on to explain the
phases that a Don Juan goes through as
he learns.

Pre stage: Uninitiated AFC

This is where everyone begins. This is
called a pre-stage in the Don Juan
development because a man in this stage
is not a Don Juan, but an AFC. The AFC
is accustomed to failure, and believes the
lies that society tells him concerning
dating. However, a decision arises. The
AFC may learn the existence of the Don
Juan system, or perhaps not. This
decision point is the critical part in his
Don Juan carreer, for it decides whether
or not he is initiated into the
brotherhood if lucky, or whether he is
doomed to spend life as an AFC if he is
unlucky. Once he has made his choice,
he ceases to become and AFC and
becomes a Don Juan initiate.

Stage One: Initiation

This is the first stage that a Don Juan
experiences. He enters this stage as an
AFC, and the purpose of this stage is to
eliminate his AFC habits. once he has
accomplished this, he must be ready and
openminded enough to forsake all he has
learned in favour of the Don Juan
system.

The process that happens during this
phase is something like the following:


a.) An initiate comes to the realization
that the AFC way is not the best way.

b.) He then sets aside the past that he
has chosen to forsake, and looks to the
future for a glimpse of what he is able to
mold himself into

c.) he realizes his potential and opens
himself fully to it.


Once all these processes have occurred,
the Initiate is ready to move on to Stage
two.


Stage Two: The Learner

Once the initiate has set aside his old
habits and tendencies, he is ready to
become a learner. The learner begins to
learn the basic Don Juan truths, such as
the power of confidence, the principle of
remaining a challenge, and the attitude
that brings success.

The learner also begins to try out these
new tools, and throughout the next
several stages, he is steadily learning and
gaining insights. He must begin his
advancements by putting the techniques
to use. Failure is common at this stage,
and is to be expected. However, failure
is a wise teacher. Learn what succeeds,
and what fails, and your progression will
happen all the swifter.


Stage Three: Advanced Learner

Once the learner has mastered the basics
of the Don Juan system, he continues
learning until he progresses to the point
where the whole philosophy begins to
make more and more sense, and he
starts to realize the scope of what he is
starting to learn. Approaches are easier
now, confidence is more and more
present, and all of the other skills are
starting to become less
spur-of-the-moment and more controlled
and refined. The separating factor
between this phase and the final
ultimate phase is that the Advanced
learner is still placing dating as a high
necessity in his life. Once he can se
ebeyond this, he has progressed into the
final stage.


Stage Four: Master Don Juan

Truly the highest possible rank that a
man can achieve in his quest, the rank of
Master Don Juan is the epitome of Don
Juan nirvana. What this means is that
approaches are never a problem, there is
always a core of confidence burning
within the master's soul that is able to be
released at a whim, the master knows
how to remain a challenge, and lastly,
the Master has finally learned the major
truth of this stage over that of stage
three: The right attitude.

This attitude is elusive, because it goes
against our nature as men. Society and
genetics has instilled within each of us a
burning desire for sex, but a Master Don
Juan is able to conqueor that primal urge
and control it. A master knows that there
are other things in life besides women;
he values quality over quantity. Because
of this, the master knows the value of
patience. Whereas a mere player will
settle for the first chick that comes along,
the Master don Juan is able to be far
more discerning because he knows that
he has the power to get the absolute best
available. Let the players take the rest,
the Master Don Juan is only interested
in the best!

The attribute that attracts women to a
Master Don Juan is that women are not
the Master's top priority. The master
knows that the women will always be
there when he wants them, so a prime
goal of the master is to fufill his own
dreams first before he thinks about
women. Think of any of the great
renaissance artists, such as Michalangelo
and Leonardo Da Vinci. these great men
were so impassioned about their own
work that they sacrificed many of their
other opportunities to pursue a goal that
they had set their mind for.

It is similar with the Master don Juan.
The Master might not paint a famous
painting or create a nude statue of David,
but the Master has his own goals that are
just as important and have just as much
potential to change the world.

When a man is so empassioned about his
work, women notice this and come of
their own accord. This is a simple truth,
and it comes back to the principle that
women want what they cannot have.
What they cannot have, the woman will
unceasingly strive to gain. But the
Master Don Juan is not about to have his
heart captured, if it means interfering in
his work. The fact that he feels this way,
plus the innate desire of women to
manipulate and control, these both put
an aura of incredible attraction and
mystery around the Master Don Juan.
This helps to create a challenge element
so strong that few women can resist it.
Achieving this level is possible, but it
takes many month and even years of
devotion to self improvement. Despite it's
difficulties, I assure you that it can be
done, my friend.
 

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Hey, that's a really great post. I'm surprised you haven't had any more replies.
 
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mindblowin'

You know what ? ...Your book is going to be an amazing read ....
I really can't wait any longer....

Bravooooo !!
 

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BUMP



[just so this post has some meaning and purpose, I should inform you that have only about 3 or so articles left to write. I then have to debug the program and correct some typos, and them I'll release the first edition. ]
 

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over 100 views and 3 replies? Come on, Djs.... :)
 

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Great Post!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am aiming to become a master :)

I'm at the "Stage One: Initiation" stage :)
 

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Bump!

(I want more comments, gentlemen! :) )
 

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Something just dawned on me from your post.
My confidence has doubled over the last few months. I've always had a strong ability to set goals in life and shoot for them. However one thing was holding me back from women. Even my sister outright said it- I pose no challenge.

CORRECT ME IF I'M WRONG...
De-prioritizing women is what being a challenge is about. Or better yet, that’s where it starts.
 

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Originally posted by pilot0001

CORRECT ME IF I'M WRONG...
De-prioritizing women is what being a challenge is about. Or better yet, that’s where it starts.
There you have it, gentlemen.
 

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Really looking forward to that book...
 

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Good stuff.

I've just started to 'do it automatically' when it comes to using DJ tools. I no longer consciously have to remember to maintain eye contact or to use kino: it's starting to just HAPPEN automatically. This is good. I'm pretty sure that's a sign I'm learning ;)
 

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CORRECT ME IF I'M WRONG...
De-prioritizing women is what being a challenge is about. Or better yet, that’s where it starts.

There you have it, gentlemen.
I reckon this paradigm would warrant a chapter in your book Page!!

Personally I believe this is a central concept of being a DJ. ;)
 

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Due to the chance of this being deleted due to time, Matrix has requested me to bump this for it to stay in the High School bible. Thank you.
 
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