"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The problem with the people on this board.

oakraiderz2

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ElStud said:
Question is, why the f*ck do you care so god damned much? Why the hell is it your problem? Why post this post? No reason. That's what I don't understand. Have you nothing better to do? What the hell is your problem? Why are you on MY d*ck? Surely I could dig up some stuff on you and reverse things, but I'm not that kind of guy.

Besides, you don't know what I do. Hundreds of post? And my last FR was monthes ago. Seriously though, why the hell is it such a god damned big deal to you guys? Getting girls and getting laid aint even that big of a deal to me. I go up to girls, be myself, get interest have fun. I'm 18, I'm not in a rush to get a freaking kiss. All I care is I'm enjoying what I'm doing.

But seriously, ask yourself, why the hell do you care so much?
Another well written, eloquent post by elstud...give yourself a pat on the back. Obviously, you lack the intellectual capacity to 1. respond in a mature manner and 2. understand the basic concept i was talking about. You cant dig up sh*t on me, im sure youve tried seeing as you either play video games or approach and fail. Youre 19 and STILL havent gotten your first kiss??? And you dont care? And to clear things up since youre mildly retarded, just because people say have sex with girls doesnt mean thats all they care about. Its just you being a dumbass and making assumptions. Youre behavior can be explained with the psychoanlytic theory to a T. And i post cause i have the time to and i think youre an ego centric, self absorbed, arrogant, dooshbag.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Warrior74

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I'm not gonna hate you Elstud, i see your trying to improve yourself. And you have some valid points about haters and the comments here.

I'm a grown man. I've been out there in the game from a player to a symp and back again (that should be the name of a book), just keep improving and keep trying and go for what you want man.

At the end of the day, nobody here knows anybody else. It's all just words on a screen. You have to know if what your doing is right for you. You also have to be open and at least consider contrary advice before you discard it. That's called being a man.

But if you have a goal, and people are giving you advice towards getting to that goal and you don't bother to take their advice, they feel frustrated. Like their time was wasted.

If your goal is not to get laid at the moment but just to learn how to be comfortable with women and how to be a social creature, that's all to the good man. One step at a time. I didn't loose my virginity until I was 19. So do you player, and keep on keeping on.
 
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