"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The problem really is my personality

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Been thinking about this. Another moment of clarity.

It's my lack of ability to actually care about the well-being of others. To take their feelings into account and not just be selfish.

It has nothing to do with looks, in fact, I think my looks are probably pretty good. But girls are attracted to more than just looks. I should definitely still continue to flip houses and make as much money as possible.

If a girl thinks you actually care about her life and well-being, she would probably give you her vagina as an afterthought.

I can't remember the last time I smiled and had fun with people, or had a laugh with people.

Of course, I could be wrong about this. Maybe it's the a$$hole$ that will always win.

But I remember reading that it's not about being nice vs. being a jerk, it's about being strong vs. being weak.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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