"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The problem really is my personality

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Been thinking about this. Another moment of clarity.

It's my lack of ability to actually care about the well-being of others. To take their feelings into account and not just be selfish.

It has nothing to do with looks, in fact, I think my looks are probably pretty good. But girls are attracted to more than just looks. I should definitely still continue to flip houses and make as much money as possible.

If a girl thinks you actually care about her life and well-being, she would probably give you her vagina as an afterthought.

I can't remember the last time I smiled and had fun with people, or had a laugh with people.

Of course, I could be wrong about this. Maybe it's the a$$hole$ that will always win.

But I remember reading that it's not about being nice vs. being a jerk, it's about being strong vs. being weak.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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