the probleem is!

[TheGambino]

The probleem is: you meet a girl be a Dj with her shes intetested you LIke her but you always have to put effort in to contact and most guys are hasty messaging allday but what do you do when she never initiates contact? She told me; 'a man has to chase a woman'..

 

[GS750]

She wants you to jump through hoops while she sits back and loves the attention. Then when she meets someone more interesting than you she'll drop you like a hot potato because she's invested nothing in you, by not putting in any initiative, and you've done all the work chasing after her. Sound right?

 

[confuscioused]

Play the game until she puts out, be vague, mysterious and not too desperate like you've been down the road a million times than when you get her, nail here and eat her like she's never had before than be a little distant and she will follow up with you like a crackhead on a rock mission. Most guys pump and dump and don't do the little things in bed, she will remember you for being different.

 

[GS750]

Crackhead on a rock mission lol. That's a good one

 

[hockeyfreak79]

Play the game until she puts out, be vague, mysterious and not too desperate like you've been down the road a million times than when you get her, nail here and eat her like she's never had before than be a little distant and she will follow up with you like a crackhead on a rock mission. Most guys pump and dump and don't do the little things in bed, she will remember you for being different.

She thinks she's the prize, it doesn't sound like she is all that interested. Be different, woman get chased all the time by guys. Flip the script, it's always better when the woman does the chasing after you. Make em squirt like confuscioused said and yes just like a crackhead.

 

[Jair213]

the thing is if the girl has low interest being indifferent and or dj gaming will have little effects.

 

[JoeMarron]

Sounds like a next to me. A woman should always be investing more than you are.

 

[TheGambino]

Ok and what if you dont know her interest level. Tho I playfully kissed her on her mouth real quick during the time we spent and she said she wanted to date but i cancelled at the last moment coz something came true. Problem is she never initiates contact, her interest level is prob high enough to check me out but I know if I act like a AFC im done for it... How can i persue and let her chase me if she doesn't message me herself. I have to get her out of her house and the only way is messaging her... u guys think its good too wait a couple of days until she texts? or just try to set up a date as soon as possible?

 

[jay07]

"A man has to chase a woman" = trap.

Piggybacking off joe, if she aint initiating ever. She has low interest. Think about it. The girls youve talked to, who was initiating a majority of the time?

If she wanted to smash, shed contact you. Even chicks who dont wanna date, but are interested enough to put out will compete for your attention. If she doesnt want to go the distance even for her ego boost, she takes you as an easy prospect.

Heres what i would do if you still pursue. Dont contact for at least a week, that is i she doesnt hit you up first. Then text her something short. When she responds ignore and wait for the double text on her end. You have nothing to lose.

 

[old_skoolr]

I had a girl pull that on me once on a date

I replied "Yeh but the girl has to be worth the chase"

She messaged me the next day, never got back to her