"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Princess Syndrome

DJDamage

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http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20090522/ap_on_re_us/us_princess_syndrome

These days, that message begins practically at birth with everything from princess baby shirts and "her royal highness" bibs to princess-themed photo albums and picture frames for baby girls. By the time those girls are toddlers, many are drawn to the princess dresses, glittery crowns and even makeup.
All of it, Haller says, constitutes a brilliant marketing move that targets a normal stage of child development. By age 3, kids are beginning to define themselves, both with gender and as individuals. They're also big-time into fantasy play, which for boys, often manifests itself in super heroes.

But somehow, the princess phenomenon has become way more loaded.

"It just encourages parents who put their kids on a pedestal — and who encourage their kids a lot and rarely criticize," says Jean Twenge, an associate professor of psychology at San Diego State who's done research on the way parenting affects children. "You could label that kind of parenting 'princess parenting.'"
Among other things, she and co-author W. Keith Campbell found the rate that college-age women were developing narcissistic traits was four times that of men, when analyzing surveys taken from 2002 through 2007. It should be noted that, overall, men of that age group still are more likely to exhibit narcissistic traits, including the belief that "If I ruled the world, it would be a much better place."
Is it ever no wonder why so many women today walk around with a self-entitlement attitude and lack empathy or many positive traits?! I mean when Paris Hilton first came out and showed the world how a rich princess act, we all thought it was funny for being utterly ridiculous ,however many girls who grow up wathing Paris Hilton have emulated her behaviour to such a degree that running into one these days is quite the norm.

Ironically if you end up calling one of these girls behaviour's as "princess like" they get pissed at you.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DJDamage said:
Ironically if you end up calling ...incess lifestyle - how dare any man comment !
 

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Did we really need more proof that women are retarded?

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F*ck the "Princesses", they can suck my d*ck. They ought to be slapped upside their heads.
 

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No kidding. The other week this dumb b1tch thought I was "scared to be rejected" by her because I canceled on her dumb ass once.

Needless to say, I ignored her for the past few weeks after that incident and now the ***** is begging to be back in my life. Strike one and you're out. Sorry b1tch!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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