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Just to clarify, unless you have very low testosterone, "1 tablet" can mean several things. I recommend 25mg or less. They come in 25, 50, 100mg doses. If you take a high dose, it can leave you with a headache or feeling of being flush.
A while ago I ordered generic Viagra (sildenafil), I wasn't aware of the different mg dosages, I took 100mg and another 100mg 3 hours later. I was a maniac with the chick I was seeing lol. Like He-Man used to say as he lifted his sword....."I Have The POWERRR!!!". it was over for that girl.

My heart was beating a bit fast but luckily my body was able to handle it. I wouldn't try that dosage again though lol.

I've also taken 40mg of Cialis (Tadalafil). The performance was incredible but the next day.... Oh man... I had the most massive headache anyone could imagine. That sh!t lasted all day. Brutal.
 

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I can fukk all night on Viagra. Sh1t is amazing, but dont let it become a crutch.
I can fuk all night without viagra... im 42 lol... but it hlps that im catchin up from a virtially sexless marriage with a previous crush from back in my highschool days 23yrs later lol....
 

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I can fuk all night without viagra... im 42 lol... but it hlps that im catchin up from a virtially sexless marriage with a previous crush from back in my highschool days 23yrs later lol....
Man that's great. I was in your position but then started doing the pvssy carousel thing. If I had some advice to myself, I would've said to sleep a lot with the same quality woman over and over rather than venture out and sleep with several mediocre women once or twice. That's how you keep those long erections along with long term sustainability of excitement with the same partner.
 

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So you're doing alot of fvcking in comparison?
Well.... i went from an average of maybe 1 or 2 times a month with my ex of 25yrs (it picked up a bit near the end but i think it eas guilt sex and sex was always one and done kinda deal which sucked)... to 4 or 5 times a night with my new gf i have currently.....

i had slept with a few women since my ex (been outa my marriage for 2yrs coming this april) but find myself really liking this lady whos come back into my life that used to be my grade 10 science lab partner back when i first met my wife... this lady is hot... loves hunting and shooting guns.. loves fishin... same age as me.. she likes gaming.. loves reading.... kid is grown and gone.. chemisty is unreal... she has me fkn her over n over n over.... she has had her internals removed and says that every now and then she needs to cvm 4 or 5 times in a day cuz she gets a weird cramp inside her thats only relieved by a couple good orgasms and then she nearly squirts.. she does this either herself (which shes shown me and she knows herself well) or from me (which she has guided me to how to best make things work for her)... and either way... its fkn hot... ill take it... not even interested in anyone else currently... she communicates well ... directs me to what she needs most... no fkn around... gets to the point... and once done... doesnt take long for me to be rdy for round 2 or 3 or 4... fk... blows my mind... have to check and see if i am dreaming.. man she has stamina.... guna go see her tomorrow and spend the weekend lol.. fk ya!
 

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Well.... i went from an average of maybe 1 or 2 times a month with my ex of 25yrs (it picked up a bit near the end but i think it eas guilt sex and sex was always one and done kinda deal which sucked)... to 4 or 5 times a night with my new gf i have currently.....

i had slept with a few women since my ex (been outa my marriage for 2yrs coming this april) but find myself really liking this lady whos come back into my life that used to be my grade 10 science lab partner back when i first met my wife... this lady is hot... loves hunting and shooting guns.. loves fishin... same age as me.. she likes gaming.. loves reading.... kid is grown and gone.. chemisty is unreal... she has me fkn her over n over n over.... she has had her internals removed and says that every now and then she needs to cvm 4 or 5 times in a day cuz she gets a weird cramp inside her thats only relieved by a couple good orgasms and then she nearly squirts.. she does this either herself (which shes shown me and she knows herself well) or from me (which she has guided me to how to best make things work for her)... and either way... its fkn hot... ill take it... not even interested in anyone else currently... she communicates well ... directs me to what she needs most... no fkn around... gets to the point... and once done... doesnt take long for me to be rdy for round 2 or 3 or 4... fk... blows my mind... have to check and see if i am dreaming.. man she has stamina.... guna go see her tomorrow and spend the weekend lol.. fk ya!
How's your erections and sex drive in comparison? I bet you notice alot more women checking you out, being doused In pvssy.
 

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How's your erections and sex drive in comparison? I bet you notice alot more women checking you out, being doused In pvssy.
Hard as a rock man.... sometimes i blow and just keep going til it happens again... i do notice some women notice me more yup... im postured better i stand taller... i hardly even look at them. I used to be pretty thirsty.. but.. no longer and some women at work have walked by me then turn to look. Its a pretty good feeling but i wont be persuing women at work... ill stay with what i got going and see how that plays out.

My ex found out and shes all "ur grade 10 lab partner....from highschool? ... really?"... ex used to say shyt like 'i see she made it to ur locker b4 me and seen u hug her... why dont u just go fk her then?"... i didnt know then that she liked me.... but im with her now! Haha... such a great feeling.... and my ex is still sounding miserable af.
 

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Anyways to OP.. man.. i hope your OK now... careful out there man...
 

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I couldnt imagine what a viagra or cialis would do to me.... lol
 

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I couldnt imagine what a viagra or cialis would do to me.... lol
If your already hard as a rock and get hard easily by her it'll just be a more powerful erection about 5% bigger. Recovery after orgasm a bit quicker. But you don't need it. You see the difference in your d1ck between the ex and the current. So you see in the right situation it'll perform like a champ.
 

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You see the difference in your d1ck between the ex and the current. So you see in the right situation it'll perform like a champ.
Oh totally..... had no idea it could perfom like that... had not performed like that since pre children... and it didnt with the other ladies i was with between current gf and ex either... but this current gf makes me like an Energizer bunny.... shes been blowing up my phone today excited to see me tomorrow lol... *shrugs*... she will have dinner ready when i get there too... fk ya!
 

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Oh totally..... had no idea it could perfom like that... had not performed like that since pre children... and it didnt with the other ladies i was with between current gf and ex either... but this current gf makes me like an Energizer bunny.... shes been blowing up my phone today excited to see me tomorrow lol... *shrugs*... she will have dinner ready when i get there too... fk ya!
You gotta hold onto this one. Keep fvcking her and doing what you're doing.
 

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Stay the course yup... :)
 

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Yeah man, I made a very bad decision with that. I'm gonna give a break into having casual sex... but if it happened in the future I'm gonna have some pills to help me with my psychologic erectile dysfuntion. Most of times I put condom I lost my erection. And that is the biggest cause for me to have had unprotected sex.

We had some video calls and I saw her in her house... but we never know. Also she said to me when we finished having sex: "I like so much to have sex."

When she said that I felt a really weird energy... Like she was telling me she was addicted to it. I'm almost sure she didn't fcked just that one guy unprotected before me as she said. Maybe there was more.
Yeah man sometimes you just gotta make some serious realizations and reevaluate your decision making so that going forward you make smarter decisions. If you have issues with erections, it would make sense to address those first before going out there and f.cking a girl raw.. Raw/unprotected sex is far more stupid than people think. There are STI's (infections) and then there are STD's that are full blown diseases and hard to treat, though some have vaccines... though usually you have to get the vaccine first, not after.

It really sounds to me as I mentioned earlier you found an escort/hooker. I think she was probably on the cusp of leaving and had a day or two left before she flies to a different state. There are hookers that do that.. They fly from state to state, usually just stay at the hotel, make posts online or on apps getting guys to f.ck them, or on escort forums.. and charge money, .. once they make enough money, they'll f.ck some other guys just because they're always horny. Sad part is, shes out here burning dudes . which is so messed up
 

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You're welcome my dear Blacksheep.

Extra rest when you can get it is important for recovery from multiple things, people and events.

There will be a point in your future where you will feel completely rejuvenated, if you surrender to resting now to heal....from everything.


Be kind to yourself. Its what I do for myself too. It works if you just release and give in to getting more rest.

There's a reason doctors say:

"get plenty of rest and drink lots of water"

These two actions help your body and mind heal itself.
That's true! I'm just doing both of that... Drinking a lot of water and resting.

Avoiding much contact and filtering the people I allow to stay around... It can have a big influence on us.

Feeling better today, more energy and just waiting for the results of exams.
 

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Bro I've been there. Here's some things I've noticed.

Sometimes just having the right condom will do it. I would try different condoms as the "thin" ones usually work better for me with the better feeling. (the Skynz brand worked good for me)

Sometimes, you just can't get comfortable with the girl to have good, relaxed sex with her on the first meet or even the first time. (anxiety happens and can kill erections)

Sometimes, its just the sexual compatibility you have with that particular girl.( I was soft with some and rock hard with others with nothing else changing)

As for taking viagra or cialis to help you, use it sparingly and don't be reliant on it. If you use it too much, it will no longer be effective since your body can get used to it. Cialis will last the whole day where as Viagra, you need to take an hour before having sex and it only lasts 3-4hours.

Lastly, you are still young but just know that if you don't wake up with morning boners, then it's definitely a biological issue and not a psychological one so that needs to be addressed. Otherwise, you are ok.

I observed that too man... there is a new jontex (skin to skin), that works fine for me. There is another that didn't work at all and even goes out when I'm using it... like slipping off. It seems that it tightens more and in addition to hinders the erection ends up coming out more easily.

About sexual compatibility I noticed that too... I tend to like more of affectionate women than those very horny/selvage on sex. When there is a good kiss and it goes slowly, I get really turned on.

I usually have those morning boners, some days I don't have... Mostly when I'm not happy or feeling energized. Depressed days seems to destroy it. But when I'm eating healthy, sleeping well... I have it almost everyday.
 

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Just to clarify, unless you have very low testosterone, "1 tablet" can mean several things. I recommend 25mg or less. They come in 25, 50, 100mg doses. If you take a high dose, it can leave you with a headache or feeling of being flush.
Gonna keep that in mind!
 

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A while ago I ordered generic Viagra (sildenafil), I wasn't aware of the different mg dosages, I took 100mg and another 100mg 3 hours later. I was a maniac with the chick I was seeing lol. Like He-Man used to say as he lifted his sword....."I Have The POWERRR!!!". it was over for that girl.

My heart was beating a bit fast but luckily my body was able to handle it. I wouldn't try that dosage again though lol.

I've also taken 40mg of Cialis (Tadalafil). The performance was incredible but the next day.... Oh man... I had the most massive headache anyone could imagine. That sh!t lasted all day. Brutal.
Did you have headaches only with Cialis?
 

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Well.... i went from an average of maybe 1 or 2 times a month with my ex of 25yrs (it picked up a bit near the end but i think it eas guilt sex and sex was always one and done kinda deal which sucked)... to 4 or 5 times a night with my new gf i have currently.....

i had slept with a few women since my ex (been outa my marriage for 2yrs coming this april) but find myself really liking this lady whos come back into my life that used to be my grade 10 science lab partner back when i first met my wife... this lady is hot... loves hunting and shooting guns.. loves fishin... same age as me.. she likes gaming.. loves reading.... kid is grown and gone.. chemisty is unreal... she has me fkn her over n over n over.... she has had her internals removed and says that every now and then she needs to cvm 4 or 5 times in a day cuz she gets a weird cramp inside her thats only relieved by a couple good orgasms and then she nearly squirts.. she does this either herself (which shes shown me and she knows herself well) or from me (which she has guided me to how to best make things work for her)... and either way... its fkn hot... ill take it... not even interested in anyone else currently... she communicates well ... directs me to what she needs most... no fkn around... gets to the point... and once done... doesnt take long for me to be rdy for round 2 or 3 or 4... fk... blows my mind... have to check and see if i am dreaming.. man she has stamina.... guna go see her tomorrow and spend the weekend lol.. fk ya!
Thats great man!

I have some girls that I felt a very big connection and sex was great. This is a good one to keep.
 
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