I banged this girl while she came to my town for work. We have been texting for a couple months beforehand. There's some attraction. We both have relationships. She claims to have a bf from okcupid but I call bull**** and called her out for it (of course she claims he's real). After she went home we kept contact, until one day she deleted me from wechat (mainland china chat application). The following is a case study of text game.
[I sent a request friend to her on wechat with the message "seriously?" after realizing the block, and then the convo continues on gchat]
Lizard: 我只是想克制一下给你发wechat的temptation而已 fb没有defriend啊…
[Translate: I just wanted to control my temptation to message you on wechat...I didn't defriend you on facebook ah (ah is an emphasis to be cute)]
[Folks, this nothing more than a **** test. She blocked me before on facebook, I destroyed her, she unblocked me, and now she's pulling another test. Amazing what women will think when the hamster is running]
me: gchat, skype, linkedin...and it'll be a full rotation [nonchalance]
Lizard: don't think that's necessary for now…
[she's trying to establish the frame in her favor. "I will block you as I please"]
me: whatever, do what you wish and expect the same from me [give her a sense of being butthurt, but at the same time not falling into her frame]
Lizard: this was exactly how i responded when i don't know what to expect from you... [She's shifting blame to me now]
me: i find it humorous, really [neg, calling her out for being childish]
Lizard: WHATEVER [hamster spinning]
me: oh look our first fight
how cute [neg]
few hours later, morning for her, night for me
me: saw this girl on the metro today
red scarf, black down jacket, black stockings, brown boots
thought it was you for a sec
then i was like nah. no LV bag
[Important to set up the frame for later convo. I am engraining in her mind that she is no different from other girls.[
me: anyway, either take me off of everything or don't do it at all. don't half ass it [My way or the highway. I'm not ****ing around. Show her who's the boss]
Lizard: 你不是说觉得这个好笑吗 干嘛又来逼我[Translate: i thought you said it was funny, why are you forcing me?]
Lizard: my head says one thing but my heart says another...
现在想不通 所以就先不想了[Translate: I can't make up my mind, so I'd rather just no think about it at all]
[At this point she realizes that i'm calling her out on her **** test. power now shifts to me. next comes the nuclear neg]
me: lizard, if you're going to act like all the other girls then i will treat you as such, e.g. pulling this twice. fool me once shame on me, fool me twice...you can finish the rest
[This will set off her hamster running on roids. This simple sentence establishes many things and is enough to get her dripping wet. 1 - I have experienced enough women to know their **** 2 - I am calling her out as being just another girl and women ****ing HATE it. 3 - I decide how they are treated (asserting dominance). 4. How exactly do I treat those girls that is different from how I treat her? (ambiguity) ]
Lizard: 我在骗你?! [I am lying to you?!]
me: 我不管你偏不骗我 [I don't care if you're lying]
Lizard: why the hell you said 'acting all the other girls'
now u have more to explain
[Another **** test. Hamster is spinning, what does he mean? is he seeing other girls right now? is he lying? how's he going to treat me?]
me: nah [don't ever do what a woman tells you]
Lizard: it's you that fooled me. but ironically i let u
me: my explanation requires mr.egg which is no longer available
[Mr.egg is a sticker in wechat (which she blocked me)]
Lizard: !!! "you ass" say it here or never
[Another **** test, hamster wheels slowly coming off]
me: it. why do you put quotes around it[be more of an ass, then reframe]
Lizard: you said me that once. 我把它还给你
你无赖~[translate: i'm returning the favor, *******]
me: yeah do you remember why
Lizard: 嗯i blocked you on fb
[call her out on her previous antics]
Lizard: you are just changing the subject
me: you let me because you want to be...loved...no irony about it...
Lizard: so you are basically saying im getting fooled. you can say it
me: why? i'm the one getting fooled...
[make her the bad guy]
Lizard: isn't there an explanation you still need to make?
你最有经验了 我哪里骗得了你 [translate: you're the most experienced, how can I possibly fool you?]
me: you deleted me from weixin. what explanation is there for me to make?
[continue to call her out, do not answer her question]
Lizard: and we are still talking and you are not the one who gets bothered by the fact i deleted it
if you're going to act like all the other girls then i will treat you as such,
now... see why it's for you
Lizard: explanation is for you to make *
me: why do you want to know so bad
[hamster wheels continue to come off. it can't stop]
Lizard: maybe im just helping you to see you have treated me like 'all the other girls'
me: well if you truly believe that
then i can give you some references and you can go find the truth yourself
[nonchalance
and did i say i treated you like all the other girls?
no i didn't, i said it after you pulled this stunt
[yet again, calling her out]
for one i don't go down on other girls
[reframe sexually]
Lizard: err i won't check that with your 'references'.... =.=
[at this point the wheels have come off for the final **** test, where most guys will ultimately fail and the ***** will shut for good]
Lizard: stating facts now? ok.. sleep with them? check. say sth that u'll never make it? check. wanna add more to the list? even you yourself said actions speak louder than words
Lizard: you know it hurts when i said these. but i know ur just finding these all amusing and 'humerous'
never saw someone stupid like this before right... or they are all the same
[wow. you can hear the shouting and feel the fake tears dripping down her face. when women become this emotional, you have succeeded in your game and you're moments away from claiming that ***** for good, as long as you don't **** it up. remember, never listen to a ****ing woman's words and never do what a woman says
me: are you adding more to the list or are you done?
Lizard: im done
[that's it folks. the ***** is now dripping]
me: guess what
me: If you were like the other girls i wouldnt even be talking to you right now
[show a hint of betatude]
Lizard: 你现在逃跑还来得及 >:-( > . < [translate: you can still go now]
me: ?
Lizard: 就是说 你现在还可以选择不理我[translate: meaning you can still choose to not talk to me, i can still handle it now]
me: No. [never do what a girl tells you to do]
Lizard: ur gonna get my heart broken. but i'll live with that.
[music to a man's ears. this girl is now mine to do whatever i want. she admits defeat, knows I am an ass and will **** her over, but STILL WANTS IT. a woman wants a man to be a man and stand up to her. you need to be that man.
me: i have glue as well
[at least it'll fly high and mighty before crashing to a million pieces will work as well
Lizard: kk
me: Stop talking im trying to sleep
Lizard: 你把手机关掉就好了嘛[just turn off your cell]
....晚安[me] [good night]
me: (-.-) mr.egg zzzzzzzzzzz
[I sent a request friend to her on wechat with the message "seriously?" after realizing the block, and then the convo continues on gchat]
Lizard: 我只是想克制一下给你发wechat的temptation而已 fb没有defriend啊…
[Translate: I just wanted to control my temptation to message you on wechat...I didn't defriend you on facebook ah (ah is an emphasis to be cute)]
[Folks, this nothing more than a **** test. She blocked me before on facebook, I destroyed her, she unblocked me, and now she's pulling another test. Amazing what women will think when the hamster is running]
me: gchat, skype, linkedin...and it'll be a full rotation [nonchalance]
Lizard: don't think that's necessary for now…
[she's trying to establish the frame in her favor. "I will block you as I please"] me: whatever, do what you wish and expect the same from me [give her a sense of being butthurt, but at the same time not falling into her frame]
Lizard: this was exactly how i responded when i don't know what to expect from you... [She's shifting blame to me now]
me: i find it humorous, really [neg, calling her out for being childish]
Lizard: WHATEVER [hamster spinning]
me: oh look our first fight
how cute [neg]
few hours later, morning for her, night for me
me: saw this girl on the metro today
red scarf, black down jacket, black stockings, brown boots
thought it was you for a sec
then i was like nah. no LV bag
[Important to set up the frame for later convo. I am engraining in her mind that she is no different from other girls.[
me: anyway, either take me off of everything or don't do it at all. don't half ass it [My way or the highway. I'm not ****ing around. Show her who's the boss]
Lizard: 你不是说觉得这个好笑吗 干嘛又来逼我[Translate: i thought you said it was funny, why are you forcing me?]
Lizard: my head says one thing but my heart says another...
现在想不通 所以就先不想了[Translate: I can't make up my mind, so I'd rather just no think about it at all]
[At this point she realizes that i'm calling her out on her **** test. power now shifts to me. next comes the nuclear neg]
me: lizard, if you're going to act like all the other girls then i will treat you as such, e.g. pulling this twice. fool me once shame on me, fool me twice...you can finish the rest
[This will set off her hamster running on roids. This simple sentence establishes many things and is enough to get her dripping wet. 1 - I have experienced enough women to know their **** 2 - I am calling her out as being just another girl and women ****ing HATE it. 3 - I decide how they are treated (asserting dominance). 4. How exactly do I treat those girls that is different from how I treat her? (ambiguity) ]
Lizard: 我在骗你?! [I am lying to you?!]
me: 我不管你偏不骗我 [I don't care if you're lying]
Lizard: why the hell you said 'acting all the other girls'
now u have more to explain
[Another **** test. Hamster is spinning, what does he mean? is he seeing other girls right now? is he lying? how's he going to treat me?]
me: nah [don't ever do what a woman tells you]
Lizard: it's you that fooled me. but ironically i let u
me: my explanation requires mr.egg which is no longer available
[Mr.egg is a sticker in wechat (which she blocked me)]
Lizard: !!! "you ass" say it here or never
[Another **** test, hamster wheels slowly coming off]
me: it. why do you put quotes around it[be more of an ass, then reframe]
Lizard: you said me that once. 我把它还给你
你无赖~[translate: i'm returning the favor, *******]
me: yeah do you remember why
Lizard: 嗯i blocked you on fb
[call her out on her previous antics]
Lizard: you are just changing the subject
me: you let me because you want to be...loved...no irony about it...
Lizard: so you are basically saying im getting fooled. you can say it
me: why? i'm the one getting fooled...
[make her the bad guy]
Lizard: isn't there an explanation you still need to make?
你最有经验了 我哪里骗得了你 [translate: you're the most experienced, how can I possibly fool you?]
me: you deleted me from weixin. what explanation is there for me to make?
[continue to call her out, do not answer her question]
Lizard: and we are still talking and you are not the one who gets bothered by the fact i deleted it
if you're going to act like all the other girls then i will treat you as such,
now... see why it's for you
Lizard: explanation is for you to make *
me: why do you want to know so bad
[hamster wheels continue to come off. it can't stop]
Lizard: maybe im just helping you to see you have treated me like 'all the other girls'
me: well if you truly believe that
then i can give you some references and you can go find the truth yourself
[nonchalance
and did i say i treated you like all the other girls?
no i didn't, i said it after you pulled this stunt
[yet again, calling her out]
for one i don't go down on other girls
[reframe sexually]
Lizard: err i won't check that with your 'references'.... =.=
[at this point the wheels have come off for the final **** test, where most guys will ultimately fail and the ***** will shut for good]
Lizard: stating facts now? ok.. sleep with them? check. say sth that u'll never make it? check. wanna add more to the list? even you yourself said actions speak louder than words
Lizard: you know it hurts when i said these. but i know ur just finding these all amusing and 'humerous'
never saw someone stupid like this before right... or they are all the same
[wow. you can hear the shouting and feel the fake tears dripping down her face. when women become this emotional, you have succeeded in your game and you're moments away from claiming that ***** for good, as long as you don't **** it up. remember, never listen to a ****ing woman's words and never do what a woman says
me: are you adding more to the list or are you done?
Lizard: im done
[that's it folks. the ***** is now dripping]
me: guess what
me: If you were like the other girls i wouldnt even be talking to you right now
[show a hint of betatude]
Lizard:
你现在逃跑还来得及 >:-( > . < [translate: you can still go now]me: ?
Lizard: 就是说 你现在还可以选择不理我[translate: meaning you can still choose to not talk to me, i can still handle it now]
me: No. [never do what a girl tells you to do
]Lizard: ur gonna get my heart broken. but i'll live with that.
[music to a man's ears. this girl is now mine to do whatever i want. she admits defeat, knows I am an ass and will **** her over, but STILL WANTS IT. a woman wants a man to be a man and stand up to her. you need to be that man.
me: i have glue as well
[at least it'll fly high and mighty before crashing to a million pieces will work as well
Lizard: kk
me: Stop talking im trying to sleep
Lizard: 你把手机关掉就好了嘛[just turn off your cell]
....晚安[me] [good night]
me: (-.-) mr.egg zzzzzzzzzzz
