"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The POWER of shopping bags

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Lol, yeah it's something I've been noticing.

I can't put my finger on it, but have any of you guys noticed this too? That when you're loaded w/ shopping bags, maybe 2-3 high budget bags you get more Indicators of Interest?

Maybe it's just me, but I've always got this. Hell, This HB.7 girl and her chuckling friends at the store followed me to my bus stop until I had to just approach her and number close. She was in such joy that I finally did.

After she got on her bus, she done this epic 3'60 head turn. Now I don't usually get this much Indicators, but today I was drenched in it.

Its either shopping bags - indicating something to women that I can't explain or its that I've been minding my own for the last couple of weeks, career-wise (new job) and they're just noticing my added confidence?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The first thing that comes to mind isn't that you shop at high end places for your stuff it's the fact these women are picking up on your high end bags and this might red flag golddiggers unless your pockets are deep enough go with the flow. But if you don't have deep pockets and only saved for some finder things for yourself these interested women will be gone faster then you can say care for a Burger King whooper.

So to sum it up thread carefully unless your into golddiggers and have the budget to keep them up.
 

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Displays of money or power are the ultimate stimulant for the average girl. Sorry, just a fact. A gold digger is a term used by bitter guys stuck in Middle American hell.
 

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BigJimbo, why are you sorry most men know this is a fact about women.


What is Middle American hell?



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Displays of money or power are the ultimate stimulant for the average girl. Sorry, just a fact. A gold digger is a term used by bitter guys stuck in Middle American hell.
 

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Capodeciña said:
Lol, yeah it's something I've been noticing.

I can't put my finger on it, but have any of you guys noticed this too? That when you're loaded w/ shopping bags, maybe 2-3 high budget bags you get more Indicators of Interest?

i have noticed that any indicator of wealth increases the interest of females..duh.. its part of the human mating dynamic..lol
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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NO. I've had and worn some of the best expensive designer clothing out there, yet when I ended up getting a number, it wasn't mentioned nor did it affect my game advantage.

I've worn just a t-shirt, plain jeans and skate sneakers before with particular shopping bags and gotten ton loads of IOI'S rather than what I had on indicating wealth.

Minority women? What ..?
 

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She really turned her head 360 degrees? Did she also have green skin, a deep manly voice and was her name Linda Blair? You may have to do the "exorcism" routine on her after you see those IOIs.

But seriously, I doubt the girl's were really turned on by the shopping bags. I DO know girls that like particular clothing on guys. For example I know a girl that only shops at American Eagle and likes their clothes on guys. A girl appreciates a guy with a good fashion sense.
 

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What the f*ck? Shopping bags? Are you serious? If anything, shopping bags are fagish, whenever I buy sh*t from the mall I always roll mine up so it's not swinging around, advertising the store and making me look like a woman.
 

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Dude, it's not just shopping bags.
Holding anything.
Even holding a simple Coke.

Wow, haha wtf does this even mean :D.

Edit: If I had to try explain this, it's that humans are naturally curious about what you're holding.
They will first be interested in what you're holding and consequentially the person doing the holding.
It's like when you ride a bike as opposed to walking and people in their cars seem a lot more interested in you.
This could really be quite useful :).
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Capodeciña said:
Lol, yeah it's something I've been noticing.

I can't put my finger on it, but have any of you guys noticed this too? That when you're loaded w/ shopping bags, maybe 2-3 high budget bags you get more Indicators of Interest?

Maybe it's just me, but I've always got this. Hell, This HB.7 girl and her chuckling friends at the store followed me to my bus stop until I had to just approach her and number close. She was in such joy that I finally did.

After she got on her bus, she done this epic 3'60 head turn. Now I don't usually get this much Indicators, but today I was drenched in it.

Its either shopping bags - indicating something to women that I can't explain or its that I've been minding my own for the last couple of weeks, career-wise (new job) and they're just noticing my added confidence?
I think it's the shopping bags. Seriously, and they're high end too?! Bro, it seems these girls think you're rich. Any display of wealth will attract a girl. I was in Stonecrest mall (For those in Lithonia, Georgia, east of Atlanta on I-20) and I saw an average dude with 3 hot babes with him. It looked like he had nothing to offer at first glance. I went out to the parking lot and I saw him out there too, getting in a Maserati, that is!

Case and point.
 

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Capodeciña said:
After she got on her bus, she done this epic 3'60 head turn. Now I don't usually get this much Indicators, but today I was drenched in it.
:crackup: You are so gay, dude. You sound like mix_master. Girls are doing their best Linda Blair impersonations just because you got her number, huh? Did she puke pea soup, as well?
 

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This has to be a joke topic.
 

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:crackup: You are so gay, dude. You sound like mix_master. Girls are doing their best Linda Blair impersonations just because you got her number, huh? Did she puke pea soup, as well?
Mix_Master!!

Are you sh!ting me. Out of all of the 68,0000 users, he said MIX_MASTER :crackup: :crackup: :up:

Yes I'm also gay, thus why I'm on So Suave trying to better-myself with females. You democratic scientific reasearcher. Have you got that source for why looks don't matter yet? Why isit always a shot away with you man, when you do eventually provide evidence of inane claims, eliminating you're SAT grammar would be great too.

360 girl had GREEN SKIN, Antennas and a HUGE BUTT with trillions of nipples. She did the 360 head turn and said "Take me to you're leader .." so I got the number-close. God, it's a expression, an EXPRESSION. :rolleyes:

Here ....:flowers:

MY rule #1 - "Don't listen to what frustrated chumps say, look at what they do in-field .."
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Capodeciña said:
MY rule #1 - "Don't listen to what frustrated chumps say, look at what they do in-field .."
Not my rule number one, but one of them:

Don't take anyone who uses pickup jargon the slightest bit seriously.
 

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Just a Shot Away said:
Yeah, I didn't get that part either...heh.

Why is this Kurt Angle look-alike still brushing my nuts?

You came here in October 2009, claim to be WBAFC, supposedly think you're ABOVE AVERAGE IN LOOKS because some college campus girls said so, yet you harp on telling the whole board that looks don't matter because of charles darwin's science and when challenged for sources, you fold like a beach chair?

I have no quarrel with you. Thus why I AMOGED you in my last post above. I'm just going to agree with you, like a wifey.

:moon:
 

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Why is this Kurt Angle look-alike still brushing my nuts?

You came here in October 2009, claim to be WBAFC, supposedly think you're ABOVE AVERAGE IN LOOKS because some college campus girls said so...
Kurt Angle? Really? I don't see it, but that works. I didn't think I was that muscular, heh. Oh, btw...I'm not basing it off of the girls that screamed at me out of their car the other day. This is based on 25 years of comments and other non-verbal cues.

yet you harp on telling the whole board that looks don't matter because of charles darwin's science and when challenged for sources, you fold like a beach chair?
Cute analogy, but unfortunately for you...it's completely unfounded. The last time someone "challenged me for sources" was a few months ago, and I promptly responded with this link: http://hubpages.com/hub/The-single-g...ty--confidence.

I have no quarrel with you. Thus why I AMOGED you...
:crackup: You're really trying to act tough by saying you're going around "AMOG"ing guys on an Internet message board? Really, dude?
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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