"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Power of Not Caring

JohnChops

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zinc4 said:
And women will always complain that a guy who broke her heart that he was an ******* that didn't care about her.....but at the same time they will bang him as soon as he wants her back or at the very least were putty in his hand at the time...moral of the story...be above the woman so you are on the pedasel and not her....no woman wants a guy they feel above and they will never feel above you subconsciously if you care less than they do...just learn not to care...

I have also noticed that when my GF at whatever time is saying i don't care enough about her that is when i have the most power in the relationship...it is also a huge blow to their ego when you aren't smothering them like most of their exes did and they are forced to become the pursuers in the relationship...really, i am not trying to brag but i am great in relationships because i am always the one who cares the least...getting them in the first place is much more difficult to me...
funny you mention that bold part in here zinc. I had this girl (before i even came here) that i would text and text and text non stop for weeks on end. We never ran out of things to talk about but she never wanted to meet up. Me being my old self didnt understand where I went wrong. So I stopped contacting her and within 2 weeks she texted me saying a bunch of sh1t about how she missed me and stuff. I was blatant and said " no no you got it all wrong, you miss me jerking off your ego :D " then continued to ignore. ( i found SS the first week after i stopped contacting her )

Its funny how women keep guys around to stroke their ego, and when we stop contacting/caring/show less interest in them they wonder if its something wrong with them and why isnt this guy acting like the rest.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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yes very true probably the most true thing ive ever heard. ive been giving her too much attention, now imma just be cool, and ignore her for a while. lets see.....
 
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