"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Power of Next

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Weezy

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Just had a breakthrough on my journey...

I've read so many posts on here of guys that don't want to go NC, or don't want to listen to advice of "Nexting a person". I've also read people get upset that everyone always says 'Next' instead of trying to solve the problem.

I've been "forced" to next a couple of times lately out of lack of female respect. The first time it really hurt... The next time I knew I would get over it, so it didn't sting me near as much.

Then I realized that until you conquer your fear of nexting, you'll never ever be able to apply the other fundamentals of a DJ.. The reason being simply because you will be run by that fear of being rejected / or having to next and not be able to keep up the frame of being the prize.

It's just like NL poker.

If you don't have the balls to call someone out on their bluff for fear you could lose everything.. They will continue to bluff you until you truly are left with nothing. You earn respect at the table by having the balls to call people on their ****.

The same is true with women.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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underoath777

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Sooooo true my man. I nexted a girl last Saturday. It suckkkkeedddd.

Now I'm over it, and I realize I can do A LOT better. I truly feel better that I didn't waste another day thinking about her.

Moving on now...
 
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Trader

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Weezy said:
Just had a breakthrough on my journey...


Then I realized that until you conquer your fear of nexting, you'll never ever be able to apply the other fundamentals of a DJ.. The reason being simply because you will be run by that fear of being rejected / or having to next and not be able to keep up the frame of being the prize.
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Yes - what makes a man a true Alpha Male is the you are fearless of being rejected by a girl. If a girl rejects you, who cares. You know some girls out there will like your style.

If you are truly the Prize, you will be able to walk away. And if you are able to walk away from a beautiful girl, then you really are in the top 1% of all guys out there.
 
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jnice48146

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Nice post, I love the poker analogy. It couldn't be more true!
 
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